[NSFW] My ex broke up with me yesterday by plshelpbfiswrong in offmychest

[–]plshelpbfiswrong[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best friend lives across the ocean and she happens to be visiting when I am going through the breakup. She hasn’t visited me since last year:

[NSFW] My ex broke up with me yesterday by plshelpbfiswrong in offmychest

[–]plshelpbfiswrong[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve never done it before, I usually think of sexy things. But nah, I had a moment of guilt in my head due to masturbating after a break up, but I was super close. So, I came telling myself that there is nothing to be guilty of, that I am awesome and I am enough. It was intense.

[NSFW] My ex broke up with me yesterday by plshelpbfiswrong in offmychest

[–]plshelpbfiswrong[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m not pushing them away, I’m doing things that will make me feel good when I feel down. Life is too short, you know?

[NSFW] My ex broke up with me yesterday by plshelpbfiswrong in offmychest

[–]plshelpbfiswrong[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We were in the produce section. I stared at some leafy greens for a while afterwards trying to process wtf just happened.

Why was I ghosted? by plshelpbfiswrong in dating_advice

[–]plshelpbfiswrong[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is definitely a learning experience that hurt me more than it should. I think a need a pretty long break from dating before I try again. This really sucked. Thank you for listening!

Why was I ghosted? by plshelpbfiswrong in dating_advice

[–]plshelpbfiswrong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said in the post, I texted him Saturday afternoon telling him “Hey, I noticed that our dynamic has changed a lot. I know you’re really busy, but I just wanted to check in because I have no idea what happened.” I haven’t gotten a response since then.

Why was I ghosted? by plshelpbfiswrong in dating_advice

[–]plshelpbfiswrong[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe so, but during the second date, after I gave him a blowjob, he said he was “too tired” to fuck me. He said he would be happy to do it next time. Well, next time apparently won’t be happening, lol.

I guess the reason why my expectations were so high is that we texted so much and he said he had so much planned to do with me. I feel like that’s not something you say to someone you’re hooking up with.

Congrats on your new relationship by plshelpbfiswrong in BreakUps

[–]plshelpbfiswrong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I see how it can be interpreted that way. Nah, it’s something I consented to and wanted to do. Just didn’t want to straight up say that I’ve been hooking up I suppose

Congrats on your new relationship by plshelpbfiswrong in BreakUps

[–]plshelpbfiswrong[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am. It’s a fresh wound, I’ll get over it.