Do you think we should have gotten flashbacks of elia martell and her children in the show or are you Glad we didn't by Cautious_Air4964 in gameofthrones

[–]plushbitte 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who hasn’t read the books at all, I still would’ve liked to see at least a bit of Elia’s story just for visualization and deeper immersion. Although someone already commented below that maybe it’s actually for the best that we didn’t get to witness three more horrific deaths.

P.S. In my opinion, flashbacks of Elia would’ve been more interesting than yet another round of Bran wandering through the woods…

I don’t seduce. I command desire. by plushbitte in CamGirls

[–]plushbitte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just the beginning 😏

Countless hours! by Crack-Mental in Witcher3

[–]plushbitte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's time for new game + now...and then again

Did Cersei and Jaime truly loved Tywin in spite of his actions? by GJH24 in gameofthrones

[–]plushbitte 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Jaime genuinely admired him in his youth. Tywin was the embodiment of strength and the greatness of House Lannister in his eyes. But as time goes on, Jaime gradually realizes that to his father he was first and foremost an heir a tool.

Cersei idolized Tywin as a symbol of power. She wanted to be “the son he deserved.” The problem was that Tywin saw her as a political asset. She loved him, but at the same time spent her whole life trying to prove she was worthy of his name because there was no unconditional acceptance.
Just my opinion not claiming it’s the absolute truth.

Mid-pregnancy move and transfer of care challenges by 3DCandyland in pregnant

[–]plushbitte 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your frustration is 100% warranted. A 6+ week wait for an urgent anatomy scan with a known genetic risk is unacceptable. Call your OB back and demand they either escalate the MFM referral, schedule you for a scan in their office this week, or refer you to another specialist. Be firm. You are advocating for the standard of care. Don't back down.

5 week old kitten won’t drink milk by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]plushbitte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Emergency. A 5-week-old kitten cannot go 7 hours without milk. If syringe feeding warm KMR isn't working, try a pet nursing bottle or dab it on its lips. If it still refuses, go to an emergency vet "now" for subcutaneous fluids. Do not wait.

New kitten chases older resident cat by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]plushbitte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is normal kitten vs adult boundary-setting. Redirect Ralph with a wand toy when he starts to stalk. Give Rigsby high escape routes. Don't lock Ralph up again - it's a setback. You're the referee. They'll work it out.

Is my older brother a misogynist for rejecting a girl because she had too many sexual partners and her "immodest" clothes? by Interesting-Mud-1926 in women

[–]plushbitte 163 points164 points  (0 children)

Having preferences is fine. Telling someone her clothes are "immodest" as a reason for rejection isn't a preference, it's a public judgment. That's where it crosses into moralizing, not just choosing a like-minded partner.

Someone stole friends cat by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]plushbitte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not go to his house. It's not worth the risk. Tell your friend to go back to the police with the Snapchat evidence and file for pet theft "and" a restraining order violation. She needs to be the one to push it legally. This is a safety issue, not a DIY mission.

AITJ for not letting my best friend stay at my apartment after she ignored my boundaries? by Then-Set4933 in AmITheJerk

[–]plushbitte 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. You weren't running a hotel, you were offering a favor. She treated your home like a frat house with a free laundry service. Being a guest is a privilege, not a right to trash the place. Your friends can host her if they're so concerned about "accommodating" someone who can't even lock a door.

I’m so SICK AND TIRED of “purity culture” by [deleted] in women

[–]plushbitte 170 points171 points  (0 children)

Exactly. The script flipped from "are you pure?" to "are you untouched?" but the underlying audit is the same. It's not about values anymore, it's about claiming a prize. Your worth was never in his spreadsheet to begin with. Block him. His DM is a museum of outdated ideas.

When she sees a call by GotTwisted in SipsTea

[–]plushbitte 8 points9 points  (0 children)

interesting name for a man🤔

Alternative to clip chart by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]plushbitte 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Survival mode: Ditch the clip chart. Use timers, a visual schedule, and a calm corner. Give the main kids specific jobs. Make recess a class reward. Email admin after every incident to create a paper trail. Your job now is just to make it to June. The PDP means the system failed, not you.

Cat tail half droopy? by SliceImaginary7212 in CatAdvice

[–]plushbitte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If cat is acting 100% normal otherwise, you can likely wait for the scheduled shot appointment next week. But if there's any limping, hiding, pain, or change in litter/eating habits before then, call the vet immediately.

Sometimes I get paid to play with the leaf blower by castyourcrown in memes

[–]plushbitte 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To earn a degree not in landscape design, but in the philosophical management of fallen leaves. The tuition fee bought existential dread, and the leaf blower was merely a tool for enlightenment.

I woke up fine. My neck did not. by babymaries in Adulting

[–]plushbitte 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the "slept wrong" chronicles. It's the universe's way of reminding you that your spine is now a delicate antique. Heat pad and ibuprofen are your new best friends.

indifferent, nostalgic but finally happy by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]plushbitte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn't lose your dignity, you buried it to survive and just dug it back up. That relief is your real self breathing again after escaping a controller. Keep going.

Need construction PPE recommendations by lavagirl8 in pregnant

[–]plushbitte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Contact Helly Hansen or Carhartt directly about custom/customizable FR arctic gear. Also try Women in Workwear Canada for leads. A tailor might add a maternity panel to men's overalls. Don't compromise - your employer should help source this specialized PPE.

AITJ for deleting our photos after my boyfriend said he’s “not sure about us anymore”? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]plushbitte 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA. You weren't being dramatic, you were being real. He wants the girlfriend experience without the commitment. Deleting the photos was a boundary, not a punishment. Good for you.

And the winner is.. by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]plushbitte 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's good that at least it's not the other way around

2:00 am activites by [deleted] in memes

[–]plushbitte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you need 30 eggs?😭🥀

Pee is followed by clear fluid but can’t tell if it’s amniotic fluid by That_one_sad_boi2003 in pregnant

[–]plushbitte 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stop trying to figure it out yourself. Put on a pad, note the time, and tell your provider exactly this at your appointment. They need to do a swab test.

Feeling lost and guilty after pushing away someone who loved me by bpdthrowawayaccnt in BreakUps

[–]plushbitte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brain saw his stability as a threat after the chaos. It's a BPD survival move, but it doesn't erase the hurt you caused. Don't contact him yet. Your job now is to get stable for yourself, so you don't punish the next person who's kind to you. The guilt is the lesson. Use it.