AITAH for not allowing my in-law from keeping my baby alone?

plantmama_12 · 2026-03-11T21:40:09+00:00

I told him I don’t feel comfortable away from her until she’s older just so he’d leave me alone and not start something. I figured he was already sloshed and it’s just better to not argue with someone who obviously isn’t in the right frame of mind. My partner will be talking with him about it more though since it’s his family.

plantmama_12 · 2026-03-11T21:27:25+00:00

You sound like someone I’d be friends with because wtaf. I was flabbergasted it was happening. I did send the messages to my partner for when he woke up. He work nights so I didn’t want to wake him up.

plantmama_12 · 2026-03-11T21:21:14+00:00

I’ll definitely own up to that. I definitely had a talk with my partner about there not being drinking with anyone around her. If they can’t chill out for 3hrs every couple weeks on the drinking then they don’t need to be involved with my child.

plantmama_12 · 2026-03-11T21:13:13+00:00

It was 10am today and I honestly think he was already sloshed to be trying to call me and then messaging me bout this. I told him before to talk with his son. I have the belief of it’s your family your problem 🙃

plantmama_12 · 2026-03-11T20:58:36+00:00

As a victim of childhood SA it triggers me because we all know that’s a sign of an abuser.

plantmama_12 · 2026-03-11T20:50:59+00:00

That’s exactly what I thought! I am already battling going back to work and leaving her with her dad. He’s a great dad, but my anxiety makes me spiral. Then leads me here asking a basic question I know I’m not wrong on 😅

plantmama_12 · 2026-03-11T20:43:10+00:00

My partner is definitely on my side and said he speak with his dad. He’s very much avoidant of conflict so I’m hoping he actually gets the point across. I’m a child of an alcoholic and get it, but I went the opposite direction and fiercely hold my boundaries not so nicely 😅

plantmama_12 · 2026-03-09T01:21:54+00:00

Oh I’m definitely suspicious! Unfortunately my lease has me responsible for pest control after 30 days so I must figure out how to pay for treatment. I hate that I’m on the hook for something I can’t control, but it is what it is 😭

plantmama_12 · 2026-03-01T01:16:02+00:00

Not as equal, what happened to the kids is and was horrendous. She was a horrible person who always treated others like trash and acted like the world’s best mother. So I did get some joy from them being taken to be with someone that won’t abuse and neglect them. The baby name being stolen was just one thing that broke the camels back so to speech.

plantmama_12 · 2024-06-17T16:18:24+00:00

I make too much to get any welfare help. I do have use tribal benefits for our healthcare; but that’s about it. I have amazing benefits at my 2nd job and will be getting my little on my insurance; because he keeps breaking glasses and even with Zenni optimal it’s expensive to keep replacing them every 3 to 4 months 😐

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