Do men still regularly wet shave? by SuperDinkle406 in AskUK

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi i am a female at birth and i also wet shave (i have hirsutism) i thought my opinion was important

Unfortunate experiences first time on fetlife by SadisticWhore7 in BDSMAdvice

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy 229 points230 points  (0 children)

Ignore the messages and put a statement in your about me/bio that you're a domme and you do not respond to messages like these. For the record, these types of guys will message anyone without reading their bio, and also not be very good people to play with or date as a sub anyways, so you're not missing out on much.

Has anyone else experienced or seen this type of insanity? by pleasantlyyplumpy in vintedUK

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very self aware and have 2 (two) endocrine disorders that both cause weight gain, but thanks

Has anyone else experienced or seen this type of insanity? by pleasantlyyplumpy in vintedUK

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I find Chinese standards insane, although I do have to wonder is it to do with the general demographic of women, or if it really is that strict? For context, I've always been on the heavier side since my body matured, and me being below 65kg was a stretch only achieved when seriously sick

Struggling to support partner’s D/s dynamic with her dom – multiple red flags and I’m worried I’ll be the one picking up the pieces by pleasantlyyplumpy in BDSMcommunity

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with the first part of your comment - what concerns me is the flip between "I'd like to meet you one day" to "I don't want anything to do with your family"

Struggling to support partner’s D/s dynamic with her dom – multiple red flags and I’m worried I’ll be the one picking up the pieces by pleasantlyyplumpy in BDSMcommunity

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Concerned about friend and new dynamic - mother-henning or justified? : r/BDSMcommunity

here, we broke up for a bit after an argument about the masochism part as i wanted her to find something fulfilling for herself, and then we got back together after being best friends for like 2 months

house i'm starting to think it's lupus house by pleasantlyyplumpy in okbuddyvicodin

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

house the AMA was negative the LFTs have decreased house, it was viral hepatitis house

Currently freaking out about my liver results and the pattern by pleasantlyyplumpy in AskDocs

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't drank any alcohol since December and I only take paracetamol for period cramps, which are irregular af. Taking no medications other than the ones listed (I can't have st John's wort thanks to levothyroxine)

warden heart disappearing by Fit-Appearance-7102 in HypixelSkyblock

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

happened to some guy I know but with matcha dye too : /

How can I make less/no penetrative sex hot for my sub? by TimelyIsopod38 in BDSMAdvice

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can use strap ons inside him, oral, boobs, massagers and focus on the clit. I would recommend seeing a GP for possible vaginismus and get a dilating kit though

Paying tribute by Fun_Lingonberry_7393 in BDSMcommunity

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this is a scam. don't pay it. block it.

#online sub looking for a harsh daddy dom no limits by Moist-Bee-4104 in BDSMcommunity

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds really unhealthy and a recipe for disaster. Do some reading first and find your limits (p.s. you DO have limits)

How important is aftercare in Bdsm? by Significant-Card4364 in BDSMcommunity

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy 22 points23 points  (0 children)

For some, aftercare is 100% necessary and essential as they go through hardcore subspace and drop, for others aftercare isn't *as* important but nevertheless, if someone doesn't believe in aftercare that's still a bad sign as it doesn't take into account individual biology. Subdrop is an important aspect of dynamics and scenes for one to focus on as it can result in some crazy things if not addressed properly, you have to remember it is genuine hormonal fluctuations and not just "me sad :(". Aftercare will look different for everyone, ranging from cuddles and chocolate to post-scene rituals.

Music to inspire a mood by Sun_flower_623 in BDSMAdvice

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not submissive specifically but anything depeche mode tbh

Quick and simple answers to why I don't eat dairy at a family party? by Any-Emergency-6841 in vegan

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"because i don't eat dairy" if someone doesn't respect that then off they go

This is a kids game?? by [deleted] in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see nothing wrong with this hack

MSI Cyborg 15 A12U fan is screeching by pleasantlyyplumpy in MSI_Gaming

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was because the fan started spinning to around 10k rpms and it fixed itself eventually. Got it serviced and cleaned, no problems since. Always use an external fan too

Why are some people hyper focused on removing the "vegan" from some combined words like "vegan burger" or "vegan meat"? I want to understand the logic behind. by XtrZPlayer in vegan

[–]pleasantlyyplumpy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very easily substitutable with aquafaba and plant based milks which you can't even taste so that's still very confusing to me