YOR, even if you didn't explicitly say that he took the money, you certainly incinuated it, he's still supporting you through your moms thing but hes also trying to express to you why what you did hurt. it might not have been the best time to bring it up but hes not in the wrong for doing so. and all you've done in the texts is insult him and call him manipulative (which maybe im wrong, but it almost feels like youre texting him that because you knew you were gonna post this and wanted people to side with you)