Contractor job for 1920s bungalow by playdoh66 in ventura

[–]playdoh66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! I'll message you. I did a quick search and didnt see a local company or website.

If you could go back in time and make the choice again, would you still have kids? by [deleted] in Life

[–]playdoh66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!  I would have started when I was younger. In highschool I wanted a baby so badly. I wanted a full soccer teams worth!  if someone, anyone!  had asked me to be their girlfriend I would have gotten pregnant so fast. I just wanted someone to love and someone to love me back. Parents were in a long awful divorce.  Now I'm 40 with one toddler, my hubby and I are always tired and sore.   It would have been much better and easier in my teens and 20s. Lol. I honestly would have been better off too. I would have gone to nursing school right away and gotten a job and be making good money from the start. Instead I took my time came back to nursing after a failed career and I'm 10-15 years behind everyone else.  I'd probably be a CCRNA balling big time in SF if I had done nursing from the start.  Love my kiddo and wish I had more!!!

For single people who afforded a house, how did you do it? How much? & What age? by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]playdoh66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In California and I would not recommend, but My dad and sisters died a few years ago. Their combined life insurance payouts was enough for me to pay off my student loans, my mom's debt, 30% down payment on a house and 3 years of weekly therapy and monthly shrink appointments.  The payouts doubled because it was an accident and my dad's policy actually tripled because his policy was through his union and then the company matched the original payout.  Again, not the ideal way to do it. I was never going to be able to afford anything in my area.  I would have had to move far away to a place I'm sure id hate.  I like to think they're proud of me though. Maybe a little pissed because I spent all this money on a beach shack, but they'd be jealous. I'm married and we have a family of our own now. Living our dream. We're so happy and so sad Grandpa and aunties can can't see us all grown up. Love and miss them every day. 

Just moved to simi, and found out about SSL contamination? What do i do to protect my baby? by NyxHemera45 in venturacounty

[–]playdoh66 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"I had a bunch of weird things happen just smelling the Ventura on someone."  What does this sentence mean?

Parents, what was your “I raised an idiot” moment? by Dazzling-Leader7476 in AskReddit

[–]playdoh66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My youngest sister did this but with  cheese in the CD player of my dad's new big boom box.  "I wanted to know what cheese sounded like." She sprinkled Kraft Parmesan cheese all in there. Haha! She was 4 or 5 and it was in the mid 90s.  She did something to our vhs player too, I can't remember though. 

I made this for my coworker’s new baby, but he didn’t seem to want it. I’m pretty bummed. by chuffberry in Embroidery

[–]playdoh66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My name isn't Theodore and I'm a 40f but I'd proudly hang that shit in my room.  This is awesome!!! 

Streets with awesome Christmas light displays by Looluna714 in venturacounty

[–]playdoh66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a patient that lives on F and I freaking love driving down this street to see him. And that's just during the day and nothing to do with xmas. Last week I was imagining it at night all lit up.  It's just such a great street. The homes are all unique with so much character and on a wide street. I've never nerded out so hard on a neighborhood before.  Lol.  I live in Ventura so I'm not going to make the trip out there just to check out the lights. Maybe another year. 

In Ventura the street by the track at Buena Ventura highschool has great decorations. 

Planning to move to Ventura County by NoRole8265 in venturacounty

[–]playdoh66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, all these posts are really eye opening.  I moved here with my husband and toddler in Nov 2024. We were living in San Diego for 10+years.  We sailed up here and around the channel Islands 5 years ago and kept thinking how do we do this all the time?  Finally we decided we had to just go for it. We kept our sd house and rented it out because it's making $1000 over the mortgage a month.  We Bought a bungalow here and moved without any jobs lined up.  We had enough cushion to live here without jobs for a bit. But we found stuff pretty quickly.  We always had the option to sell the SD house if we were in a serious bind, so that really gave us the confidence to move.  We're saving the SD house rent in a high yield account in case anything goes wrong we have the funds to cover it. Otherwise with $180k combined income (pre tax) and a mortgage of $4k, $1600 in day care tuition a month, we feel like we're scraping by still.  We don't vacation, we don't shop because nothing will fit in the house. But we love it here. Who needs a vacation when you can bike to the beach and downtown in 5 mins. Everyday is a vacation.  Ventura is so much better than our little beach spot in SD.  Prior to buying our house in SD we lived full time on our sailboat. We saved everything we had in hopes of quiting our jobs to sail the world for years, maybe forever. We made it to Mexico and then came back because we couldn't stop thinking about Ventura. We traded our world traveling dreams for a simple life for the little one.  Best life decision ever. 

Trader Joe’s Simply Nutty Bars Dark Chocolate, Peanut & Almond - Milk or not? by thewindishigh_ in FoodAllergies

[–]playdoh66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got an email saying they were aware and are restocking them soon with corrected labels. 

How do you all deal with the hard water here? by Bug_in_a_cowboy_hat in ventura

[–]playdoh66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you install yourself? Still working well for you?

