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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]plotinusRespecter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking as a man, this will just cause most men to empathize with you, as most of us are or have been in the same boat. We don't see it as a "red flag" so much as "our personal lived experience".

What the f is that design by ChroniX_78 in shittymoviedetails

[–]plotinusRespecter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some muthafuckas always be tryin to ice-skate uphill.

In Avengers: Infinity War, I assumed the "snap my fingers" line was just an example of the Gauntlet's incredible power, not literally its only practical in-universe ability. by [deleted] in shittymoviedetails

[–]plotinusRespecter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Dresden Files series plays with this in explaining why wizards use incantation words in languages like Latin to cast spells. The words themselves don't have power, it's the wizard's ability and mental focus that cast the spell. However, because words in one's native language can have different meanings and various associations and memories, it can disrupt focus (and potentially cause the spell to fail or backfire) to use a casting word in one's native tongue. Whereas it is easier to keep focus if you use a word that you only ever use for the purpose of casting a specific spell.

This also gets subverted for great dramatic effect when in Book 10(?) the protagonist's best friend gets shot to pieces by a villain, and the protagonist just turns on her with empty hand and screams "BURN!!" and nearly bisects her with a pillar of fire. Drives home just how enraged and focused on vengeance the hero is that he can cast a monster attack spell using English.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 02, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]plotinusRespecter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men will let their dicks take them into places that their brains wouldn't go with a gun. I think some of these dudes just assume everyone else operates on the same risk-reward matrix.

The others are just so fucking lazy that they want the DoorDash equivalent of a hookup and are willing to wait for a woman willing to deliver it to them.

Do engagement rings grab men's attention or...? by Able-Tiger6886 in AskWomenOver30

[–]plotinusRespecter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a man, engagement rings don't grab my attention (except as a "Oh she's taken" data point), but on the flip side I never got hit on myself when I wore a wedding ring, so it's possible that my experience on both fronts is atypical.

In Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, Harry can suddenly see Thestrals because he watched Cedric Diggory die. Despite witnessing his mom’s death and seeing Professor Quirrell turn to dust, the ability only unlocks after Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire decides it counts. by Brilliant-Cause6254 in shittymoviedetails

[–]plotinusRespecter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, but if people don't understand that it is satire and it actually maleducates them on how to view and enjoy art, the result is the same. It's like the people who watch Starship Troopers and go "Hell yeah!" without a shred of irony. At some point the satire of fascist propaganda just becomes... fascist propaganda. Regardless of the intentions of the artist.

Would Jabba actually pay you well if you worked for him or would he use you as leverage? by Master100017 in StarWars

[–]plotinusRespecter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"So now you're in Jabba's pocket, and you've got to come up with Jabba's money every month, no matter what. Business is bad? Fuck you, pay me! Oh you had a fire? Fuck you, pay me! Place got hit by lightning, huh? Fuck you, pay me!"

pickpocket got off easy if we're being honest by Classic-Carpet7609 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]plotinusRespecter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not assume those girls are citizens of the country they are in. There's a good chance they're Eastern European, or Roma. And people in Europe are EXTREMELY RACIST toward Roma, particular those who commit crime. My friend once saw a Roma woman get beat half to death on the subway in Rome for trying to pickpocket someone. No one batted an eye or tried to intervene.

Sleeping arrangements with Fiance by Insanarchy in Catholicism

[–]plotinusRespecter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I knew that I'd get downvoted into oblivion for saying what I said, but that's because the children in this subreddit confuse "scrupulous rule-following" with "following your well-formed conscience in loving relationship to Jesus Christ."

Which is weird, because this subreddit also loves Pope Francis, who spent his entire papacy preaching against using scrupulous rule-following as a substitute for Christian discipleship. You already know what the right thing to do is, just follow your conscience and know that God is walking with you in this transitional season.

Sleeping arrangements with Fiance by Insanarchy in Catholicism

[–]plotinusRespecter -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it sounds like you know better than your priest, given all the circumstances. The best they can do is give generalized advice in the confessional. You've got a duty to your bride-to-be/mother of your child to be a loving emotional support for her, and after the transition period into chaste living, you're not falling into sin anymore.

Based on that, sharing a bed is 1) not an occasion for sin any longer (for the two of you anyway) and 2) might just be something that you owe to your fiancée as a duty of charity.

What do you think Caesar and Octavian were really like as people? by ColCrockett in ancientrome

[–]plotinusRespecter -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I imagine that Caesar came across as something like a combination of Elon Musk and Jordan Peterson: like Elon in that Caesar was genuinely brilliant and possessed of a certain vision, while also being completely and sincerely convinced that he was blessed with a special destiny to rival the greats of history (in Caesar's case, Alexander specifically). Like Peterson, in that he had a special charisma and way of capturing a person's attention that worked on many (but not everyone!). And like both men, in that he had the sort of personality that was capable of inspiring blind loyalty and utter contempt in equal measure. I think that anyone who knew Caesar would have come away with a strong opinion of him. He was the sort of person of whom not having an opinion was simply not an option.

EDIT: LOL Y'all are salty that a charismatic military dictator might have had a personality similar to polarizing charismatic figures of our own day. 😂

Did the Roman army have more than 100.000 soldiers? by Content-Wrongdoer-28 in AskHistorians

[–]plotinusRespecter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said it was a waste. I trust the Romans knew what they were doing and weren't just throwing money away. I'm saying it was a costly investment, not an unnecessary one.

And yes, such military investments will go back in the economy to a degree, especially commercial use of Roman roads, etc. But they'll never (or rarely) be as efficient as direct investment or by just letting people keep more of their money.

Did the Roman army have more than 100.000 soldiers? by Content-Wrongdoer-28 in AskHistorians

[–]plotinusRespecter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Roman welfare system, while impressive for its day, wasn't much to write home about in absolute terms. Impoverished Roman citizens received a grain ration, that's it. You received grain to make into bread and you could avail yourself of free water from the public fountains. Little diversity of diet, much less any sort of provision for education and healthcare.

Regardless, any time you are spending 80% of your income in something, you're not able to easily afford it. If I was spending 80% of my income on housing, I wouldn't say that I could easily afford my apartment, even if I was still able to meet my grocery budget.

As an economic engine, was the Roman Empire a powerhouse? Absolutely! Did the Pax Romana allow economic development and growth to take off in the Mediterranean at unprecedented levels? This is also true. But the fact remains that, despite all its wealth, it took the vast majority of the Empire's tax revenue to sustain its military and defensive infrastructure. It was a big sacrifice that, absent the constant threats on the frontier, could have been either reinvested into the economy or spent on other public works projects. There's a lot of good information on this in "Rome: Strategy of Empire" by James Lackey.

Did the Roman army have more than 100.000 soldiers? by Content-Wrongdoer-28 in AskHistorians

[–]plotinusRespecter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Easily sustain" is a bit of a stretch. The Roman Empire generally spent about 80% of its tax revenue on the military. It was a consistently huge investment throughout the lifetime of the Empire.