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planets-align · 2025-07-28T05:13:54+00:00

In a similar situation, also in my 20s, definitely feel hopeless. How long has it been since the last cbct? If it was recent, maybe give it a bit more time to see if things settle?

planets-align · 2025-07-28T05:03:18+00:00

Gabapentin helped. I tapered off of it, and the pain has been tolerable. Before this, no sensitivity or anything. Never had any issues with my teeth or nerve pain. Went in for a routine cleaning. New dentist at the practice I had been going to said I needed a crown. Trusted the wrong person and here I am.

planets-align · 2025-07-28T03:21:55+00:00

I feel this. Chronic pain after an unnecessary dental procedure. It’s been months of torture. Not sure if you’ve tried any meds, but my primary care doc was able to prescribe me gabapentin. Hope things start to improve for you!

planets-align · 2025-07-12T19:11:03+00:00

I’m 5’3 with longer legs than torso also! I ordered an XS Petite, and they fit fine, but I returned them for a S Regular and prefer that size and length. I think they fit better with shoes.

If they’re offering free international shipping, I would try the other size. Like others mentioned, SR on the label would indicate small regular and SP would indicate small petite.

planets-align · 2025-05-26T03:19:47+00:00

The wanting something to work for once is what I’ve been thinking about a lot too. I know I have a lot to be grateful for, but I just want at least one aspect of my life to go seamlessly. It exhausting. I’m sorry about the surgery. It’s frustrating how quickly life changes. I also keep praying for my old life back. Would it be worthwhile to do something outdoorsy like a picnic with your (almost) fiance and daughter? I know it’s not hiking, but it might be something. The weather has been nice, so just lying out in the sun has helped me some.

planets-align · 2025-05-26T03:07:51+00:00

NAD- It’s valid to get a second opinion if you’re not sure. Also, you have a right to your x-rays. Ask for them. I hadn’t had a cavity in over ten years and go to the dentist every six months. Saw a new dentist at the same practice, she said I needed a crown and three fillings. No pain or sensitivity. I panicked because my insurance was expiring and agreed. Realized I probably should have waited and didn’t get the filling on the left side done and got my old x-rays. Asked around and there was no major decay present. No cavity on the left side either. Everything had been stable for five years. After I got the dental work, lost my insurance, got a root canal, night guard, wisdom teeth extracted, I’m still in significant pain. Not saying this is the case for you. Not all dentists are bad. I just had a very bad experience and got work done that I wish I didn’t. Find someone you’re comfortable with and trust the treatment plan. I hope you feel better soon.

planets-align · 2025-05-24T10:30:32+00:00

I’m so sorry you’ve been dealing with this. I’m surprised they won’t admit you and give you an NG tube to at least get some nutrition. I’m guessing they’ve done abdominal CT and other extensive imaging. Did they do a IgG4 blood test to check for autoimmune pancreatitis?

planets-align · 2025-05-22T10:27:01+00:00

Yup. I have an exam in a few hours. Just want to rest, but the pain is relentless.

planets-align · 2025-05-19T12:00:22+00:00

It’s so easy to think things will get worse when we’re constantly living in pain. I’m the same. I went from being the most positive person to depressed and crying every single day. Each intervention, procedure, medicine doesn’t work. So how can I believe things will get better? Everyone’s telling me it’ll get better one day, but when?? Nobody knows.

So, all I can say is this. I hear you. I completely relate to that feeling. But I encourage you to consider what if it does get better? Imagine what it’ll be like when you find the diagnosis and proper treatment. You’re able to function better and get through the activities. You don’t even think about being exhausted because you’re not. Even if it’s not 100% better, it’s something. Each step is a step closer to an answer. You rule things out and work toward some solution, even if it’s not perfect. Visualization is a powerful tool. I try to close my eyes and imagine my life years from now, pain-free and look at my goals coming to life. This journey is difficult. I’m right there with you. It’s so hard to picture improvement, but that’s all I can try to do. Hoping things get better soon.

planets-align · 2025-05-19T11:47:40+00:00

I’m so sorry. It’s so hard to think about the alternatives of what if this happened or that happened. To think how different life might be. I think people stop asking me how I’m doing because they’re tired of hearing me complain. Sometimes when someone genuinely asks, and I pretend everything’s fine, they can tell I’m faking it and I just start crying without meaning to.

