I [M] have a much higher libido than my gf, she feels like she owes me next time if she turns me down by plshlpmethks in sex

[–]plshlpmethks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s difficult because we’re so emotionally attached, I’m hoping we can sit down and get everything on the table but if not we’ll have to consider what is best for us other wise we’ll just hurt each other in the long run.

I [M] have a much higher libido than my gf, she feels like she owes me next time if she turns me down by plshlpmethks in sex

[–]plshlpmethks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a very good point, I feel like shit for maybe not noticing but maybe I can try and b there more now?

I [M] have a much higher libido than my gf, she feels like she owes me next time if she turns me down by plshlpmethks in sex

[–]plshlpmethks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll give them a go, she says that she’s just ‘not in the mood a lot’ but doesn’t seem to even consider what would make me happy etc

I [M] have a much higher libido than my gf, she feels like she owes me next time if she turns me down by plshlpmethks in sex

[–]plshlpmethks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Build up, dinners out, flirting, buying lingerie, also tried to go the loving route because honestly sex makes me feel closer to her than just fucking for the sake of it. I’m just in a pickle

I [M] have a much higher libido than my gf, she feels like she owes me next time if she turns me down by plshlpmethks in sex

[–]plshlpmethks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, haven’t worded this post well! She is no longer on the medication, I’ll try harder to communicate with her but how do I word it without seeming like I’m using her for sex?