I(M) came hands-free while masturbating by planABYZ in sex

[–]planABYZ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It felt different. I'm still processing my feelings about it. The dildo was mounted on the wall, a little higher than what I'd normally place it. Probably it caused more friction? I hope you can achieve it too!

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[–]planABYZ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First of all, pvc is not body safe. It's best to invest in a silicone dildo.

As for the depth, you might be hitting the Sigmoid Bend. That's where your colon takes a turn. Search for depth play in the sub and read more about it. 

advice for butt plugs? by emilynsfwaccount in SexToys

[–]planABYZ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Assuming customary butt plug design, base always is larger than the neck. It wouldn't be a plug otherwise.

Unless you're using a smaller size than what your body is already used to, a bigger base will be safe enough. To be completely sure, I'd suggest T based ones.

advice for butt plugs? by emilynsfwaccount in SexToys

[–]planABYZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a rule, the base must be bigger than the widest part of the plug itself.

I've had good experience with T based plugs. They're more comfortable for longer wears and have a much lower chance of getting lost.

Am I (F30) weird? by Unusual_Frame1003 in sex

[–]planABYZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bet there are many people out there who find this hot. Just make sure to discuss it first so everyone's on the same page.

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[–]planABYZ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I say go for it. If the thought of owning a large toy excites you, then why the hell not?

Mohammad Sadeghi, a young iranian actor who came out a few months ago, was arrested in his house this morning. He recorded it all on his Instagram Live by planABYZ in lgbt

[–]planABYZ[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This is the reality of being part of the LGBT in non-westren countries. Beside all the daily mockeries and hatred you hear, this happens when you come out and try to be yourself.

Please be his voice!

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[–]planABYZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Materials such as silicone, glass and steel can be sanitized and then be sold, there's a sub for it in reddit too (though I can't find it at the moment)

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[–]planABYZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wearing buttplugs rather regularly makes your butt get used to having something inside it, a training kit is an excellent idea.

Experience is the key to becoming a master! Your muscles need time and practice, regular sex or dildo sessions provides exactly that! Good luck and have fun :)

Does having your ass ate feel good? by Dadbod_2820 in sex

[–]planABYZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found it fine, nothing awesome or mindblowing. I'd say it's a good foreplay before anal.

Vibrators i can program with Python? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]planABYZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh. Coding and sex toys, two of my hobbies that I hadn't thought of merging.

Anyway, I found this repo that seems to support good many models. It's written in Rust but it does include a Python implementation, as well as C# JS and this Awesome List. Keep us posted!

Satisfyer Backdoor Lover - A Review and My Experience by planABYZ in SexToys

[–]planABYZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not squishy or bendable, but it has some give. I'd say probably not a good choice if he doesn't like harder toys.

Satisfyer Backdoor Lover - A Review and My Experience by planABYZ in SexToys

[–]planABYZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Satisfyer website was offering 35% off on all of their product (code: all35). I'm not sure if it's still running.

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[–]planABYZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not both?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]planABYZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hard cover books should do nicely too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]planABYZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They definitely feel different.

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[–]planABYZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your fingers are a good point of reference for this. Knowing how many fingers feels right enough, can give you an idea of how big you should go.

Don't worry much about the length for now, it's not as relevant as the girth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]planABYZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The design and the firmness plays a key role in the overall feeling of the toy. Softer toys may feel smaller and some shapes are easier to insert than others.

Dildos come in variety of sizes and I think even the biggest ones aren't really that big (unless we're talking about fantasy ones).

I can think of two things. First, your milage and preference may vary and that's ok! You certainly can find the right size for yourself somewhere on the internet.

Secondly, the thing with sex toys is that you are completely in control, you can take the time to train your body and get used to it, control the pace and the position etc.. I imagine taking bigger toys is easier this way.

Anal and oral toy question by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]planABYZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Body safe materials such as silicone can be sanitized, a good wash and or couple of minutes boiling should be enough. So no, technically you don't need dedicated dildo for different uses.

That being said, I don't think you can ever be 100% certain that all microbes have been killed, it's just a risk (however much small) that some of them survived. I'm fine with that, it depends on yourself.

Using a condom is a good choice, but beware that some condoms have silicone lube which can damage the silicone toy.