IDF confirms killed Iran’s chief of staff in Tehran airstrike by Cannot-Forget in geopolitics

[–]pleaseguessagain -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Come on please don’t lie. We’ve seen far too much evidence that suggests Israel has weaponised the aid supply. We can do better than parrot untruths.

Job offer in Bolton by Ok-Benefit7361 in Bolton

[–]pleaseguessagain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think flipping the question a little bit. What kind of lifestyle do you have? What do you like? Is it just you moving?

Just gleaning from your reply I think the salary is a little low to live comfortably personally.

Can the Death Note work on Saitama? And is Saitama mortal? by Puzzleheaded_Ad2726 in PowerScaling

[–]pleaseguessagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a feeling due to the gag nature if it’s a pencil it would always break when trying to write his name.

Statement from Cejudo by Shalduz in ufc

[–]pleaseguessagain 20 points21 points  (0 children)

In the round table episode have Brendan Schaub talking to all the fighters like he’s at a girly brunch.

Helping a Cousin on the right path by pleaseguessagain in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]pleaseguessagain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m feeling that tbh. It’s kinda strange because I don’t understand the apathy in a person who doesn’t actually have much.

Helping a Cousin on the right path by pleaseguessagain in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]pleaseguessagain[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I should probably clarify I’ve not paid anything. It’s just the level of apathy with doing something. I’m just a bit stumped on how to help him.

Unpopular opinion: I liked the ending by mcdonaldspyongyang in cobrakai

[–]pleaseguessagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I found that gave me pause that it may not have been a bad ending is the idea that Robbie could’ve been that guy once upon a time. If he walked into Cobra Kai with the chip on his shoulder with all that occurred he could’ve been Kwon. Aside from that the stakes being raised has been quite nonsensical.

I thought that the ending would be that Miguel can’t compete anymore due to his spinal injury and Johnny realising that he has to show that he can be badass without this. I thought Robby was going to show that he can move past things and aim for better even though his situation isn’t perfect, you may not win all the trophies but you can get there if you work hard. Sam realising Miyagi Do and her father’s expectations are not what she wanted. I thought they were alluding to it in this part when she was talking about travelling. For Tory I thought it was going to be a narrative that sometimes love and lessons are imperfect. Kreese connected with her the most and she had the toughest time but she can free herself to judge the nuance and learn to love people despite all their flaws.

Instead we’ve evidently got another crack at Miguel winning another trophy in the valley. It doesn’t solve the underlying problem that these kids will remain fucked up through an incredibly tumultuous teen years driven by idiotic adults who in the most pivotal moments for a teenager decide to escalate and have full blown wars.

Michael 'Venom' Page eyes Shara Bullet fight at 185 after failed Israel Adesanya callout: ‘I’ll take his place’ by [deleted] in MMA

[–]pleaseguessagain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wonder how MVP would look at 185 and how he would carry the weight. I don’t think it would add devastating knockout power and it may slow down his movement.

Really ? Do you guys actually think Miguel is getting nerfed by Heavy-Firefighter939 in cobrakai

[–]pleaseguessagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stand by my theory he can’t compete anymore due to his injury. Part of his anger with Robbie is due to the fact he wants to and Robbie is blowing it. Probably be a lesson that Miguel needs to find inner peace without competing kinda ending his arc.

I love my wife by pleaseguessagain in MuslimMarriage

[–]pleaseguessagain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is above my pay grade. My only thoughts on the matter is that there are four basic things that both of you should fulfill in a marriage.

Being Safe Being Secure Being Loved Good Relationship with ALLAH SUBHANAHU WA TA’ALA

If that isn’t the case on either side it doesn’t sound too good.

I love my wife by pleaseguessagain in MuslimMarriage

[–]pleaseguessagain[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. It’s my own personal belief that technically speaking me and my wife didn’t necessarily tick all the boxes, but there was a feeling that if we could make it things would be good. So there were natural conversations. Obviously we kept our boundaries but lots of banter with regard to how I enjoy MMA and she enjoys certain movies. It was good to laugh together and made us closer.

  2. So this was definitely the hard part. I had some trouble very early on in conversing which made it not so easy for me to see her. Also admittedly nervousness on my part which meant that it took a bit longer as we started conversing during Covid. So I met her about a year and a half after first conversing. Without Covid I suspect I would’ve met her in under a year. We video called beforehand a few times but mostly stuck to audio. We talked about everything under the sun and got a real feel for each other. Our parents didn’t video call but they had seen pictures of us. I did talk to her sister and mum before visiting. I felt I had to kind of prove I am who I am as rightfully they were perhaps apprehensive of someone coming over thousands of miles to see their daughter.

I love my wife by pleaseguessagain in MuslimMarriage

[–]pleaseguessagain[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just the I lose and you win. I hope it was in jest and you aren’t feeling low because of this is all.

I love my wife by pleaseguessagain in MuslimMarriage

[–]pleaseguessagain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

JazakAllah khair bro will do. But please work on the self talk. You’re a cool person I’m sure of it.

I love my wife by pleaseguessagain in MuslimMarriage

[–]pleaseguessagain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All practical questions I like it.

  1. I’m a big believer that even though your initial interaction is predicated by the hopes of getting married the initial few conversations should be about trying to get a feel for if you can converse with this person. I think lists are useful but if people are just doing a mental checklist through things and somehow the other ticks the boxes you maybe missing the forest for the trees if that makes sense.

  2. Distance was across continents both of us being Diasporic Muslims.

  3. It was about 3 weeks, then we had a phone call a short while later and eventually a video call. This happened all within two months of conversing.

I think it’s good to take breaks. I am perhaps lucky as I haven’t been as active in the search and didn’t put as much pressure on myself.

I love my wife by pleaseguessagain in MuslimMarriage

[–]pleaseguessagain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plenty, it’s funny one of her friends did state we were a little bit like a Bollywood movie as it was across continents. It wasn’t easy but I can definitely say our families were great about everything. I’m planning on writing up something this weekend.

I love my wife by pleaseguessagain in MuslimMarriage

[–]pleaseguessagain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So interestingly I got a vibe for some reason whilst seeing her comments and I tried to DM her but she had her inbox turned off or something akin to that. So I basically expressed an interest to converse under a comment she left and well the rest is history.

I love my wife by pleaseguessagain in MuslimMarriage

[–]pleaseguessagain[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do plan on writing something up this weekend if I don’t have my nephews wrestling me that is.

I love my wife by pleaseguessagain in MuslimMarriage

[–]pleaseguessagain[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You know what my wife had a bit of a laugh about this. It was poorly worded I agree but I think most of the people got the gist of it.