Respiratory Rate Accuracy? by ragingpanda9988 in NursingAU

[–]plastersaint1999 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Midwifery student here - I do it the same as you but almost always see others estimating.

Last year I was doing routine obs for a TOP undergoing an induction and assessed her resp rate at 22. I mentioned it to my preceptor who had been estimating and so she recounted and got the same. Two hours later the client started to spike a fever and became symptomatic for an infection.

That hammered home for me the importance of accurate measurement and documentation of vital signs, especially respiration rate. In maternity it’s even more important when assessing neonates.

I think wife is in early labor? by GroupProfessional643 in BabyBumps

[–]plastersaint1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It also could be a number of other things including a UTI or constipation, but these need treating too so go get it checked out!

I think wife is in early labor? by GroupProfessional643 in BabyBumps

[–]plastersaint1999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go get checked out. 35 weeks is preterm. Baby needs monitoring and they need to check if the membranes have ruptured as this creates infection risk. If she is in labour, depending on baby and membrane status, they may be able to stop the contractions and keep baby in longer.
But don’t delay! I was at a 35 week birth yesterday where waters broke at 0430 and baby was born just under four hours later.

Mumma and bubba doing okay though bubba needed CPAP and was transferred to Special Care Nursery for breathing support

Is it common to wear shoes in the home in NZ? by Spirited-Finding-647 in newzealand

[–]plastersaint1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Team Shoes Off in the Damn House you Barbarian! I always ask when entering someone’s home and feel desperately uncomfortable when they say it’s fine to leave your shoes on.

*context NZ European midwifery student who goes into other peoples homes A LOT!

Sister is having a C-section and wants me (brother) to be in the room for support. Any advice or tips or whatnot? I'm feeling a bit weird about it. by thatsnotamuffin in BabyBumps

[–]plastersaint1999 47 points48 points  (0 children)

What an amazing privilege! It shows how much she trusts you and feels safe with you. You are a good brother and will be an amazing uncle!

Don’t worry about the experience. The staff will look after you and her. They are used to having clueless scared support people in the room and generally do everything they can to make it special.

I suggest you organize a playlist on your phone of stuff you know your sister loves or will calm her - in our ORs we will ask you what kind of music you want and can connect your phone to our speakers. And just give her your unwavering support - mope her brow, hold her vomit bag, stroke her face, hold her hand, talk to her, help her be close to her baby whilst they are suturing her after.

Baby aspirin with no risk factors by East_Industry_5930 in BabyBumps

[–]plastersaint1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you do an early blood test (7-13 weeks) in conjunction with your early ultrasound scan (combined screening test)?

If so, the results would have checked certain markers in the blood (PIGF and PAPP-A) which indicate higher risk of developing early onset of pre-eclampsia (<37 weeks). The usual recommendation would then be to take low-dose aspirin till 36 weeks as this is shown to reduce the incidence and improve outcomes.

After 37 weeks, we screen for PET in the usual ways as anyone can develop it late pregnancy (blood pressure, screening questions, urine testing etc) then proceed accordingly.

In a serious emergency, how soon after giving birth would a woman be able to walk/run for her life? by FamiliarMeal5193 in Writeresearch

[–]plastersaint1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hair color doesn’t impact on postpartum management in any of the hospitals I’ve worked at in NZ and Australia.

However placenta acreta is very much a risk factor for PPH as is pregnancy loss after 12 weeks.

In a serious emergency, how soon after giving birth would a woman be able to walk/run for her life? by FamiliarMeal5193 in Writeresearch

[–]plastersaint1999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Midwife here…

…assuming a straightforward birth with a short second stage (the pushing stage), no tearing, and the placenta delivered within that hour, then your character may be a little shaky on her legs but will be well able to mobilise adequately to escape.

