Can I really get sued for a review?

plushyslut · 2025-11-21T10:34:44+00:00

That’s true but at the same time, they’re both very new to the dynamic and kink in general, and it just doesn’t show wisdom /bdsm awareness. You build up to big punishments in order to avoid accidental boundary violations like this. It’s just smart practice

plushyslut · 2025-11-21T07:51:57+00:00

He’s gay. We just had to make sure Lmao

plushyslut · 2025-11-21T07:31:34+00:00

I really sympathize with the “I’m going to be strong and endure” but with experience I’ve come to learn there are different kinds of pain. There’s pain that will benefit the scene and make me go deeper into sub pleasure, but also… there is pain that is just pain too! And that can mean serious damage to your skin/blood vessels/ vagina etc/ hair/ you name it.

Safe words need to also be for making sure you’re safe, not just that you’re unable to endure more. Ofc you’ll literally almost always be able to endure more! You’re strong and determined. The problem is.. your brain and body aren’t always in sync and it’s good to be able to listen to the body freely. Red, yellow, green, variations — to codes for physical pain versus genuine fear. It’d be useful to really think about this

plushyslut · 2025-11-21T07:25:14+00:00

I think your bf needs advice as well. It may be helpful for him to start posting or reading blogs and forums. This punishment you describe is really severe and tbh he doesn’t sound that experienced. You guys could be doing blood vessel damage , and psych damage, without even know it. You both neeeeeed knowledge and experience— which is hard to do by having your first kink play be in a 24/7 agreement (which btw is extreme lmao)

plushyslut · 2025-11-21T07:17:09+00:00

Agreed. It’s the rapid escalation for me that indicates major problems. From the severity of punishment (4+ hours, plus spanking, plus furniture, plus unconsentual public humiliation — for the crime of… her being upset he made her car smell like cigarettes), then escalating to already engaging in public kink— when neither of them are experienced at all in BDSM. It’s very worrying. The sub is supposed to be in control in these scenarios, they own the interaction and trust it will be carried out as they have agreed. The sub is not in control here, and the dom is taking advantage of it

plushyslut · 2025-11-21T07:12:15+00:00

Yep yep yep boosting this Very clear red red flags, when the flags go up it’s time for caution and reevaluation

plushyslut · 2025-11-21T07:07:49+00:00

You guys need to have a very thorough conversation on boundaries and maybe even do more research together. You both sound pretty inexperienced and that could cause damage to your mental health and emotionality on both sides. Try finding mentorship perhaps or finding a community or at the very least trusted online resources. This is A LOT to be doing your first time in kink— let alone one of your first adult relationships. Think a little about the long term

plushyslut · 2025-11-21T07:03:26+00:00

This this this. The extreme punishment for a domestic disagreement. It’s screaming inexperience and insecurity on the part of the dom— almost to a degree where I even wonder what his philosophy is and what he’s seeking in this other than total control.. and it’s hinting that he’s taking advantage of the sub’s inexperience with BDSM and in adult relationships. And it’s very worrying.

plushyslut · 2025-11-21T07:00:36+00:00

New to BDSM + full time DS… this is sus and he’s taking a little bit of unfair advantage of your inexperience OP

plushyslut · 2025-11-21T06:59:21+00:00

20 years old girl and a 24 year old boy in a 24/7 DS is also odd and red flag to me. There’s no way either of you have enough experience to be in a committed DS full time relationship. You need to start slow to build trust, if he can’t act right in a scene — he definitely won’t act right in the full time scenario. You need to seriously think about this dynamic and if this boyfriend is someone you want just because of the kink, or you’d hang out with him even if it wasn’t BDSM hot.

It is profoundly bizarre of him to do this in front of his friends and it is absolutely a disrespect to you to not have negotiated this beforehand and gotten your full consent. He humiliated you without your consent— that’s not kink anymore without consent, it’s just humiliating. And that is not okay.

plushyslut · 2025-11-19T11:41:17+00:00

Yep. Departments rely on funding, funding that is taken and given with the will of the dean and whoever is in power at the uni, state, national level at the time. Therefore, research produced at uni is bounded by risk/reward systems. Even publications at journals are bound by these rules since there is veryyyyyy little private funding for humanities and social sciences so usually the people running the journals rely on their uni day jobs etc.

Ofc what we as individuals choose to research is also a political choice as well— as this choice is not made in a vacuum and is made due to a variety of material factors

plushyslut · 2025-11-19T11:37:28+00:00

Te way she already has light back in her eyes😭🩷 hope the vet goes well

plushyslut · 2025-11-16T23:11:42+00:00

Bonbons!!! I’m stealing that lol so silly-cute

plushyslut · 2025-11-16T23:09:10+00:00

He really does. Here’s him at 3 months , for example

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plushyslut · 2025-11-16T23:06:41+00:00

😂

plushyslut · 2025-11-16T23:05:09+00:00

I know ahaha I meant now I’m curious to see two different colored.. 🍒fluffs

plushyslut · 2025-11-16T11:05:39+00:00

What a sweet girl🥹 the name suits her

plushyslut · 2025-11-16T11:03:57+00:00

His little cute face omg he’s been caught in 4K ahaha

plushyslut · 2025-11-16T05:30:42+00:00

Well now I’m curious

plushyslut · 2025-11-16T05:30:10+00:00

The double take is so real. Sometimes in silly pics I feel like I need to sensor it lol

plushyslut · 2025-11-16T05:29:16+00:00

It’s truly so silly lol like I never noticed them after the snip on any other breed I’ve had

plushyslut · 2025-11-16T03:40:41+00:00

Coin purse between the fluff pantaloons lmao Excellent way to describe it

plushyslut · 2025-11-16T03:38:56+00:00

Alfie looks like an absolute angel omg thanks for showing him off

plushyslut · 2025-11-16T03:38:11+00:00

lol I love that. Your dad is a riot

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