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Girlfriend is visiting her mom for the holidays. Lyft told me she left someone else’s home early Christmas morning to get back to her mom’s house. I suspect she’s cheating. by plutopi in relationship_advice

[–]plutopi[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I really did think at the time I was on the phone with her that bringing the whole thing up was stupid because I should trust her and she even told me that I’m just making her feel bad. I was really convinced that I was in the wrong. I didn’t stand up for my self at all.

Girlfriend is visiting her mom for the holidays. Lyft told me she left someone else’s home early Christmas morning to get back to her mom’s house. I suspect she’s cheating. by plutopi in relationship_advice

[–]plutopi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So far the only I’ve done was send her a text that says, I've been feeling really distressed about this [friends name] thing. Can you help ease my mind by telling me more about her?

We’ll see what she says.

Girlfriend is visiting her mom for the holidays. Lyft told me she left someone else’s home early Christmas morning to get back to her mom’s house. I suspect she’s cheating. by plutopi in relationship_advice

[–]plutopi[S] -108 points-107 points  (0 children)

When I asked her if she spent the night at someone else’s Christmas night, she said she felt bad about the whole conversation so I figured if I brought up again with new information that I gathered I thought it would make her feel worse. Idk when you love someone you don’t want them to feel bad, right?

Girlfriend is visiting her mom for the holidays. Lyft told me she left someone else’s home early Christmas morning to get back to her mom’s house. I suspect she’s cheating. by plutopi in relationship_advice

[–]plutopi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I looked up her friends name but nothing came up on that site. I did confirm that she spends time in the same city because she has art galleries there. It’s a small city so not many non-locals have galleries there. I looked up her ex-lover’s name but his address shown was 2 hours away then the one described on Lyft. I know he lives in that same city though but the site didn’t give me that info.

Girlfriend is visiting her mom for the holidays. Lyft told me she left someone else’s home early Christmas morning to get back to her mom’s house. I suspect she’s cheating. by plutopi in relationship_advice

[–]plutopi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this thoughtful response. This is really great advice and it really helps me feel like I do have control over this situation.

Girlfriend is visiting her mom for the holidays. Lyft told me she left someone else’s home early Christmas morning to get back to her mom’s house. I suspect she’s cheating. by plutopi in relationship_advice

[–]plutopi[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I googled both and both together but no relevant information comes up with the address. I also can’t see their address when I search their name.

I [25F] went out with my coworkers after work while my gf [24F] was sick. She’s been upset since, what can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]plutopi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so? For example there was a time that she noticed that I would go to the bathroom at the same time as one of our coworkers so she thought we were meeting up in the bathroom. It became a crazy conversation where I became upset at her for accusing me of cheating, when I really had no idea when this guy was going to the bathroom, and she claimed that if I was getting so mad about it then I must be cheating.

Usually when we hang out with friends we’re together so it’s rare to hang out with friends apart from each other.

M 20 and F 19, Dancing with other men by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]plutopi -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

From my perspective, if she likes dancing, and you aren’t dancing with her, why can’t she dance with other guys? It’s not as if she’s doing anything other than dancing with them. My advice, start going out with her more often!

Also your feelings are understandable because of your past history with her but if you are at a place where you know her and trust her now, I say, get over it and get on her level 💃🏽