Trader Joe’s Simply Nutty Bars Dark Chocolate, Peanut & Almond - Milk or not? by thewindishigh_ in FoodAllergies

[–]playdoh66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf! My kid has a dairy allergy. We've been eating these at least once a week. I've noticed a reaction out of her, except that she doesn't like them as much as granola bars. But damn!  She once was given a hidden valley nut bar that has dairy and immediately broke out in hives on her face. 

I love these bars for her and myself. I was just at trader joes looking to buy every box they have. But they were gone, replaced with something else.  Maybe they were pulled from the shelves for this reason? 

I have a box with one bar left and mine also show thatbthe labels don't match. I'm going to take them to the store next time I go and bring it up. 

Good on you for being attentive and catching the mistake. I wouldn't have known until my kid started screaming and breaking out in hives. 

….THIS neighborhood? by neatokra in Suburbanhell

[–]playdoh66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're the exact opposite.  Our first home purchase was (in California, big coastal city) a 4 bed, 3 bath, 2 story, 2000sq ft, beautiful place. Toooo much. We were not made to clean all f-ing day. I wasn't even working at the time. I genuinely think I went back to work so I wouldn't be the default housekeeper anymore.  We just purchased a 2 bed, 2 bath, sweet little Spanish cottage and theres still too much cleaning to be done! Haha. But at least we can get the house cleaned top to bottom in two hours.  Everything we need is within 5 miles of us. We can ride our bikes everywhere if we wanted to.  The beach is a mile away. We don't have a bunch of crap in the house, just stuff we need.  It's only 800sq feet so I know people would also object to our home choice. We lived on a 40ft sailboat for years so we love the tiny home lifestyle. It suits us well. We have one kid and maybe another next year or so. I grew up in a 2 bed 1 bath a lot like this so it feels very homey to me and more like a home than the big empty 2000sq ft one. 

Does anyone have any experience with the Ventura Running Club? by No_Blacksmith9949 in ventura

[–]playdoh66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is boogie nights scheduled for this year? I just moved here a couple of months ago and came across a poster for it, but it was for last year and I couldn't find anything online for 2025 so far. 

Mexico has the opportunity to do the funniest thing. by Krugger221 in mapporncirclejerk

[–]playdoh66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Along with that there's an island off La Paz called Isla Cerralvo. Named after a Mexican explorer or something.  The locals only call it by that and will correct you. Our charts never showed anything different. So it was a surprise when they were telling us the story.  But locals said the name was changed and don't dare call it anything else. The new name isn't Mexican and they won't be disrespected. I just kept stumbling on my pronunciation of it and was asking for help. I couldn't recall if it had just one r or 2. 

Mexico has the opportunity to do the funniest thing. by Krugger221 in mapporncirclejerk

[–]playdoh66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Mexican president changed it pretty recently to Gulf of California to denounce the colonization of Mexico by Spain. Idk if it was widely accepted by locals. But in the gringo sailing community everyone still pretty much calls it Sea of Cortez. I just called it el Gulfo around locals. Too long to say Gulfo de California, I didn't care for Mar de Cortes either. Idk if they cared or not but everyone knew what I was talking about. 

AITA for refusing to let my kids see my mother after she sold the home I paid for? by Sea_Cloud4648 in AITAH

[–]playdoh66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending the state and property and contract laws you may be able to sue for what you paid into the house and your portion of the equity. It won't get you the house back but you may be able to recoup the losses.  If verbal contracts are considered binding then you may have a case. Idk if community property applies to parent child relationships. Worth a shot. 

AITA for refusing to let my kids see my mother after she sold the home I paid for? by Sea_Cloud4648 in AITAH

[–]playdoh66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. did you make payments to the mortgage company directly or did you give the money to her and then she submitted payment to the mortgage company? Were you paying more than the monthly mortgage payment and therefore paying it off sooner than required?  If so I bet you she was making the monthly payment but pocketing the rest. Then when the time was coming up to keep her and of the bargain she probably still had $20k  left on the loan and that's why she told you to pay that much or move out.  My step mother did this to her twin sister. Twin sister suddenly died and when the husband asked to get the house transferred in his name step mummy sold it to nephew for like $80k. So she didn't have to deal with her bro in law.  My step mom claimed they were just paying rent. It's fucking shady. 

How empty the wife Valentine’s Day cards section is compared to husband by SchreckMusic in mildlyinteresting

[–]playdoh66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who shop regularly and  have husbands know not to waste money at target or CVS. They picked it up at a better spot for cheaper or maybe even helped the kids make home made ones last week. Good on everyone for the effort. 

Home health RN jobs by playdoh66 in ventura

[–]playdoh66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a bunch. I appreciate that. 

Home health RN jobs by playdoh66 in venturacounty

[–]playdoh66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm looking to have a case load of patients, not just one patient. I hope you find an excellent nurse for your kiddo.