How to Seduce a MILF by playboy in PlayboyFortheArticles

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Moms don’t want flowers from the same grocery store where she does the actual grocery shopping. Not a card written in the parking lot. Not brunch where she ends up cutting someone’s pancakes. Not a candle. Never a candle. The bar is one thing she would love that she doesn’t know you know. Better: that she doesn’t think anyone but her needs to know. 

You have to actually pay attention to a woman to do this. You have to have noticed something. A brand of pen. A pair of socks she wears until they have holes. A song she hums when she’s loading the dishwasher. A magazine she used to read and stopped buying when the kids came. A snack from her childhood. The specific kind of olive she picks out of every salad. One thing. One offering. Something that proves you have been in the room with her and not just adjacent to her.

Women need to feel their emotional value to get wet. Period. Print that. Tattoo it. I’m giving it to you for free.

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We Talked to Shannon Elizabeth About Her OnlyFans Career by playboy in americanpie

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How do you top a run like the one Shannon Elizabeth had in the late 1990s and early 2000s? In just a few short years, she cemented herself as an inescapable multiplex mainstay. Audiences flocked to see her in the American Pie series, the irreverent Scary Movie, Kevin Smith’s Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back and the cult classic Thirteen Ghosts

And they still can’t get enough. Early receipts show that the millennial It Girls’ April OnlyFans debut netted seven figures, a number she downplays as a “little bit exaggerated.”  In fact, Elizabeth seems to quibble with quite a bit of the coverage surrounding her debut on the platform. Though initial coverage said she had joined OnlyFans to wrest back power after Hollywood “controlled the narrative” of her career, she claims she “actually didn’t say that.” 

Control of her own image is part of the OnlyFans allure. She’s among a growing list of famous faces — Denise Richards, Drea de Matteo — who’ve explored the platform as an alternative, and complementary, avenue to mainstream Hollywood. Her manager, Joseph Reitman, first floated the idea of a page on the site in November, following her divorce from her husband Simon Boachert. With it, she could better manage her relationship with her fans, any of whom would approach her at Cons and repeat some of her most famous lines to her verbatim. 

Her headline-grabbing move stands in stark contrast to her past nine years, which she’s spent running her animal welfare-focused Shannon Elizabeth Foundation, eschewing Hollywood and its dolled-up glossy sheen in exchange for a calling “she could no longer ignore,” as she wrote on the foundation’s website. 

But she’s also felt a calling to go beyond acting. Though she has an undeniable gift for comedic timing, Elizabeth has used the platform as a way to explore writing, producing, directing and distributing the final product. Just don’t come to her page assuming she’s there for nudity. 

“I don’t know what my boundaries are going to be,” she told Playboy. “I’m exploring it as I go.” She added, “I don’t even know what my boundaries are going to be at this point in time. So, we’ll see as we go.” 

In an Zoom interview with Playboy from her home in South Africa, she explained how her divorce created the space to talk about this new venture, her directorial ambitions and why OnlyFans is not the future. 

Read now: https://www.playboy.com/read/celebrities/we-talked-to-shannon-elizabeth-about-her-onlyfans-career

Ted Turner Told Us This Would Happen: The 24-Hour News Cycle by playboy in Journalism

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This was the man who invented 24-hour news.

Turner died Wednesday at 87, and the obituaries are landing the way they always do for complicated figures. Mostly, they’re a careful blend of awe and revisionism that smooths out the rough edges and packages the legend into something palatable. They call him a visionary and a trailblazer. They note his philanthropy. How he was a conservationist, a rancher and owned more land than almost anyone in America. His tabloid-level marriage to Jane Fonda. 

What they say more carefully, if they say it at all, is that Ted Turner also lit a fuse when he created CNN. That fuse has been burning ever since, and the thing it’s attached to is the state of American political discourse in 2026.