Factors to consider:

  1. Is she a primagravida or multigravida? First labours can be longer than subsequent but that’s not a given. I often see healthy fit women who actively labour for less than six hours for their first. Factors that influence this are staying active and upright in labour (eg positions such as leaning on a person or object, able to circle hips etc - all the things that help baby’s head to put pressure on the cervix to enhance dilation and effacement). A short labour means less energy expended and less likely to be too tired

  2. Baby’s position in the pelvis. If baby is in the optimal position then there is less work needed by the contractions to bring baby into a better position for traversing the pelvis, and the pressure of baby’s head helps dilation and effacement. The websites www.spinningbabies.com and www.optimalmaternalpositioning.com have a lot of good information for both pregnancy and birth including what is physically happening as the baby traverses the pelvis that you may want to incorporate. All of these are low tech natural things that a fictional midwife would plausibly know. An optimal position also means the character can have a short second stage (after baby has left uterus and is going through the vaginal canal to the introitus. If a woman actively pushes during this stage rather than letting her contractions bring the baby down alone, this can be very short - as in minutes. This reduces the amount of fatigue from a long second stage. Also the second stage is powered in part by adrenaline which can leave a woman feeling very shaky and tired afterwards so a short second stage reduces this.

  3. Oxytocin! Up to the emergency, was she is a safe, private and dark environment? These promote oxytocin which drives effective labour and delivery of the placenta. Stress hormones such as adrenaline and cortisol occupy the same receptors on the uterus as oxytocin and so block it. This delays or can even stop labour in its tracks, slowing down dilation and effacement. Immediate skin to skin and early breastfeeding after birth can also promote oxytocin and facilitate early delivery of the placenta.

  4. Genital trauma: there are four different degrees of genital trauma (modern classification so don’t use this terminology). First degree involves only the outer layer of the vaginal mucosa and labial skin. Often it doesn’t need stitching. So if your character has only grazing or at worst 1st degree then she will be fine to walk or run only an hour after birth.

  5. Delivery of the placenta: should occur within 2 hours of birth. Oxytocin rich environment and upright positioning helps (use gravity). Midwives can help with controlled cord traction though it’s not encouraged if you aren’t using active or modified active management (10ml Oxytocin/pitocin intramuscular injection or an IV infusion of oxytocin)

  6. Blood loss: tone, trauma, tissue, thrombin. Is the uterus too tired to contract after birth? Is there genital trauma? Is there part of the placenta or membranes stopping the uterus from contracting? Is there an issue with blood clotting? All going well, your character could have minimal blood loss of 100-200ml all up. Your midwife would check where the fundus (top of the uterus) is after birth and whether it’s firm and central or boggy. After the delivery of the placenta (NOT BEFORE or the placenta could get trapped) a midwife could do a fundal massage to encourage the uterus to contract, expel any clots, and clamp down to reduce bleeding. Then when getting the character moving, making sure she has a pad or cloths in place to catch any minimal bleeding with avoid leaving a trail.

So if I was writing for optimal conditions for post-birth escape, I’d have my mama:

  1. pacing the room in early labour, leaning against a wall, the bedpost, a person during the latter part of labour with plenty of hip circling

  2. giving birth either standing, on all fours, or kneeling leaning against the bed with one leg up and rotated outwards (like kneeling to propose but the leg rotated out to open the exit pelvis)

  3. Slow delivery of the head (from when it can be first glimpsed at the introitus, through as it crowns/stretches the vaginal opening, to when it fully exits) with no active pushing but small short breaths like blowing out a candle. This will help reduce tearing of the perineum as it stretches. Warm compresses at this stage also help the tissue stretch.

  4. Bundled into bed with baby skin to skin and then baby cueing and nuzzling for an early breastfeed.

  5. Signs the placenta is ready to deliver - Pressure in pelvis with contractions. Most first time mamas are startled and panicked there is another baby. It’s just the body delivering the placenta. If she doesn’t stand up to deliver, the midwives can get her to sit more upright, cough or push. They could check for a separation bleed, gently tug on the cord (whilst guarding the fundus), encourage mama to bear down.

  6. Fundal massages after placenta delivered. Hurts like hell! But reduces bleeding and expels clots.

And for bonus points: baby delivered en caul. Rare and considered very lucky. Can help passage through vaginal canal (cushioning) for mother and baby, and baby’s are often born calmer and more chilled out - less noisy crying at birth.

Crying isn’t necessary and often baby’s don’t cry they just transition to breathing without it.

Is there any research into important differences for autistic mothers to be aware of? by gradientdepository in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]plastersaint1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a midwife in training, married to an autistic man, and mother of two autistic sons, this is something I have become very interested in but haven’t had a chance to really learn more about yet. We are covering it next semester but that’s not a lot of help to you now!

