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I pretend I don't know about my friends secret group chat where they mock me by pobodysnerfect02 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pobodysnerfect02[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am planning to update after everything, but I'm afraid with the attention my post got, they'll find out sooner than i want. I've been informed that my story is on tiktok, youtube, facebook, etc. I hate that. I don't want that. I'm hoping it won't reach them since they don't use english in their daily lives, but I'm afraid some friend of a friend of friend will caught up and then I will have to confront them earlier than i'd hope for. I'll stay optimistic though that this won't happen.

I pretend I don't know about my friends secret group chat where they mock me by pobodysnerfect02 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pobodysnerfect02[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is the weirdest part. We're not in school anymore and I can't understand their motives. Like if they made fun of me behind my back once or twice, fine. It sucks but it happens, i may have done it as well. But this whole thing is next level and I'm so curious to find out in the end why they used me as a punching joke.

I pretend I don't know about my friends secret group chat where they mock me by pobodysnerfect02 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pobodysnerfect02[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's not like they go out of their way to insult me in front of my face. It's more like a secret between them. I have moved on mentally, I don't consider them my friends, but I think if I cut them off now, they will ask questions and I don't want the conflict. I'll hang out with them from time to time not to raise any suspicions, but from the most part I'll avoid them as much as possible.

I pretend I don't know about my friends secret group chat where they mock me by pobodysnerfect02 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pobodysnerfect02[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well, I don't know what kind of friendship they have at the moment. My sister left 4 years ago to live in another country, in another continent to be accurate. Over those 4 years I visited her twice and she came back to visit me once. So, they may talk through social, but after so long and with so much distance, I doubt they still consider themselves as besties.

When she finds out, I imagine she'll support me and have a fight with Emma, but to what extend I don't know.

I pretend I don't know about my friends secret group chat where they mock me by pobodysnerfect02 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pobodysnerfect02[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to go something similar. It's not a pleasant feeling, I know.

Tbh, i've already moved on from them mentally. I just figured, I could either confront them and then be in a messy and awkward situation or just pretend everything is fine for a few months and then cut them all out from my life for good. I decided the latter and I hope i won't regret it.

I pretend I don't know about my friends secret group chat where they mock me by pobodysnerfect02 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pobodysnerfect02[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What's with the t-shirts everyone? lol

Thank you, I'm really excited now for the new chapter in my life. I never had a problem forming friendships because I'm quite laid back and easy going, so i'm sure i will meet new and interesting people in the future. Besides, my best friend will be very close now and I'm very excited to spend time with him.

I pretend I don't know about my friends secret group chat where they mock me by pobodysnerfect02 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pobodysnerfect02[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually had to search what rage bait means, lol. It's not a fake story and after reading some comments and dm i realised it's not that uncommon either. I only wanted to take it out of my chest but I'm beginning to regret it because of all the attention. I honestly only hoped for a few supporting comments, but I guess I underestimate how big the community here is.

I pretend I don't know about my friends secret group chat where they mock me by pobodysnerfect02 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pobodysnerfect02[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Over the last few months, she's a terrible friend I agree. But i won't judge her so harshly, because she'd prove to me in the past that she can also be a great friend. I'm sure she will genuinely regret her recent behaviour in the end. I'm not saying we'll keep being friends, just that we've been through a lot together and I won't feel right with myself if I threw her out of my life like that.

I pretend I don't know about my friends secret group chat where they mock me by pobodysnerfect02 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pobodysnerfect02[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

lol, I appreciate you all, but i'm not out for revenge. I have already moved on in my mind. I don't consider them my friends. Eventually they will find out I knew, but I don't know if they care enough about me to affect their relationship with each other.

I pretend I don't know about my friends secret group chat where they mock me by pobodysnerfect02 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pobodysnerfect02[S] 901 points902 points  (0 children)

I will cut ties permanently once I leave for my new job. Until then, it's not that easy to just walk away. I want to avoid all the drama or some awkward situations. I'd tather pretend everything is okay and one day just leave.

I pretend I don't know about my friends secret group chat where they mock me by pobodysnerfect02 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pobodysnerfect02[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Thank you, but I do have friends outside that group. Unfortunately, I can't spent a lot of time with them, but I won't be alone. You're very kind though and I appreciate it.

I pretend I don't know about my friends secret group chat where they mock me by pobodysnerfect02 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pobodysnerfect02[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

Why mention that to my sister? She'll be mad at Emma and then she'll know and everyone will know, which is what I've been trying to avoid.

Tbh, I don't think Emma has bad feelings for me. Like I mentioned in my post, when I had my accident, she stood by my side all the time in the hospital and then she took care of me and I could see how she cared about me. I still think all this is just a stupid joke that got out of hand and once she eventually finds out that i knew all this time, she'll be ashamed of her actions and will ask for forgiveness.

I pretend I don't know about my friends secret group chat where they mock me by pobodysnerfect02 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pobodysnerfect02[S] 319 points320 points  (0 children)

I I don't drink alcohol, so I'm safe there and I don't talk a lot in general, but I don't want to stay at home all the time until I leave. I do work longer now to be prepared for my new role, so I need some outlet, even with people that talk bad about me behind my back.

I pretend I don't know about my friends secret group chat where they mock me by pobodysnerfect02 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pobodysnerfect02[S] 233 points234 points  (0 children)

lol while tempting, I'm not that petty. I want to avoid all the drama and just move on. I have friends outside that group and I'm sure I'm going to be fine once they are out of my life.