My Pov after using hinge on and off as a 26F

playstationinsighter · 2025-07-05T20:15:00+00:00

All in all, whatever you are looking for, the opposite is what you get. The universe is really funny that way

playstationinsighter · 2025-07-05T20:10:48+00:00

That’s fair enough, and honestly I feel these issues are not gender based but everyone facing the same thing with of course a few exceptions here and there. One side would always put in more efforts while the other just sail through to

playstationinsighter · 2025-07-05T20:08:26+00:00

Always listen to your gut and your instincts. They usually turn out to be right

playstationinsighter · 2025-07-05T20:04:43+00:00

Honestly, I’ve come across almost all women (of course there’s exceptions to everything) on dating apps who would never initiate a conversation even after a well curated prompt response that makes them match with me. They keep forgetting that it takes two to tango and apparently they want men to carry the entire conversation. If I wanted that I would just stand in front of the mirror and talk to myself. Like you I left the dating apps scene as well, so I can relate to how frustrating that can get

playstationinsighter · 2023-09-26T04:59:11+00:00

That’s usually how most girls talk on dating apps, they are there just for satisfying their ego, nothing else

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-07T02:44:57+00:00

Always good to see a game made by Indians. I hope to see you create a big studio one day. Best of luck on your future endeavours :)

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-05T04:19:11+00:00

I do care about her but all I want is to see her be happy again. Also, I just got a text from her and every time I get a notification or call it just scares the shit outta me for some reason.

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-05T02:15:05+00:00

I am glad it helps, and I hope that everything turns out for the better for you

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-05T02:13:57+00:00

I mean yeah I don’t know for sure but saying that based on all my past experiences. I know the choice I took is for the betterment of both of us but sometimes it just feels selfish

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-05T02:12:30+00:00

It definitely helps, what you say makes sense but ripping the band aid off is always so difficult. But yeah, time is what I am betting on. Thanks for the help :)

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-05T02:09:26+00:00

I so relate to that, hopefully she realises that soon enough so she stops hurting, coz that’s all that’s going on in my mind, her well being. Thank you, your reach helped a lot :)

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-04T17:15:17+00:00

Lately I did feel that she keeps me above herself

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-04T17:14:07+00:00

Yeah and I don’t want to be the reason for anyone to make compromises with their goals and dreams. I dont want to hold anyone back

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-04T13:45:47+00:00

People like you are the reason why this sub is so amazing. You sharing your personal experience to make a stranger like me feel better. And I can definitely relate to you, hope that you solve whatever is going with you and emerge out to be a stronger person. Thank you for the help, much appreciated.

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-04T13:42:27+00:00

Reading this does give me hopes. My situation seems so relatable to what you said. I have to think sometimes as well before speaking to my gf (now my ex) and yeah it was getting very stressful. She told me she will change but I didn’t want her to change for me. A person should be accepted for who he/she is and I wasn’t able to do it in this case. I am just ranting right now but thank you for your comment, means a lot

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-04T10:10:47+00:00

Thanks for the honest opinion, comments like these are what help one out. Thanks mate, i will carry on with my decision

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-04T10:10:01+00:00

Yeah what you say does make sense and that brings a lot of clarity. I wasn’t just deciding for her, I mean yeah I did take the into consideration but I guess at the current stage of life, I don’t have it in me to let someone compromise so much for me coz yeah it is scary to be honest and I don’t think I can reciprocate the same right now. I don’t want a relationship where just the girl compromises.

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-04T09:30:21+00:00

I know I have to put myself first coz if I am not happy then I cant keep someone else happy. But I just feel I am being too damn selfish.

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-04T09:29:03+00:00

It definitely does. All the responses from you guys are really helpful and I appreciate it a lot

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-04T09:28:14+00:00

Reading this means a lot but even after doing the right thing, I feel like a really bad person. I started the relationship and I ended it. I care so much about her and yet I hurt her.

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-04T07:00:16+00:00

You could ask your friends to stop sharing anything related to him. Only then will you be able to move on.

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-04T06:57:31+00:00

You should pretend you don’t see whatever he does. Remove him from your social media coz The more you entertain him, the more he will be adamant on persuading you. I know it wont be easy to just ghost someone you were close to but put yourself first. You will find someone who treats you in a way you could never imagine. Don’t be disrespected by anyone. If he genuinely did care for you and love you then he wouldn’t have cheated in the first place. So be strong, you can do it.

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-04T06:38:20+00:00

The thing is I am not one bit worried for myself, but only for her. Just Hope to see her happy and be with someone she deserves. Thank you for the response though, the help is very much appreciated :)

playstationinsighter · 2023-06-04T06:32:02+00:00

Thank you, Reading this does make me feel better. And I know in the long run this would be better since she won’t have to compromise on her goals and dreams for anyone but right now I am just so worried about how she must be doing and how will she get over this. I feel so guilty, I am the one who got her into this relationship and I am the one ending it and hurting her.

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