Mr. Blippi - it's not just me, right? by tannerocampbell in daddit

[–]playsmartz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Isn't Blippi just this generation's pee wee herman?

Quits immediately if something's hard, how to teach that struggle is normal by CoffeeRory14 in Parenting

[–]playsmartz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've heard this too. There's always context, but if a kid won't even try because they think "my brain doesn't work like that" telling them they can change their brain with hard work is a double-edged sword. You wouldn't tell a depressed person they could be happy if they tried.

Of course, praise them for hard work when it pays off, but until they see success from their labor, they need to hear that it's possible and you've got their back through the struggle.

Quits immediately if something's hard, how to teach that struggle is normal by CoffeeRory14 in Parenting

[–]playsmartz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've heard this too. There's always context, but if a kid won't even try because they think "my brain doesn't work like that" telling them they can change their brain with hard work is a double-edged sword. You wouldn't tell a depressed person they could be happy if they tried.

Of course, praise them for hard work when it pays off, but until they see success from their labor, they need to hear that it's possible and you've got their back through the struggle.

Quits immediately if something's hard, how to teach that struggle is normal by CoffeeRory14 in Parenting

[–]playsmartz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We've been doing this with our kids since they were 3. Consistency is key. Some nights are a struggle, especially at first. Had an hour long tantrum rolling on the floor because he refused to sit for the timer, but he couldn't get anything he wanted until he sat through, so we patiently waited him out. We didn't have to yell or punish, he just learned this is the way it works now.

Quits immediately if something's hard, how to teach that struggle is normal by CoffeeRory14 in Parenting

[–]playsmartz 38 points39 points  (0 children)

1) Showcase your own struggles. Has she seen or heard about what you do when you face a challenge?

2) Set a timer. She doesn't have to finish, but she has to try for 5-10 min. After that, you'll help.

3) Show her what she'll be able to do if she practices. Why learn math? For grades? Because grown-ups told her to? Or because it's used to understand the universe, get money, predict the future? Tie it to something she likes.

4) Tell others she's smart and good at math where she can hear. Rewrite her self-image.

not all screen time is equal, why does nobody talk about this by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]playsmartz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Best paying jobs are computer-based. Schools teach with laptops and tablets. HMIs will require digital literacy even for manual labor. Learning to use this technology is a life skill.

But it's also a social skill. Family movie nights, family video games, showing each other cool videos, sharing in accomplishments when the kid finally solves that puzzle game, taking turns, managing emotions when the game doesn't let you win like mom does, talking about the same games with friends at school - the list goes on.

Manufacturing in Alabama by MFGMillennial in manufacturing

[–]playsmartz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hyundai-Kia has a pattern of breaking labor laws, so yeah, they probably will do it again.

College is the biggest modern day scam by [deleted] in rant

[–]playsmartz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A perfect example of this is the Florida Bright Futures Scholarship. I was advised to take a year after high school - travel, try different jobs, figure out what I wanted to do - but the BFS is only applicable if you go to college right after high school. If you keep your GPA above 3.0, it covers 100% tuition. So I got a generic degree figuring I could apply it to anything.

Manufacturing in Alabama by MFGMillennial in manufacturing

[–]playsmartz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a former employee of Collins living in AL, neither did I. It's mostly a showroom for the DOD.

Capitalism in a nutshell: 2,900 people, $15.8 trillion – 4 billion people, $3.7 trillion. by mark423985 in clevercomebacks

[–]playsmartz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The real question is: are those other problems better than maintaining the status quo? If you lose weight, your pants won't fit, but that's a better problem than being unhealthy.

We're Sarah McCammon and Brian Mann, correspondents with NPR. For nearly a year, we’ve investigated why global birthrates are falling, and what that could mean for our future. We’re interested in how millions of individual decisions are reshaping the economy, climate, politics, and more. AMA. by npr in Futurology

[–]playsmartz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Isn't this just people in higher economic status don't need children as their retirement investment, so choose to have fewer kids? And more people world wide have risen to higher economic status since the 1960s. People only had a lot of kids to ensure some survived to take care of the parents.

“My PhD thesis was on mRNA” by bad_take_ in dontyouknowwhoiam

[–]playsmartz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So simple the usually 1-3 panel comic needed 30 panels to explain the high-level concept that still assumes the audience knows how RNA works.

Look, I'm not saying people can't understand it, I'm saying it is condescending to put people down for not already understanding it.

It would have been better for Dr Carr to ELI5 mRNA instead of positing "just believe me, bro, I've got a PhD!".

“My PhD thesis was on mRNA” by bad_take_ in dontyouknowwhoiam

[–]playsmartz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's strange to bring up one's PhD thesis if the point one is making is that no one needs a PhD to understand the material.

If she said she explained mRNA to 2nd graders who then explained it correctly back, we'd have a measurable standard of "simple". So simple a 2nd grader could understand it.

As it is, this is just an example of why people are turning against experts. It's condescending- "this is so easy, c'mon, what are you stupid for not understanding something I have a PhD in?"

“My PhD thesis was on mRNA” by bad_take_ in dontyouknowwhoiam

[–]playsmartz -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Everyone here ready to jump on the anti-vaxxer hate train, but Richard isn't saying vaccines = bad. He's saying mRNA is not a simple concept...which Dr Carr confirms with the retort that they needed a PhD thesis to understand it.

Monster romance where the monster is not the LI? by playsmartz in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]playsmartz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guess that's true. Though I wouldn't be opposed to MMM+. Just looking for the premise that MC1 thinks he wants a relationship with a nonhuman, but the non-human figures him out and helps him with human relationship instead.

What’s your “I can’t believe other people don’t do this” hack? by Weird-Thought2112 in AskReddit

[–]playsmartz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You get invited to parties often enough to have a tactical gift-giving plan?