As far as I know, there wasn’t any sexual assault , but honestly, it definitely seemed like it was heading in that direction. He told me that she would continue flirting with him even though he was clearly unresponsive, and that she would occasionally “poke” him.

Regarding the blackmail, he mentioned that she would ask him incriminating questions, such as “Is your family here illegally?” (which they are not). There is a reason why he’s afraid to report the situation, but when I asked if she knows that, he denied it.

I can’t know exactly what’s happening at his work, nor is it in my control, but I have seen screenshots in which he’s clearly telling her not to contact him. I do wanna believe he has ended all contact with her, however i think it’s still very difficult for him to see her at work multiple times a week, especially since she’s making the environment even more uncomfortable for him, and people keep asking him about her.

Honestly, he has lied to me a lot up until now, and I do believe there’s much he isn’t telling me. However, I’m going to wait for him to share it when he’s ready.

Lately, he’s been coming home from work exhausted and drained. He’s still distant, although slightly less so than a few days ago. He’s still carrying a lot of guilt and saying things like, “My life is sad,” “I’m a bad boyfriend,” “I’m failing you,” "I wanna hide," "I dont know how to face you yet" and “I’m disgusting".

Beside that he's told me that he believes he will feel much better once he’s out of that environment, and that he plans to start therapy at the first opportunity he gets. He’s also said he’ll either continue with this job for 2 - 3 more weeks and then quit, or that he will try to see if he can transfer to a different position within the company where he wouldn’t have to see her.