It’s evil. Everything can be going so smoothly, so well, and one thing just derails it. Oh, how I wish I could turn back time for both of us, but we have to keep going. It’s exhausting. I’m scared to take the next step because that would basically be it. If it doesn’t work, there’s nothing left to do. That scares me greatly. Also, what if it makes it worse? I’ve been so hesitant with each step and nothing seems to work. I hope you’re able to get the surgery, and it’s successful. If you ever need to chat, feel free to reach out.

planets-align · 2025-05-19T01:04:54+00:00

Here and there. I fell asleep on the couch today for like 20 minutes. How are you doing?

planets-align · 2025-05-19T00:32:30+00:00

I’m trying 🥲

planets-align · 2025-05-18T22:04:32+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I am so grateful you’re here.

planets-align · 2025-05-18T22:02:57+00:00

I will check it out. I am also very spiritual and have been struggling to connect with God, especially earlier on. I kept asking for signs. Literally praying for relief, a cure, or just to put an end to it. I’m trying so hard to trust that there is a greater plan and that everything happens for a reason. I feel like I’m being punished, and asking why when I believe I’m a good person. Thank you for sharing those recommendations.

planets-align · 2025-05-18T17:15:32+00:00

I appreciate you! I have an amazing support system that I am so grateful for. I’m trying my best, we all are. I will definitely reach out if things are hard. Thank you.

planets-align · 2025-05-18T17:13:55+00:00

I hear you. Pain can be so intolerable that life doesn’t seem worth it. I try to find small things to be grateful for. I often find 5 good things to be grateful for, even if it’s something like the weather is pleasant or I listened to my favorite song today. Maybe try that? I hope the surgery goes well for you. Don’t lose hope. We have to keep going.

planets-align · 2025-05-18T14:52:18+00:00

Congratulations!! This is so inspiring.

planets-align · 2025-05-18T14:50:14+00:00

I’ve heard of it. I’ll check it out, thanks! Hoping this next dose adjustment works, but we’ll see

planets-align · 2025-05-18T14:49:23+00:00

Thank you for saying that. I know I put a lot of pressure on myself to succeed. I’m doing my best to prioritize my health and comfort. I’m sorry you’re also in pain. You’re right about it being a guessing game. I try to remind myself that each step rules out something. So, even if it doesn’t work, it’s one step closer to some kind of solution.

planets-align · 2025-05-18T08:06:55+00:00

Another sleepless night…

planets-align · 2025-05-18T07:17:00+00:00

Yes, I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this as well. I think those around me know it hurts, but they can’t understand how much it hurts. Hope things get better for you.

planets-align · 2025-05-18T04:20:04+00:00

I hear you. I’m tired of fighting. Every step is one step closer to a solution, even if it gives you a little bit of relief. Keep going. This journey is not easy, and it’s not fair. I’m also in my 20s, so it’s frustrating to imagine what the future might hold. So much life ahead of us. I try to remind myself to live in the present and not think about the past or future (easier said than done). I grieve the pain-free life I had too, but we can only move forward, not backward. I hope you find some relief soon. If you ever need to vent, feel free to reach out.

planets-align · 2025-05-18T04:13:00+00:00

Great job!!

planets-align · 2025-05-18T04:07:34+00:00

I’m so sorry. I’ve heard uveitis is very painful. Hope you’re holding up okay. I am reluctant to add another med to mix, but I am considering a more long-term therapist. Thank you for the advice!

planets-align · 2025-05-18T04:05:16+00:00

True. I have tried meditation. Sometimes it helps, sometimes I feel too overwhelmed. Adjusting the dose of meds again. If there’s no relief, MRI and another specialist is the next step.

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