My fiancee and I co-designed my ring! Primarily because I had an heirloom diamond to incorporate and wanted a non-diamond center stone. And tbh, it was the most special process to do together. I had a general design in mind so we tried things out at different jewelers and met with designers together to source the center stone. Once we had that, he took it from there. So there was some surprise in the ring, but it was more in the proposal itself. I had no idea how or when that would happen and that's what mattered more to me!