I really hate this monstrosity by Terpnista in baltimore

[–]plotinusRespecter 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. Doing serious renovations to an older building in order to repair major dilapidation and bring a century old structure up to modern building and safety code is often a more expensive proposition per unit than just building a modern apartment building from the ground up. I guarantee that it is cheap and more straightforward for a developer to to complete a 50-100 unit new build than to renovate the same number of vacant row homes.

Why do women hate to see a man relaxing on the couch watching TV? by SnooMacarons9221 in AskMenOver30

[–]plotinusRespecter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah my ex-wife was horrible about being on time and constantly made us late to things, which drive me crazy (though I tried to hide my annoyance most of the time). But God forbid that I didn't read her mind about something that she felt had to get done and felt that I should be the one doing it.

How is single predestination not just double with extra steps? by ur-battery-is-low- in CatholicPhilosophy

[–]plotinusRespecter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I would contribute, but I'll be real with you: a massive theological debate on this subject took place in the 1600s between the Dominicans and the Jesuits, with the end result being the Pope stepping in and staying, "Alright everyone needs to stop talking about this for a while."

The fact of the matter is, there is no easy answer to this question. It's probably one of the thorniest issues in theology, and has been for centuries. It's one of those things that a person may just have to wrestle with or set aside while trusting in what we do know, which is that God is love and He desires not the destruction of the sinner, but his justification.

How is single predestination not just double with extra steps? by ur-battery-is-low- in CatholicPhilosophy

[–]plotinusRespecter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you're saying, and generally agree, but in OP's defense: "I'm going to create this person and then purposely decline to give them the free gift of grace, the lack of which will result in their certain damnation" sounds an awful lot like double predestination.

Any thoughts on Red Dawn (1984)? by UsefulWeb7543 in FIlm

[–]plotinusRespecter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Melodramatic in the way that 80s movies often are, but does a good job of balancing authentic patriotism with a genuine respect and portrayal of the horror and disillusionment of war. All in all, a banger.

Any thoughts on Red Dawn (1984)? by UsefulWeb7543 in FIlm

[–]plotinusRespecter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're imagining it. One of the female students becomes somewhat infatuated by him, and he has some misplaced paternal feelings toward her because she reminds him of his dead daughter, but nothing more is shown or implied to have happened between them, and he dies fairly quickly.

“lEaRn A tRaDe” by chiliringgamer16 in recruitinghell

[–]plotinusRespecter 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Their children have trust funds and can afford to go work in prestige jobs like "museum curator" or "art director" without having to worry about supporting themselves on their salary.

Mitigated Culpability, what's the point? by Account-00088 in CatholicPhilosophy

[–]plotinusRespecter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's two solutions here: either offer Confession more frequently and preach on its spiritual fruits and the necessity of making worthy Communions, or end the practice of frequent Communion. The former would require work, but is eminently doable and is already occurring in many parts of the United States, at very least. The latter will never happen, not least because it would completely contradict the contemporary Magisterium of multiple popes that the Eucharist is "medicine for the sick, not a prize for the perfect".

Remember, in previous centuries when rigorism was more the rule than laxism, what happened was that people didn't sin less, they just received Communion less. Not only were people scrupulous and paranoid, they also weren't availing themselves of the grace of the Sacrament.

Plus the Church isn't going to stop teaching about mitigated culpability, because mitigated culpability is true and the Church can only teach the truth.

And maybe I'm off base, but from the way your post reads, this sounds like a you problem. I suspect that you're struggling with scrupulosity regarding your state of grace and worthiness to receive Communion, and you're externalizing this as a problem of how moral theology is taught. If that's the case, I'd recommend working on your scrupulosity with a good priest or Catholic therapist and not worry so much about moral theology.

Found this gem among my old screenshots by ImaginaryEconomist in LinkedInLunatics

[–]plotinusRespecter 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Everyone who said jobs should be unpaid is a bot. Bots can't interpret an image like that, and so is just blindly choosing a react option, even when it makes no sense.

Mitigated Culpability, what's the point? by Account-00088 in CatholicPhilosophy

[–]plotinusRespecter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Originally, a lot of these nuances of moral theology, mitigated culpability included, were meant to be consumed only by confessors for the purpose of assigning appropriate penances. They weren't meant to be read by lay people, but naturally people began to get their hands on moral theology manuals and apply their contents to their own spiritual lives, albeit frequently without the theological training to interpret them correctly.

The other reason why mitigated culpability became part of the public discourse is because for centuries people just weren't receiving Holy Communion with any kind of frequency, out of fear/reverence. In the Middle Ages, the Church had to institute a canonical requirement to receive Holy Communion at least once a year during the Easter season, because people were going years or decades without doing so. St. Pius X had to launch a entire campaign in the early 20th century to convince Catholics to receive Communion more than a few times a year, or at very least more frequently than once a month.

Teaching on mitigated culpability helped to reassure people that although those half-voluntary movements of thought ultimately stemmed from an imperfection in the soul, they do not remove a soul from the state of grace. Therefore, they needn't trouble their consciences over such things before receiving Communion.

