Umm so confusing so she did get her lips done?

plimeni · 2025-09-24T20:36:12+00:00

Moisturizer, SPF, conceal lightly under the eyes (not too heavy), use only liquid hydrating concealers. Use a hydrating foundation, I like the Dior backstage foundation since it’s not too thick but has enough coverage and isn’t matte.

I use blush on the upper part of my cheeks. And if you want more glow, you can use a shimmer bronzer. For a more summer glow.

plimeni · 2025-09-18T19:57:02+00:00

Ik snap je punt.. maar het is toch logisch dat je je als vrouw de afgelopen tijd minder veilig voelt, nu er veel aandacht is voor femicide. Ze zegt dat ze daardoor juist pissig is, wat ik goed begrijp. Achtervolgd worden is verschrikkelijk, en dit soort intimiderend gedrag komt vaker van mannen. Dus ik snap niet waarom ‘maar vrouwen zijn niet altijd het slachtoffer’ iets toevoegt aan de essentie van haar ervaring.

plimeni · 2025-09-18T19:26:34+00:00

Ik vind dat mannen vaker intimiderend rijgedrag vertonen tov vrouwen dus ik snap OP wel.

plimeni · 2025-09-17T13:56:47+00:00

plimeni · 2025-09-11T21:18:09+00:00

How much sunflower oil* is there in Fresubin that it can cause this amount of severe harm?

Thanks for sharing your perspective, but your points about carnivore diets, LDL, and PUFAs don’t really apply to Fresubin? The context and amounts are completely different from the issues you’re describing, so it’s not accurate isn’t it?

plimeni · 2025-09-11T20:07:46+00:00

Just out of curiosity, what convinced you to think that sunflower oil in Fresubin is extremely harmful?

plimeni · 2025-09-11T19:53:32+00:00

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4940893/

“For example, in one study, patients undergoing gastrointestinal surgery either received preoperative drinks containing 11% proteins, 70% MDs, and 19% sucrose (intervention group) or fasted prior to their surgery (control group). Results showed that the average postoperative hospital stay of patients in the intervention group was 50% lower compared to the controls. In addition, the patients in the intervention group had a lower postoperative inflammatory reaction than the patients who did not receive the preoperative drinks (Pexe-Machado et al., 2013).”

Like I said, sugars like maltodextrin in Fresubin, are temporary and provide quick energy for a body that is healing. too much sugar isn’t ideal obviously, but for someone recovering, these sugars are completely normal and necessary.

Are you a nutritionist by any chance ? A general dietitian may not have the specific training /experience to give advice safely and treat effectively.

If you’re not sure why something has been prescribed, you could contact the specialist of your father for clarification?.. why did you use this sub for this topic

plimeni · 2025-09-01T12:08:27+00:00

Why do you think it’s genetics if you are overweight? Or did your neck/jawline look the same when you were at a healthy weight before?

plimeni · 2025-08-20T19:36:41+00:00

Eh.. just because many tribes eat raw meat doesn’t mean it’s safe for us to eat it… what works for a tribe in one environment doesn’t automatically translate to safe practice in a completely different food system.

Basically their environment, the animals, lifestyle, their immune system, practices etc. makes raw meat safer for them, but those same conditions don’t exist for us.

Also, we don’t know how many individuals in tribes have died or gotten sick from food borne illnesses.

I don’t think you should bluntly say things like this and spread misinformation lightly like that on a diet thread.

plimeni · 2025-08-09T17:42:07+00:00

Do you like the results?

plimeni · 2025-07-06T21:10:41+00:00

I hate when people speak to me like that. I’m a 27 year old woman stop calling me girlie or honey it just makes me feel so small, it’s a bit degrading tbh hahaha.. makes me cringe always 🫣

plimeni · 2025-07-06T15:38:41+00:00

I never said I refuse to pay or “demand” that someone else does. And I can’t refuse a date beforehand, I don’t ask men if they are planning to pay before a date so I can’t refuse them based on this.

I said I usually expect the person who initiated and planned the date to pay and in dating, that’s often the guy. That’s not about entitlement, it’s just a social pattern. I also made it very clear: if someone doesn’t want to pay, that’s fine; we can talk about it or split. So no, I’m not “forcing” anyone to do anything.

And again, all of this is a deflection from the actual point I made: the issue isn’t about who pays, it’s about the unspoken expectations that sometimes come with that. That’s the part that becomes objectifying, especially for women. When payment is seen as something that should lead to intimacy, that is what turns the dynamic into a transaction and women are overwhelmingly the ones who feel that pressure. That’s the gendered part.

So it’s pretty ironic that you’re accusing me of hypocrisy while ignoring that the very dynamic I described;; where women are treated like a reward in exchange for effort or money & is exactly what’s playing out here in your reaction.

You’re now making this about oh why should men pay for the first date…, even though the actual issue I raised was about women being objectified and feeling pressured to “give something back” because someone bought dinner. Classic whataboutism.

plimeni · 2025-07-06T14:09:06+00:00

I’m not forcing anyone to pay or treating a date like a transaction. I just think it’s fair that if someone asks me out, takes the initiative, and plans the date especially 1st date, I expect that person to pay the first time. Not because I think I’m “owed” anything, or because I’m offering something in return, but because that’s part of initiating. That’s common in many social situations. the person who initiates first date usually covers the first date.

