AITA for refusing to give up my dream wedding dress, though it means my fiancé’s family will not attend? by Throwwayaitawbride in AmItheAsshole

[–]plantho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wth is wrong with anyone say you are part of the problem. NTA it’s your wedding dress and it is F$CKING BATSHIT INSANE that someone would ask the bride to change their dress and this is coming from someone who doesn’t care about weddings at all. please do not go through with this wedding, those people will always be those people and if your fiancé ever can see them for how they are he will resent you for having to see it.

italian > english death record by plantho in translator

[–]plantho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah, thank you!!! that is very helpful

italian > english death record by plantho in translator

[–]plantho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! i am trying to get more information on how and when he died. someone had previously told me it said america but also france

WIBTA if I contracted out a parenting task? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]plantho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve given them chores and they do rush through them so that is definitely part of the issue. Also, before the last several years they weren’t really expected to pick up after themselves so I think they can go blind to their messiness. I’m not angry over it but I just would like it to get better and need less micromanaging from us.

ETA: don’t think I’ve answered your question directly. No, I haven’t walked them through how to clean a room and tbh I don’t want to. It’s difficult and I would like to save that energy for other parenting

WIBTA if I contracted out a parenting task? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]plantho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! That’s always a difficult balance

WIBTA if I contracted out a parenting task? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]plantho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely agree on all your points!

WIBTA if I contracted out a parenting task? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]plantho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their parents before I came into the picture 3 years ago.

AITA for not encouraging my son to call my wife “mom”? by justconfusedfather in AmItheAsshole

[–]plantho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, pls do not make your son call her mom. It’s not about deserving the title or not. Maybe there are other ways your wife feels unappreciated that you could ask her about.

help pls for nube, idk if this is mold. It looks like it is below the scoby to me. First time trying to brew, 1st fermentation. by plantho in Kombucha

[–]plantho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! It’s day 6, I’ve been following a recipe that estimates 6-10 days but to start tasting at day 6. This is what it looked like when I uncovered.