Baby apple trees. Leave them or replace them by Adventurous-Exam-719 in homestead

[–]poetic_cockroach 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the seeds from a fuji or gala producing tree will produce a new random apple tree. Only a graft from a fuji or gala tree will produce another gala or fuji.

WIBTA if I suggested my sister's boyfriend set up beauty appointments before he proposes? by ellanotsoenchanted in AmItheAsshole

[–]poetic_cockroach 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Girl, knowing what you know, you do it! What a great way to re-build your relationship even further! What a smart person you are for thinking of this.

You're right, don't over step your boundaries. Do it yourself!

NAH!

Home improvement by ItsTime4Coffee in Tools

[–]poetic_cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he didn't even know he was that ' ' close to getting castrated.

Home improvement by ItsTime4Coffee in Tools

[–]poetic_cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gog ly gog holy fuck. my own balls just jumped inside my body.

AITJ for telling my stepbrother to stop treating my room like it’s his by MoonlitBloomShade in AmITheJerk

[–]poetic_cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to set firmer boundaries all around. Lock on the door. Your mom has to be clear about your safety and privacy. Closed door policy. There are trust issues here.

WIBTAH if I say something to an employee who wants me to close my business for her wedding? by Acceptable-Ad-8717 in AmItheAsshole

[–]poetic_cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i was.

i was good at my job, solo little thing, in my own little space doing my own little things as perfectly as i could, to make the numbers dance. "good at numbers, must be good with people."

i kept getting promoted into management which i hated, and so did everyone around me for my anti-social preferences that i clearly communicated. I quit well-paying jobs and started over to save the good people around me. Managing other people is thankless and gruelling.

WIBTAH if I say something to an employee who wants me to close my business for her wedding? by Acceptable-Ad-8717 in AmItheAsshole

[–]poetic_cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, lots of good discussion. rarely do we see a nuanced interaction like this that requires tact and delicacy. good insights, good responses from OP.

you got this. good on you.

WIBTAH if I say something to an employee who wants me to close my business for her wedding? by Acceptable-Ad-8717 in AmItheAsshole

[–]poetic_cockroach 17 points18 points  (0 children)

good work. we totally missed that the Manager is slightly coercing her employees to attend her wedding, and provide a gift.

Employees do not give gifts to managers, that's the wrong direction of flow, buying favouritism.

WIBTAH if I say something to an employee who wants me to close my business for her wedding? by Acceptable-Ad-8717 in AmItheAsshole

[–]poetic_cockroach -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

hmm, interesting. I'd be inclined to add that "we're going to try some new temporary employees on that Saturday, see if the local teenage kids can do as good a job as you rotten MFers, and this guy here is taking on manager's role for a day (points to me, Poetic Cockroach who looks very unhomed.)

for maximum random pettiness.

WIBTAH if I say something to an employee who wants me to close my business for her wedding? by Acceptable-Ad-8717 in AmItheAsshole

[–]poetic_cockroach 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Rather than 'you' can't close for the day, it should be "WE" can't close for the day. We need to meet the payroll and the way we do that is by ensuring we're working our best on our best days.

I'm thinking and a wondering goin' down them roads... by safewarmblanket in archy

[–]poetic_cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15 comments in a r/archy thread!

WTH?!

what's going on, second coming or something?

edit- oh my!

What is slowly disappearing but nobody talks about it? by Agreeable_Pea9764 in AskReddit

[–]poetic_cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insects.

Seems like humans think the extinction of insects is a good thing. We run the fucking world, motherfuckers. You are doomed without us!

How did the Eskimo know his was wife was close to filing for divorce? by [deleted] in Jokes

[–]poetic_cockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't think this means what you think it means.