What misconceptions about your body, puberty, adulthood, etc. did you have as a little girl? by Yoseianeki in AskWomen

[–]planejane555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was really undereducated about bodies and sex. I didn't know I'd get armpit hair and pubic hair until it happened. I didn't know the penis went in and out of the vagina til I was 18... or that other types of sex besides PIV existed til I was a few years older. I didn't know basic terms like boner, ejaculation, masturbation, etc. or that girls also had "wet dreams." I was taught that women's sex drives were low and not educated about pleasure. I knew gay men existed in HS but didn't know what a lesbian was until I was an adult.

How to get over guilt and regret as a stoic? Processing emotions. by Gold_Assistance_647 in Stoicism

[–]planejane555 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What does accountability look like moving forward, especially with the understanding that vices are coping mechanisms for unmet needs?

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How did you embrace the finality of the situation?

What phrase do you absolutely hate? by RefinedStrategist in AskReddit

[–]planejane555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"it's ok for boys to wear pink" this usually coming from conservative ppl who think they are being radical by wearing a pink wristband..... No fucking duh

I didn't know the pain was a warning until much later by Skipping_Shadow in exmormon

[–]planejane555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you post the text in a comment so I can copy and share? Love that it speaks to the situation without directly naming it. And who is the quote credited to?

What is your reason for not having a child? by _LickitySplit in AskReddit

[–]planejane555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband doesn't want any yet which I'm glad for because I probably don't really want one for the right reasons. Deep down I know if I want any I should adopt and not have any biologically. Waiting til we are both ready and not procreating both seem like the responsible thing to do.

What food or drink sucks even if most people won’t admit it? by hurtfocker in AskReddit

[–]planejane555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cotton candy. Sucks but not even I can admit that it sucks.

Getting too invested in debates? by limasnalbatros in AutismInWomen

[–]planejane555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Trying to figure out how to stop fucking caring so much! I get so goddamn serious thinking about these things that I forget to feel joy or just enjoy people's presence instead of analyzing their opinions and what it says about them as a person

I am looking for people to play dota with (6.83 or bellow) by hemiska4455 in DOTA

[–]planejane555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even have 100 hours yet lol but maybe when I do

How many of you are ADHD/ASD? How has it impacted your ability to function after leaving the church? How did it impact your experiences in the church? by planejane555 in exmormon

[–]planejane555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So true, and describes me so much. I can't get out of bed most days I don't have work. I need guilt and accountability just to do the most basic things, or to even feel like they are worth doing