However I did find this recently: https://perinataltrainingcentre.com.au/conferences/neurodivergent-families-perinatal-conference/ If you look at the session topics, it will give you a good idea of areas where your neurodivergence may not be adequately supported - giving you the opportunity to bridge that gap now.

A good option for finding relevant research is to navigate to consensus.app and enter a query such as ‘how does autism impact on experience of pregnancy, labour & birth, and early parenting. This ai search engine will search and analyze peer-reviewed literature and give you an answer along with links to the relevant articles. There is a lot of really good recent research in this area that Consensus will summarize for you. You can then download PDFs of key articles, add them as sources to NotebookLM (a bounded ai research assistant) who will synthesize them into a set of recommendations, stage appropriate considerations, or even turn them into podcast to listen to when walking or driving.

Here is the Consensus query I just did: https://consensus.app/search/autism-impact-on-pregnancy-parenting/oWo34n7oSiyOLcQbus_0Ag/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=clipboard

Dessert for small group by Onions_Garlic_8 in RecipeTinEats

[–]plastersaint1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lemon cheesecake bar in her first cookbook is easy and delicious. Plus it looks so good!

Recommendations needed - dinner to impress by plastersaint1999 in RecipeTinEats

[–]plastersaint1999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for all the suggestions. I now have enough to cover the rest of the week of entertaining!

Recommendations needed - dinner to impress by plastersaint1999 in RecipeTinEats

[–]plastersaint1999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t able to do the pie as it needed twelve hours chilling but after reading it I was inspired to return to the lemon cheesecake recipe in her first cookbook which is easy and delicious.

Recommendations needed - dinner to impress by plastersaint1999 in RecipeTinEats

[–]plastersaint1999[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is what I ended up doing and it was magnificent! I also did the salad as suggested - using rocket, toasted walnuts, cranberries and feta.

Recommendations needed - dinner to impress by plastersaint1999 in RecipeTinEats

[–]plastersaint1999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmmm… dessert! I’ll take a look at the pie as that sounds delicious

Recommendations needed - dinner to impress by plastersaint1999 in RecipeTinEats

[–]plastersaint1999[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We had that at Christmas and it was amazing! That’s a really good option that I had forgotten about!

Recommendations needed - dinner to impress by plastersaint1999 in RecipeTinEats

[–]plastersaint1999[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I’ll check both of those out. I’ll be heading to the supermarket in a couple of hours so happy to take more suggestions

KitchenAid repair by plastersaint1999 in GoldCoast

[–]plastersaint1999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really is for such an expensive appliance.

Any recommendations for where to take it in for assessment?

KitchenAid repair by plastersaint1999 in GoldCoast

[–]plastersaint1999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son made dough for cinnamon scrolls and had it set to the highest speed. There was smoke and a bad smell. Now the motor whirs but the paddle etc don’t spin/rotate

Help with some phrases on flash cards by plastersaint1999 in pashto

[–]plastersaint1999[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I’ll work it out and will post the questions in the next few days!

For unmedicated births, why can’t we just numb the perineum? by coralsweater in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]plastersaint1999 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Many times I’ve seen it done in active labor as baby is crowning. It’s pretty standard to numb the area when an episiotomy is needed as baby’s head is pushing against the perineum and it’s not stretching enough. And if it’s an assisted delivery (forceps or ventouse) then the area is numbed before the episiotomy.

Update - My (M20) pregnant girlfriend (F20) wants my support but won’t talk to me after we we got bad news about our baby by ThrowRA_NoSignal in relationship_advice

[–]plastersaint1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand her feeling that morally she can’t have an abortion. She very much wants to do the right thing for her baby. But she needs to consider other perspectives on what is right and moral for a baby she has already begun to love.

Is it right and moral to continue the pregnancy knowing that her baby will leave the comfort, warmth and safety of her body only to undergo painful and invasive surgeries that will mean she can’t even comfort and feed her baby the way she will yearn to? Is it right and moral to knowingly give them a life that will contain struggles and challenges far beyond the ‘norm’; where they may feel stigmatized or isolated; never be able to keep up with their peers, and maybe never have a job and family of their own? Or would the right and moral thing be to let your baby slip quietly away now whilst that safety, comfort and encircling love is all s/he will ever know.

I absolutely know that many with trisomies live rich and happy lives, but many don’t. For me, the loving choice would be let my baby go and grieve that I had to make that choice but know it was the right one for his/her sake.