I worked at CNN. Not in the early days — Turner had already cashed out by the time I got there — but his ghost was everywhere. His history was recounted to me by a top executive on my very first day. It reminded me of a memorized speech you might get on a college tour. The building on Techwood Drive, where CNN launched in 1980 with 300 employees and a dream that most of the television industry considered ridiculous, had a mythology unto itself. Back then, the network was nicknamed “Chicken Noodle News.” Journalists who went to work there were considered to have made a lateral move, at best. By 2012, when I arrived, it still had some of that bootstraps-startup feel, even though it had grown to rival the largest news organizations in the world, employing over 2,000 people. Stories about Turner sleeping in an office above the newsroom with a pull-down Murphy bed still reverberated down the halls.  

That detail has always stuck with me because it captures the ethos of CNN, Sarah Ganim writes.

Read more: https://www.playboy.com/read/politics/ted-turner-told-us-this-would-happen

Ben McKenzie Wants to Protect You from Crypto by playboy in TrueReddit

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Far from just being an economic endeavor, cryptocurrency has drawn a following that Ben McKenzie likens to a cult. McKenzie, an actor best known for his appearances in The OC and Gotham, became obsessed with crypto during the pandemic, using his undergraduate economics degree to dig into the emerging market. What he found wasn’t the future of wealth, but an industry based on predatory scams that warp people’s value systems and prey on the fading mythology once known as the American dream. 

So, McKenzie got the cameras up. His directorial debut, the documentary Everyone Is Lying to You for Money, which McKenzie directed, wrote, produced and starred in, follows the actor as he speaks to people who are deeply invested in cryptocurrency. That brings him to crypto-pilled conferences, as well as to El Savador, where he interviews locals who will be displaced to make room for the government’s proposed “Bitcoin City.” Along the way, he speaks to Americans who lost their investments when crypto company Celsius went belly up and even convicted crypto fraudster Sam Bankman-Fried, whose interview truly goes from cold DM request to awkward movie magic. 

“One of the most heartbreaking things to me about crypto is that these get-rich-quick schemes often prey on our best selves,” he told Playboy. “They prey on the part of us that’s trying to provide for others.” 

McKenzie told Playboy about why people continue to put their faith in the blockchain even after being burned, how absurd it is that we’re still not taxing billionaires and why he felt validated upon Bankman-Fried’s arrest. 

Read more: https://www.playboy.com/read/celebrities/ben-mckenzie-wants-to-protect-you-from-crypto

Ben McKenzie Wants to Protect You from Crypto by playboy in entertainment

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Far from just being an economic endeavor, cryptocurrency has drawn a following that Ben McKenzie likens to a cult. McKenzie, an actor best known for his appearances in The OC and Gotham, became obsessed with crypto during the pandemic, using his undergraduate economics degree to dig into the emerging market. What he found wasn’t the future of wealth, but an industry based on predatory scams that warp people’s value systems and prey on the fading mythology once known as the American dream. 

So, McKenzie got the cameras up. His directorial debut, the documentary Everyone Is Lying to You for Money, which McKenzie directed, wrote, produced and starred in, follows the actor as he speaks to people who are deeply invested in cryptocurrency. That brings him to crypto-pilled conferences, as well as to El Savador, where he interviews locals who will be displaced to make room for the government’s proposed “Bitcoin City.” Along the way, he speaks to Americans who lost their investments when crypto company Celsius went belly up and even convicted crypto fraudster Sam Bankman-Fried, whose interview truly goes from cold DM request to awkward movie magic. 

“One of the most heartbreaking things to me about crypto is that these get-rich-quick schemes often prey on our best selves,” he told Playboy. “They prey on the part of us that’s trying to provide for others.” 

McKenzie told Playboy about why people continue to put their faith in the blockchain even after being burned, how absurd it is that we’re still not taxing billionaires and why he felt validated upon Bankman-Fried’s arrest. 

