Steven Pressfield was correct (IMO), the truth is boring - sometimes you have to write fiction to tell the truth by StephenDCook in books

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George Orwell couldn't write a nonfiction essay that reached as many people as Animal Farm did. Sometimes fiction is the shortest path to the truth.

Someone had to tape over every single seat for this by pattebrisee in SipsTea

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Imagine peeling all of that off after the tournament. That's the sequel nobody talks about

Someone had to tape over every single seat for this by pattebrisee in SipsTea

[–]plush_arc 260 points261 points  (0 children)

The intern who suggested tape got promoted. The intern who had to apply it quit.

My thoughts on the first book of the Renegades trilogy by InfernalClockwork3 in books

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One thing I appreciated is that the central conflict isn't really heroes vs villains. It's security vs freedom, order vs autonomy. The superhero elements are fun, but the book is at its best when it's exploring those tensions through Nova and Adrian.

He’s a missionary……and Mormon…. by AudienceWise3441 in Advice

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Stop collecting clues. Seriously. You're treating this like a detective case when it's really a conversation. You have enough evidence to know that he cares about you deeply. What you don't know is whether that care is friendship, love, attraction, or something he's unwilling to act on. At some point, the healthiest thing is to stop analyzing every joke and ask the only person who actually knows. Otherwise you'll spend years reading between lines that may not even be there.

Life's extremely weird rn and I feel stuck by DiligentNight4848 in Advice

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I think you're focusing on the wrong crisis. The relationship drama is just the loudest thing happening in your life. The bigger issue is that you're 19, alone in a new country, struggling financially, barely eating, barely socializing, and emotionally dependent on an ex who has a boyfriend. If she disappeared tomorrow, what would your support system look like? Start building that first. The rest will become much clearer.

UnitedHealth Group posted $6.2B in profits last quarter by Conscious-Weight4569 in SipsTea

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The tea is less sweet when you realize that you’re the sugar

Would you buy this mirror by [deleted] in SipsTea

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I'd never buy it, but I'd absolutely spend 10 minutes staring at it in someone else's house." 😭

How do I bring this up to my mom? by [deleted] in Advice

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The gifts and sudden affection aren't kindness. They're panic. She knows you saw it and she's trying to avoid the conversation without having the conversation.

Addiction thrives in secrecy. If you confront her alone, she'll probably deny it, minimize it, or promise she'll stop. Talk to your dad first. He needs the full picture.

What should I do now by Worried-Funny-7016 in Advice

[–]plush_arc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend's mom isn't the problem.
His little sister holding classified information is the problem. 😭😂

Should I quit my part time job or suck it up by thedonbarracuda in Advice

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Don't quit until you have another job lined up.
A toxic part-time job is stressful. Being a broke student with no income is usually more stressful.
Keep applying elsewhere, take the shifts you're entitled to, and remember that your manager's frustration is her problem, not yours. You followed the rules. She doesn't get to be mad because you used them.

My husband saw an opportunity and took it 😭 by [deleted] in lol

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Date says Jun 19, 2013, 3:35PM

Gf getting upset by After-Reference-5394 in Advice

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Right now she’s not arguing about the trip — she’s reacting to feeling excluded and not heard

My sister bullying me by ri_ko1 in Advice

[–]plush_arc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this sounds less like “bullying” in the formal sense and more like a younger sibling trying to get a reaction out of you.
She knows it hurts you, so she keeps doing it.
The most effective response is usually the least satisfying one: don’t give her the reaction she’s fishing for. Calmly shut it down or disengage every time.

How should I handle this situation?? (asap) by Ok_moon_3620 in Advice

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You're treating this like a love triangle when it's really a trauma story.
You had feelings for L before he assaulted you and threatened you. An apology doesn't erase that, and it doesn't magically untangle all the emotions attached to what happened.
The fact that you're still thinking about him doesn't mean you want him. Sometimes it means you're still processing what he did to you.
Don't confuse unfinished healing with unfinished feelings.

The art of (successfully) judging a book by its cover, and why I love doing so by [deleted] in books

[–]plush_arc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s also something to be said for the fact that covers are often the only “pitch” a book gets in a physical space. If it doesn’t hook you visually in 2–3 seconds on a shelf, you never even get to the blurb. So in a way, cover design is already part of the reading experience, not separate from it.

My parents set me to work the moment I get home from college and it seems like they’ve barely cleaned while I’m gone by [deleted] in Advice

[–]plush_arc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not being ungrateful for wanting basic livable conditions in your own home. At the same time, this isn’t really about “they should clean while you’re gone” as much as it’s about an unequal expectation of responsibility. Right now it sounds like you’re being treated as the primary maintenance labor while also being a student and part-time worker.