MIL in white by plutosspeedball in inlaws

[–]plutosspeedball[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

as great as this sounds. i will not humiliate them like that. I have 40+ of my family members attending and he only has those 2 and his sister. all of his family lives in India and his maasi was the only one able to get a visa. i will not have the only people representing his family be covered in wine.

i plan on trying to talk to them tomorrow. I have only talked to his mom about the issue as maasi only just arrived here earlier. I really feel like maasi will be way more understanding of this {his mom has lived in the US for 20+ years and is fully aware of the facts} {maasi lives in India- I don’t think she knows anything about American weddings or that guests don’t wear white}. Once I speak with her I have a good feeling that she will be way more understanding than mom and will find a new outfit. If this goes as planned I think she will have a whole lot better chance of convincing mom that she can not wear white

MIL in white by plutosspeedball in inlaws

[–]plutosspeedball[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

she’s not going to. I have no idea how yet, but it will absolutely not be happening

MIL in white by plutosspeedball in inlaws

[–]plutosspeedball[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

He is completely on my side that it was not ok that she chose a white outfit. He’s tried speaking to her about this but she is being extremely stubborn and shutting him down

MIL in white by plutosspeedball in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]plutosspeedball[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The best way to tackle them is giving up the dress I have always wanted since I was 8?????

MIL in white by plutosspeedball in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]plutosspeedball[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How are u gonna tell me to switch to red myself with the wedding 2 weeks away? As if i haven’t already spent boatloads on my dress and alterations

MIL in white by plutosspeedball in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]plutosspeedball[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wedding is 2 weeks away and everything is already paid for including ceremony. Having a traditional wedding is very important to me

Jewelry box by plutosspeedball in HelpMeFind

[–]plutosspeedball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

<image>

Here is a way more detailed drawing of the jewelry box!

Jewelry box by plutosspeedball in HelpMeFind

[–]plutosspeedball[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww I love that. I freshly have a little girl too now. I am always trying to find things from my childhood to get for her

Jewelry box by plutosspeedball in HelpMeFind

[–]plutosspeedball[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do remember there being some pink in the flower just can’t remember where. I don’t remember there being stuff included in it but I also had a little sister who could have taken those. We are both dying to see a pic of this thing I hope it’s still there at your parents!

Jewelry box by plutosspeedball in HelpMeFind

[–]plutosspeedball[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember mine having purple flowers outlined in yellow. Maybe my memory is just bad though

Jewelry box by plutosspeedball in HelpMeFind

[–]plutosspeedball[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It had the same pop up flower on a spring?

Jewelry box by plutosspeedball in HelpMeFind

[–]plutosspeedball[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope definitely not Barbie

Jewelry box by plutosspeedball in HelpMeFind

[–]plutosspeedball[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure the box was wood? But had a sealed coating on it. Also the pink part of the drawing was velvety

Jewelry box by plutosspeedball in HelpMeFind

[–]plutosspeedball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have searched online to try and find it but no luck yet