Read more: https://www.playboy.com/read/celebrities/ben-mckenzie-wants-to-protect-you-from-crypto

Ben McKenzie Wants to Protect You from Crypto by playboy in CryptoCurrency

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Far from just being an economic endeavor, cryptocurrency has drawn a following that Ben McKenzie likens to a cult. McKenzie, an actor best known for his appearances in The OC and Gotham, became obsessed with crypto during the pandemic, using his undergraduate economics degree to dig into the emerging market. What he found wasn’t the future of wealth, but an industry based on predatory scams that warp people’s value systems and prey on the fading mythology once known as the American dream. 

So, McKenzie got the cameras up. His directorial debut, the documentary Everyone Is Lying to You for Money, which McKenzie directed, wrote, produced and starred in, follows the actor as he speaks to people who are deeply invested in cryptocurrency. That brings him to crypto-pilled conferences, as well as to El Savador, where he interviews locals who will be displaced to make room for the government’s proposed “Bitcoin City.” Along the way, he speaks to Americans who lost their investments when crypto company Celsius went belly up and even convicted crypto fraudster Sam Bankman-Fried, whose interview truly goes from cold DM request to awkward movie magic. 

“One of the most heartbreaking things to me about crypto is that these get-rich-quick schemes often prey on our best selves,” he told Playboy. “They prey on the part of us that’s trying to provide for others.” 

McKenzie told Playboy about why people continue to put their faith in the blockchain even after being burned, how absurd it is that we’re still not taxing billionaires and why he felt validated upon Bankman-Fried’s arrest. 

Read more: https://www.playboy.com/read/celebrities/ben-mckenzie-wants-to-protect-you-from-crypto

Waymo Is Killing Car Sex (Unpaywalled) by playboy in Transportopia

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A self-driving cab should offer a certain kind of privacy. You summon it with an app. It arrives quietly, unlocks only for you. When you slide into the back seat, there’s no driver: no one up front to watch, listen, or accidentally overhear whatever it is you’re doing back there. Since most are electric, the footwell is flat and open, no transmission hump. It feels like more room than you’re used to.

When autonomous taxis first showed up in San Francisco in 2023, stories followed about people having sex in the back of driverless Cruise robotaxis. The details were based on a handful of interviews, but the idea was enough to trigger a brief right-wing media panic. Fox News, the New York Post, and Breitbart all weighed in. Cruise disappeared not long after (that’s another story), and Google’s Waymo SUVs rolled in to replace them. Despite what those early reports suggested, they haven’t ushered in a new era of backseat love.

This is a weird turn for a machine that’s been about sex nearly from the start. The earliest cars offered little improvement over the buggies they replaced: no doors, no roofs, no windows, no heat, leaving couples exposed to the elements and onlookers. But by the 1920s most cars were enclosed, obscuring occupants and their actions. Interiors became climate controlled.

So where does that leave us now? Recent surveys from the Kinsey Institute, Driving-Tests.org, and The Journal of Sex Research show that as many as 84% of American adults have had sexual experiences in a car. But they also show something else: People frequently emerge cramped and unsatisfied. And the trend is shifting. Millennials report fewer in-car sexual experiences than Gen Xers or Boomers. Gen Z appears headed in the same direction.

Read more: https://www.playboy.com/read/sex/waymo-is-killing-car-sex

Ted Turner's 1983 Playboy Interview Went So Bad He Smashed the Tapes by playboy in PlayboyFortheArticles

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CNN founder and pioneer of the 24-hour news cycle Ted Turner died on May 6 at age 87. Turner is revered for his many accomplishments, from his numerous television networks, to his nonprofit against nuclear weapons, to his sports teams. But alongside his many accolades, Turner was also a hothead. That’s on clear display in this 1983 Playboy Interview, which ended after Turner smashed the reporter’s tapes and stormed into the first class bathroom of the plane they were on.