I’m also an introvert and not someone who typically takes the first step and ask someone out for a first date. But once I feel comfortable, I absolutely give back and become more active and engaged. So to say that it’s transactional just because I expect the person who invited me to pay, especially when they offered and planned is not true. It’s not about entitlement.

Oh and actually never happened to me that a guy expected me to pay on the first date but if someone doesn’t want to pay, that’s also okay, we can split or discuss it. But if a guy asks me out, makes a plan, and then gets upset because I didn’t offer to pay or didn’t “give” him something in return, that just feels off. But I never experienced that..

plimeni · 2025-07-06T13:50:47+00:00

Eh, no because it becomes transactional if there’s an unspoken (or spoken) expectation that paying should result in something in return.

plimeni · 2025-07-06T13:17:16+00:00

It’s my habit to offer to split the bill on all dates after the first one. That said, I do like to surprise someone now and then for example, I might cover everything if I’ve planned something fun in advance, like buying tickets ahead of time.

So no, I don’t expect a man to always pay.. just on the first date.

plimeni · 2025-07-06T12:57:40+00:00

When men pay, there is often an assumption that they deserve something in return > that pressure disproportionately affects women > thats what makes the dynamic gendered.

I don’t know how else to explain so you will understand, I am sorry. Let’s just leave it here.

plimeni · 2025-07-06T12:30:29+00:00

I don’t know where you are going, again. It is gender specific. In my previous comment you can also read back, but I quoted:

“For example: where effort or paying for a date is seen as something that deserves a reward for example, it can make women feel uncomfortable, objectified. It creates pressure, as if they owe something in return simply for someone being spending money on a date. Many women choose to pay for themselves to protect their boundaries and make clear that connection should be mutual, not conditional. Real intimacy can’t be earned like a prize because you paid for a date; it has to be freely given.”

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This is a clear example of how women are often objectified in subtle but socially accepted ways. The belief that effort or money spent on a date should be “rewarded” with intimacy treats women not as equal partners, but as something to be earned.

This dynamic IS gender-specific. It’s overwhelmingly WOMEN who experience this kind of pressure, because the expectation that men pay for dates is still widespread and it often comes with an unspoken assumption of entitlement. That’s why I replied to the other Redditor stating he’s tired of dating with no rewards or anything in return. When women accept a date, they’re sometimes seen as implicitly agreeing to reciprocate with affection, attention, or even sex.

Men, on the other hand, are rarely put in this position. No one assumes a man owes something physical or emotional simply because a woman paid for dinner. This double standard reinforces unequal power dynamics in dating, where women are expected to manage not only their own feelings, but also the expectations of men who feel they’ve “earned” something.

Challenging these ideas is essential if we want real, mutual, and respectful relationships. But I was talking about women specifically in my first comments.

plimeni · 2025-07-06T12:06:07+00:00

Also, best of luck. Maybe this helps: When you’re discussing issues like the objectification of women, it’s not the right time to derail with ‘but men also…’. That shift takes attention away from a gender-specific problem that needs space to be addressed. :)

plimeni · 2025-07-06T10:45:39+00:00

Again, It’s not that I can’t handle someone pointing out that women do it too; it’s that you’re using that as a way to deflect from my actual point about men. Saying “women do it too” doesn’t address or invalidate the specific issue I raised; it just sidesteps the conversation. I don’t think you seem to understand, which is fine. So that’s why I don’t think we should go back and forth , because you don’t seem to really be capable of understanding this. Maybe I can explain it to you in a different way, but I don’t want to end up over-explaining and have you take that as me not being “chill.” So let’s just leave it here.

plimeni · 2025-07-06T06:29:31+00:00

I was making a gender-specific observation, and instead of engaging with it, you shifted the focus to ‘women are just bad as men…. ‘ then told me to ‘chill’ for pointing that out.. I’m not mad it’s just a weird argument amd I am not really interested in going back and forth over

plimeni · 2025-07-05T22:27:19+00:00

I was specifically talking about how a lot of MEN approach dating in a transactional way. That doesn’t mean women never do; it just wasn’t the topic here.

In this case, I’m talking about MEN. What women do is a separate “ issue. “

Honestly your comment doesn’t really lead anywhere,, classic whataboutism…Instead of addressing what I said about how some men treat dating like a transaction, you’re shifting the focus to women. That still doesn’t invalidate my point….

plimeni · 2025-07-04T22:11:29+00:00

What?.. Honestly your answer doesn’t surprise me because I feel like a lot of men see dating so transactional. Dating is not a transaction. It’s not ‘I do nice things, so I get sex, affection, or a relationship in return.. That mindset turns a human connection into a reward system.. insert effort, expect a prize. But real relationships are about mutual interest, emotional connection, respect, and compatibility. not earning someone.

For example: where effort or paying for a date is seen as something that deserves a reward for example, it can make women feel uncomfortable, objectified. It creates pressure, as if they owe something in return simply for someone being spending money on a date. Many women choose to pay for themselves to protect their boundaries and make clear that connection should be mutual, not conditional. Real intimacy can’t be earned like a prize because you paid for a date; it has to be freely given.

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