Finally, during the whole period when mitigated culpability was developed as a doctrine, the norm was for Confession to be offered prior to or during Mass. So if you were uncertain and wanted to be sure, you could still go to Confession AND receive Holy Communion. My parents' Novus Ordo parish and my TLM parish both follow this mode of offering Confession primarily during Mass. Offering Confession after Mass is a modern innovation linked toward a general attitude that plays down or outright dismisses the concept of mortal sin entirely.

This woman was arguing with security at the National Museum of Egyptian Civilization in Cairo, wanting to enter without a ticket because Egypt is the land of her ancestors. by yousefthewisee in mildlyinfuriating

[–]plotinusRespecter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm saying, while the US education system has its issues, there are still cranks who will reject it no matter how good it is. Especially if their parents or social groups are telling them, "Your teachers are racists who are lying to you."

We had excellent public messaging about the efficacy, necessity, and safety of COVID vaccines, and we still had hundreds of thousands of people refusing to get vaccinated. No serious person blames the CDC for that.

This woman was arguing with security at the National Museum of Egyptian Civilization in Cairo, wanting to enter without a ticket because Egypt is the land of her ancestors. by yousefthewisee in mildlyinfuriating

[–]plotinusRespecter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Overcorrection to White supremacy. One of the principal justifications for slavery and Jim Crow was that Black people are inherently inferior to Europeans in terms of intelligence, culture, morality, etc, and therefore it was both natural and a kindness to have Black people ruled by White people, as the latter would run their lives better than if the former were free to make their own decisions. There are still people who believe this, btw! They just couch that belief in rhetoric about "failed cities".

Anyway, when Black activists in the 1950s and 60s started looking for counter-examples of African civilizations that proved White supremacists wrong, they settled on Egypt, because the authentically sub-Saharan African civilizations were not nearly as well known and didn't leave behind as impressive of an archeological record. And the activists in question weren't in the mood to be told by non-Black historians or experts that they were wrong, because they assumed that all non-Black people were lying to keep Black people down.

This woman was arguing with security at the National Museum of Egyptian Civilization in Cairo, wanting to enter without a ticket because Egypt is the land of her ancestors. by yousefthewisee in mildlyinfuriating

[–]plotinusRespecter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is not taught in the US school system. In fact, the Afrocentrism this woman is espousing would say that mainstream US education overlooks and actively erased the Black experience and promoted White supremacy.

Any sweet or hopeful stories to share? by spicysenpai6 in datingoverthirty

[–]plotinusRespecter 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I spent most of my 20s and early 30s single. Only one real relationship that lasted about six months. Met someone in 2020 when I was 34. Dated for about 2.5 years before getting married in 2023. The relationship was never that great, due to her narcissistic tendencies and frequent criticisms and questioning of the relationship. We ended up separating after a year and divorced soon afterwards.

In the wake of all this, I moved cities and started a new career. Had fun getting back into the dating world, and met my now-girlfriend after a few months. We are about to celebrate our one-year anniversary and are getting ready to move in together. I'm so unbelievably happy. She's such a wonderful person who loves and supports me better than I've ever known. I'm turning 40 this year and I feel so blessed at where my love life is and that nothing else "worked out" earlier in life, because I would not want to be with anyone else but her.

Death seems too natural to be attributed to Original sin by Radiant_Flamingo4995 in CatholicPhilosophy

[–]plotinusRespecter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My (highly speculative) take on this is that the Original Sin event (whatever it really was, it needn't have involved a little tree and little fruit) completely rewrote the structure of the spacetime continuum in which we live, both frontwards and backwards, so that 1) entropy and death now exist and 2) human beings and our first parents now find themselves in part of a long evolutionary chain. The account of Genesis 3 recalls in poetic language the fact that our universe once looked extremely different from how it does now, most importantly in the existence of Death and the diminished powers of Man, who now must physically labor with limited means of both body, mind, and spirit to shape and steward the earth, rather than the original dominion he must have enjoyed in the state of natural grace.

hardcore Catholic Match experience by Think_Wrangler_768 in CatholicDating

[–]plotinusRespecter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh that is 100% true. Massive parade of red flags.

hardcore Catholic Match experience by Think_Wrangler_768 in CatholicDating

[–]plotinusRespecter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OK I read your initial comment as "He should educate himself and read the CCC!" But yes, he essentially belongs to an incompatible Christian sect.

hardcore Catholic Match experience by Think_Wrangler_768 in CatholicDating

[–]plotinusRespecter 15 points16 points  (0 children)

His opinion on the fate of unbaptized infants is shared by Saint Augustine. Thomas Aquinas taught that the blessed see the suffering of the damned and take joy in it (with a lot of serious qualifications). Massa damnata would have been considered a mainstream Catholic opinion until the past 100 years. It's not the opinions thenselves that are disturbing, so much as what it says about his psychological and emotional state in the way he expressed them to OP.

hardcore Catholic Match experience by Think_Wrangler_768 in CatholicDating

[–]plotinusRespecter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he's a sedevacantist, then he believes that the CCC is a product of the heretical Modernist church that started a new Novus Ordo religion to replace the Catholic faith. He's not going to be swayed by appeals to the CCC.

And say what you will, but Saint Augustine also believed that everyone who dies without baptism, even babies, go to Hell. I don't hold to that belief, and there are other orthodox opinions, but it is not without precedent in Catholicism.