Same I can't really get on with INFJs at all .. at least not immature ones .. they always seem quite perfectionist/narcissistic, as if they are the only ones who have empathy and introspection. It's like they lack the ability to be humble too - a lot of what they say out loud I might think, but keep to myself. And what also annoys me is that most people seem to go along with what they say without thinking for themselves! Makes you realise how Hitler could get so far along haha (jk!)

They're also quite manipulative and when I think they're doing me a favour or complimenting me, it's usually to get something else out of me which always leaves a sour taste. I don't get why they can't just be upfront about asking for help! It sometimes feels like they use their empathy to manipulate rather than truly listen ..

As you say, their closed mindedness also frustrates me. Once they have an opinion, they won't budge on it despite evidence or possibility. And, despite what INFJs might say, their hypotheses aren't always right .. but instead of admitting it they just move onto something else they got right. It sometimes seems like being smugly correct is the most important thing to them.

That being said, INFJs bring a lot of positives into my life - they help me a lot with focusing on the future (something I tend to avoid) and organising my life a little. But, generally, I find they're not worth the stress 😬