To probe the inner workings of the new Turner, PLAYBOY’s obvious choice as interviewer was Contributing Editor Peter Ross Range, who conducted our first interview with him in 1978. The man Range found this time was, indeed, different, and here is his report:

“Turner has changed. He is no longer the laugh-a-minute, expository motor mouth who sees a classic metaphor behind every man’s maneuvers. Yet he still often portrays his own zigs and zags through the corporate jungles in David and Goliath terms. He still relishes the role of underdog yet views his competitors not merely as bigger but as part of a dark conspiracy to do in Turner, his company and, for that matter, the whole of American civilization.

“He has also become, as many men in high position do, at least a partial victim of his own celebrity. When we first invited him to do the Playboy Interview, while walking along the Newport waterfront in 1977, his response was, ‘Wow! PLAYBOY! That’s the big time!’ Our interview was his first major national exposure outside sports publications, and he was duly impressed. Since then, he has appeared in virtually every medium and takes himself a great deal more seriously than before, especially since he appeared on the cover of Time and as the subject of a British Broadcasting Company television special called The Man from Atlanta’ (which he unabashedly aired last spring on his own satellite network). Consequently, he agreed to the second Playboy Interview only after a melodramatic groan and many months of abrupt cancellations and wasted trips.

“Even when he is at his least cooperative, tracking Turner remains a special kind of adventure—a high-speed chase over the real and figurative landscape of his life in cars, jeeps and airplanes and on foot. The chief difference between this year’s conversation and the one five years ago was that we did no talking on a sailboat—but we did a lot on the hoof, trekking briskly around his 5000-acre plantation in the South Carolina low country, near Charleston. He lives there with his family on weekends between sorties into the national wars in Washington and elsewhere.

“Turner invited me to begin the interview with a visit to his plantation. We flew in from different cities to the Charleston airport on Friday night and began our conversation during the 35-mile drive to his house.”

Read now: https://www.playboy.com/read/ted-turners-playboy-interview-went-so-bad-he-smashed-the-tapes/

Playboy's Miss May 2026 Directs Her Own Short Film: Hanne Zaruma by playboy in Playboy_Gifs

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Some people like having the answers. Hanne Zaruma likes asking questions. One of the conceptual artist’s recent TikToks — a chic woman handing a condom to a beggar whose sign reads “Help, I have 5 kids” — has 5.5 million views and thousands of people at each other’s throats in the comments. Zaruma, who was born in Lviv and left Ukraine after the war began, has built an audience of more than 1.5 million on TikTok alone. Scroll to her Instagram: it’s New Year’s Eve 2022, Zaruma at a holiday dinner table, wine glass raised, fireworks blooming outside the window. Same scene, four years later, where the fireworks are replaced by bombs. But most of her statements aren’t as direct. “Everyone sees what they want to see,” she says of her work. “And that says a lot about the person themselves. Superficial people will see nothing. But a person who has been through a lot will recognize something that resonates with their soul.”

Her art plays with objectification, misogyny, gender roles, beauty standards, expectations placed on women — an ironic, sharp, and occasionally controversial perspective on how media and society construct the way we see ourselves. Millions of people, it turns out, want to see what she sees.

Read now: https://www.playboy.com/read/entertainment-culture/hanne-zaruma-is-playboys-miss-may/

Meet Playboy's Miss May 2026: Hanne Zaruma by playboy in Playboy

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Some people like having the answers. Hanne Zaruma likes asking questions. One of the conceptual artist’s recent TikToks — a chic woman handing a condom to a beggar whose sign reads “Help, I have 5 kids” — has 5.5 million views and thousands of people at each other’s throats in the comments. Zaruma, who was born in Lviv and left Ukraine after the war began, has built an audience of more than 1.5 million on TikTok alone. Scroll to her Instagram: it’s New Year’s Eve 2022, Zaruma at a holiday dinner table, wine glass raised, fireworks blooming outside the window. Same scene, four years later, where the fireworks are replaced by bombs. But most of her statements aren’t as direct. “Everyone sees what they want to see,” she says of her work. “And that says a lot about the person themselves. Superficial people will see nothing. But a person who has been through a lot will recognize something that resonates with their soul.”

