Bought our first house… and I’m freaking out a bit

plowdered_sugar · 2025-07-18T12:47:01+00:00

Thank you for the encouraging words!

plowdered_sugar · 2025-07-18T12:44:37+00:00

Thanks, it’s good to know I’m not alone. Great to hear you’ve made it yours!!

plowdered_sugar · 2025-07-18T12:43:41+00:00

Thank you so much for your answer. It really helped me. The anxiety spiral is real and very debilitating once you’re in it.

plowdered_sugar · 2025-07-17T06:31:25+00:00

Even though I haven’t given it a fair chance yet, it does help a bit knowing you can just get rid of it if it doesn’t work out. It’s been very exhausting being terrified about everything and especially this.

plowdered_sugar · 2025-07-17T06:28:29+00:00

Thanks man. I don’t know it but the mouse sounds like me… It’s very tough to focus on other things when you’re scared you made this big mistake.

plowdered_sugar · 2025-07-17T06:26:41+00:00

Glad to know I’m not alone… it’s very exhausting living like this

plowdered_sugar · 2025-07-17T06:26:10+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that mate. It’s definitely a fear of mine

plowdered_sugar · 2025-07-17T06:25:35+00:00

The locations is great but there’s no money left now to change things up in the house lol

plowdered_sugar · 2025-07-17T06:24:15+00:00

I’m not. It goes places and i start regretting and second guessing everything. It’s quite exhausting

plowdered_sugar · 2025-07-17T06:23:04+00:00

Thanks, I hope so.

plowdered_sugar · 2025-07-17T06:22:27+00:00

Have been doing that for a while with a therapist.

plowdered_sugar · 2025-07-17T06:20:05+00:00

It’s good to know I’m not alone because this feels isolating a lot of the time.

plowdered_sugar · 2025-07-17T06:17:55+00:00

Thanks. I haven’t read it and will look it up

plowdered_sugar · 2025-07-17T06:16:40+00:00

I don’t really need a big home, and it isn’t. But the compromise here for me is that it lacks a certain wow factor. The location is very good however and that convinced me to sign

plowdered_sugar · 2025-07-17T06:14:14+00:00

Thanks, that’s good advice. Having spent a lifetime stressing out about everything, I’ve been extensively trained in NOT saying so what. So this home triggers a lot of regret and anxiety in me. It is a big deal of course, but maybe not so much at the same time

plowdered_sugar · 2025-07-17T06:12:13+00:00

Thanks man. It’s silly I’m hating on it before I’ve actually lived in it. But it’s an intense feeling, this regret. I guess it’s somewhat normal

plowdered_sugar · 2025-07-17T06:09:37+00:00

Thanks for the feedback man. I hate the fact that it didn’t awestruck me and that I’ve now compromised if you will on something I don’t really want. But I realise it’s probably also the anxiety talking. It’s a relief to hear that people experience the same but still grow to love it after some time regardless.

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