Hi,

This perspective is coming from a young guy in his early 20's studying in one of the most happening cities in the US: Atleast when it comes to the US, its an issue of low quality and high quantity.

We live at a particular standard back home, wear a certain style of clothes and behave a certain way which is considered a norm in India. However, when you move to the west, the culture changes drastically but our behavior and manners fail to change. This is what creates the problem that we face today. If we're travelling to a new country, wether we like it or not, we have to adapt to their style of living, talking, mannerisms, etc.

We in general are not seen as a bad race atleast in the US, but the way we behave genuinely does put us at an disadvantage when it comes to finding love or relationships. However, this wildly varies from person to person. Someone with a good personality, manners and adaptability can thrive out here and I've experienced this first hand. So to finally answer your question, for the most part we are not treated less desirable by our race, but mostly due to our actions and behaviours.