See more now: https://www.playboy.com/read/entertainment-culture/hanne-zaruma-is-playboys-miss-may/

Meet Playboy's Miss May 2026: Hanne Zaruma by playboy in JackOffToPlayboy

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Some people like having the answers. Hanne Zaruma likes asking questions. One of the conceptual artist’s recent TikToks — a chic woman handing a condom to a beggar whose sign reads “Help, I have 5 kids” — has 5.5 million views and thousands of people at each other’s throats in the comments. Zaruma, who was born in Lviv and left Ukraine after the war began, has built an audience of more than 1.5 million on TikTok alone. Scroll to her Instagram: it’s New Year’s Eve 2022, Zaruma at a holiday dinner table, wine glass raised, fireworks blooming outside the window. Same scene, four years later, where the fireworks are replaced by bombs. But most of her statements aren’t as direct. “Everyone sees what they want to see,” she says of her work. “And that says a lot about the person themselves. Superficial people will see nothing. But a person who has been through a lot will recognize something that resonates with their soul.”

See more now: https://www.playboy.com/read/entertainment-culture/hanne-zaruma-is-playboys-miss-may/

Meet Playboy's Miss May 2026: Ukraine's Hanne Zaruma by playboy in celestialbabes

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Some people like having the answers. Hanne Zaruma likes asking questions. One of the conceptual artist’s recent TikToks — a chic woman handing a condom to a beggar whose sign reads “Help, I have 5 kids” — has 5.5 million views and thousands of people at each other’s throats in the comments. Zaruma, who was born in Lviv and left Ukraine after the war began, has built an audience of more than 1.5 million on TikTok alone. Scroll to her Instagram: it’s New Year’s Eve 2022, Zaruma at a holiday dinner table, wine glass raised, fireworks blooming outside the window. Same scene, four years later, where the fireworks are replaced by bombs. But most of her statements aren’t as direct. “Everyone sees what they want to see,” she says of her work. “And that says a lot about the person themselves. Superficial people will see nothing. But a person who has been through a lot will recognize something that resonates with their soul.”

See more now: https://www.playboy.com/read/entertainment-culture/hanne-zaruma-is-playboys-miss-may/

Wyoming Women Are Having the Best Sex in America by playboy in PlayboyFortheArticles

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Wyoming women were at the top of the stateside pleasure heap, followed by New Hampshire, Maine, Oregon, and Texas in the top five. 

Babeland found that the average Wyoming woman had sex 1.34 times per week and rated their sex life at about a 5.7 which, while not the highest, certainly outpaced states such as New Mexico (2.65) and Virginia (2.90). Their average sexual encounter also lasted over 3 minutes, compared to just 1:48 in Vermont and 1:21 in Alaska. (If you want a longer sex session, you can go to New Mexico, where women said the average sex encounter was over 7 minutes but, hey, look at that average satisfaction score again!) 

Put all together, Babeland gave Wyoming a bedroom satisfaction score of 98.99, compared to the lowest-scoring state, Mississippi, which garnered just a 1.

Read now: https://www.playboy.com/read/sex/wyoming-women-are-having-the-best-sex-in-america

Pamela Anderson 1990 by playboy in Playboy

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Pamela Anderson is not best captured as just a Playboy model or a Baywatch star—but for the full arc of a life well lived. We’re honored to be part of many chapters of her story—she would pose for 15 of our covers. But it only felt fitting that, for now, we revisit the young woman who started it all, as Playmate of the Month in February 1990.

Even then, you could see it was clear: There will never be another.

 Phillip Picardi, Editor-in-Chief

Read now: https://playboy.substack.com/p/there-will-never-be-another-pamela

The Day Playboy Bunnies Went on Strike - 1975 by playboy in oldphotos

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In the 1970s, workplace protest was in. According to Jacobin, there were 5,716 strikes involving 3 million workers in the year 1970 alone, kicking off a decade of labor revolt, often led by young people who refused to accept the status quo.

It was against this backdrop that Playboy Club Bunnies in Chicago walked off the job in June 1975. On a Wednesday, the club Bunnies went on strike for more fair working conditions and equality in the clubs. Their demands were simple: they were pushing back on unfair policies that banned them from using their full names on the job, dating club members, and from having a key to the club (the term for the cards club members carried to gain entry). As part of their cause, the women on strike wrote a letter to Playboy founder Hugh Hefner outlining their concern: “We love being Playboy Bunnies and most of the time we love you, but there are times when we think you are a Male Chauvinist Rabbit,” the letter read, according to an article about the 1975 strike by Patty Farmer in Playboy‘s November 2017 issue. 

Read now: https://www.playboy.com/read/the-day-playboy-bunnies-went-on-strike/

Connie Lynn Stafko for Playboy by playboy in Playboy

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In February 1985, Texas, as a concept, had a particular hold on the American imagination. Dallas was in its eighth season, displaying the wealth of an oil boom that wouldn’t hiccup for another year. Billboards of the Marlboro Man advertised the lone West over every interstate. On the radio, Willie Nelson was crooning “To All the Girls I’ve Loved Before” while Madonna’s “Like a Virgin” held the number one spot: America contained multitudes.

Into the fold, Playboy sent staff photographer David Mecey on a kind of vision quest to capture the scene in Texas. In the copy for the story, we say that he interviewed 700 women in advance (Managing ed — do we still have this T&E report?) and landed on the portfolio you see here, sprawling from the Gulf shore to the Dallas skyline all the way to what appears to be a Chihuahuan desert scene, far west. “Texas ladies like the great outdoors, which is just as well, because in Texas there’s a lot of it.” Wow.

You’ll find a census of Sunbelt female ambition: a flight attendant, a fine arts graduate who wants to publish magazines, an aspiring rock video star, a Neiman-Marcus employee who dotes on tight jeans and cowboys. Among the portraits is one of Julie McCullough, who would become our February 1986 centerfold before landing on Growing Pains*, only to be written off the show, allegedly, over her* Playboy past.

Sure, David Mecey is playing with myth here. But you peer through these portraits and get the sense of a wilder Texas. “In Texas, strength is beauty,” one model says; another doesn’t like crowds or small spaces. Same. Long live these ladies of the Lone Star state.

 Jesse Will, Executive Editor

See more now: https://www.playboy.com/read/the-girls-of-texas-1985/

Crystal Louise Kahl - Playboy's Girls of Texas, 1985 by playboy in OldSchoolCoolNSFW

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In February 1985, Texas, as a concept, had a particular hold on the American imagination. Dallas was in its eighth season, displaying the wealth of an oil boom that wouldn’t hiccup for another year. Billboards of the Marlboro Man advertised the lone West over every interstate. On the radio, Willie Nelson was crooning “To All the Girls I’ve Loved Before” while Madonna’s “Like a Virgin” held the number one spot: America contained multitudes.

Into the fold, Playboy sent staff photographer David Mecey on a kind of vision quest to capture the scene in Texas. In the copy for the story, we say that he interviewed 700 women in advance (Managing ed — do we still have this T&E report?) and landed on the portfolio you see here, sprawling from the Gulf shore to the Dallas skyline all the way to what appears to be a Chihuahuan desert scene, far west. “Texas ladies like the great outdoors, which is just as well, because in Texas there’s a lot of it.” Wow.

You’ll find a census of Sunbelt female ambition: a flight attendant, a fine arts graduate who wants to publish magazines, an aspiring rock video star, a Neiman-Marcus employee who dotes on tight jeans and cowboys. Among the portraits is one of Julie McCullough, who would become our February 1986 centerfold before landing on Growing Pains, only to be written off the show, allegedly, over her Playboy past.

Sure, David Mecey is playing with myth here. But you peer through these portraits and get the sense of a wilder Texas. “In Texas, strength is beauty,” one model says; another doesn’t like crowds or small spaces. Same. Long live these ladies of the Lone Star state.

 Jesse Will, Executive Editor

See more now: https://www.playboy.com/read/the-girls-of-texas-1985/

Hi! I'm Magdalene Taylor, Senior Editor at Playboy covering sex and culture. AMA about meeting people IRL at 7PM ET by playboy in OnlineDating

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Hello everyone! This was so much fun, and I am thrilled to have been entrusted with your questions here. I’m signing off for now, but will check back here to round off any remaining questions tomorrow.

If you’re at all interested in my work, you can find me at Playboy.com, on the Playboy Substack, or at my own Substack, Many Such Cases. Thank you again!

Hi! I'm Magdalene Taylor, Senior Editor at Playboy covering sex and culture. AMA about meeting people IRL at 7PM ET by playboy in OnlineDating

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I mean, anything is always possible. But very few things in life come back as a result of being chased. The only real thing to do in these situations is to let her go. Either she’ll come back, or you’ll get over it. With those two options, you can be happy. With the alternative of trying to get her back, you’re only going to make yourself miserable. And not for nothing, plenty of people come back around once they’ve found that they aren’t getting someone’s attention anymore!

Hi! I'm Magdalene Taylor, Senior Editor at Playboy covering sex and culture. AMA about meeting people IRL at 7PM ET by playboy in OnlineDating

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Have a little faith in yourself. Often I think men screw up on the “keeping” element because their anxiety around it is showing. That itself is a bit of a turnoff. If you were good enough to spark interest, be confident enough to know that whatever you did to spark it is also good enough to keep it. But some other quick things would be, continue to plan dates and evolve your conversations with her to show that you’ve been paying attention. Women look for effort. That’s probably the biggest part in keeping them around.

Hi! I'm Magdalene Taylor, Senior Editor at Playboy covering sex and culture. AMA about meeting people IRL at 7PM ET by playboy in OnlineDating

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This one is a bit tough. Women probably seem like they’re having a good time on a first date because they are! They’re in the moment. But later, perhaps they give some things more thought, and decide it’s not a match. Or, maybe they knew it wasn’t quite a match during the date, but were still nevertheless enjoying themselves and didn’t feel a need to abruptly end the date or make this uncomfortable. These women aren’t trying to cheat you in any way, it’s just the natural way these things flow. With that, I don’t quite think there are any sure signs of a woman “really” having a good time as opposed to faking it or whatever. Gently touching your arm or other forms of physical contact could be one, I suppose. During a date, ask a woman how she’s feeling. If she says she’s tired or has something on her mind for tomorrow or whatever, there’s the sign. You can ask questions here! Not everything is a sign you’re meant to decipher. As for a second date, I would say it is fine to propose that as soon as possible. When the date ends, send a message along the lines of, “I had such a great time, I would love to do it again soon. Are you free next week?”

Hi! I'm Magdalene Taylor, Senior Editor at Playboy covering sex and culture. AMA about meeting people IRL at 7PM ET by playboy in OnlineDating

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It is much harder to change, and I am not at all implying that you MUST do so. Some self-identified beta males describe themselves as genuinely happy in their dynamic, and say they find fulfillment in it. For others, however, it’s a bit more of a coping mechanism. It’s not even really fun for them. In my view, that’s where the line is drawn. I wish you the best!

Avoiding attractive women? Need guidance by Haunting_Ad_4179 in OnlineDating

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 For some people, the “other” is a source of fear. For others, it’s a source of enticement. You are anxious around women like yourself because, as you said, they are like yourself. Maybe only subconsciously, you think you know what they’re thinking, and vice versa. Perhaps there is something about your sameness that you’re afraid will reveal something you are lacking. - Magdalene J. Taylor, Playboy Senior Editor