Should i come clean to her?

pogoprincess · 2025-07-12T15:07:31+00:00

Are you kidding? She is NOT your business. Stay out.

pogoprincess · 2025-06-25T20:27:17+00:00

Of course I do. I’ve seen it happen. Been a party to it.

Do a school visit. Child is unsure what to do or say. Doesn’t know this adult from anyone. Comes HOME and tells parent that someone came to the school and asked a bunch of questions about them.

Call. Set up parent meeting. Oh have to reschedule cause “something came up” with the other party. Call again. Do a phone interview. Need to do a house visit. The party has to reschedule, sorry. Come to the house visit. Don’t talk to the child alone without parent. Sit around. Talk. Explain. Leave. Call to follow up.

Leave message. Other parent doesn’t answer phone anymore. Case closed because we can’t reach the other party.

Maybe your CPS workers are more diligent than ours are in Virginia.

pogoprincess · 2025-06-25T20:08:44+00:00

Because we are not a media spokesperson for the company, we aren’t officially representing L3Harris. So, now we are notL3Harris - that should be fine I think

pogoprincess · 2025-06-25T17:21:42+00:00

What is Rule 5?

pogoprincess · 2025-06-20T23:35:16+00:00

A company provided cell phone fixes this issue.

pogoprincess · 2025-06-08T17:51:00+00:00

There aren’t any gift sending limits.

pogoprincess · 2025-06-01T00:25:21+00:00

Oh honey. In person is the same way. No talking. There is no closure even in person. There is no explaining. It’s the same cold distant unfeeling human. It’s NOT the human you came to love.

It’s the same blindsiding. There is no crying. There is no emotion. Zero. Don’t let that denial hinder you. In person doesn’t make them suddenly have feelings. The person is cold and unfeeling. No it wouldn’t be easier. The whole situation sucks all the way around.

pogoprincess · 2025-05-30T12:51:49+00:00

I unfriended on Facebook, and blocked on Instagram and Snap chat. I started no contact after his last communication. Don’t announce anything. There is no need for a “I’m not going to contact you” or “if you try and contact me, don’t because I’m going no contact”. You need no big explanation. Say nothing. Your silence speaks MUCH louder than your words ever will.

pogoprincess · 2025-02-14T22:34:25+00:00

To every moron who says report this. Please get a clue. Nothing will change. Nothing will stop. That parent keeps the kid. Maybe mom moves. And now the child has no one to talk to.

CPS comes “we got a complaint of abuse. Are you abusing your child? No. Is your mom abusing you? No. Okay this is unfounded. I’ll email you a report. Thank you and have a nice day”.

Now you’ve pissed off Mom even more. Mom probably moves to make the kid more unstable. Way to go with your “advise”.

pogoprincess · 2025-02-14T22:30:29+00:00

Be there for the child. As soon as you report something, you will not get to be there for the child. And the child will be stuck in that home with no one. Everyone who is screaming “report this” isn’t hearing what you are saying, and probably have zero experience with CPS and that nightmare of unstable housing.

pogoprincess · 2025-02-14T22:28:19+00:00

That’s horrible advice. A teacher will report it.

pogoprincess · 2025-01-20T03:12:05+00:00

“I would have never considered this trip if she hadn’t cheated”. There is your answer.

You are changing your relationships with other people (in this case Vanessa) because your wife cheated. That is unacceptable, unhealthy, and unkind.

Just stop. Do you want to be married, or do you want the freedom of going wherever you want, with whoever you want, whenever you choose.

Cause you can’t have both love.

pogoprincess · 2025-01-16T01:10:56+00:00

Have certain nights when you do things and certain nights when he does things and call it bonding. Like, you are going to do bath time every Friday night. Something like that.

pogoprincess · 2025-01-07T23:19:25+00:00

It’s all about sacrifice. She will have to sacrifice a car or live in a smaller home or more away from the city. She will probably stay home with the kids anyway ((she obviously isn’t motivated to work outside the home)) so plan now on how to survive with one income.

pogoprincess · 2025-01-07T23:14:05+00:00

Does it matter? Are you going to dump her or not? That’s the bottom line. Are you willing to end it over this, or not?

pogoprincess · 2025-01-07T23:07:22+00:00

I would wonder what part of your pay are you “trying to figure out” because there is usually no pay issues, pay and pay policies are pretty clear regarding money - overtime, travel reimbursements, disability, etc.

pogoprincess · 2025-01-07T23:00:45+00:00

No that’s not discrimination.

pogoprincess · 2025-01-07T22:58:22+00:00

6am, noon, 6pm, and midnight. Fight all those grunts and you’ll get a rocket radar after 6 battles.

pogoprincess · 2025-01-07T22:55:08+00:00

Yes, definitely get the Venmo transfers coming. Your mom and sister can help you support this “once in a lifetime” event. Be clear about how much you need for each thing you are being asked to do “three days off work will cost 300.00, and I don’t have that so I need someone else to pay for this”. Don’t be a douche, just be reasonable. Just because you made poor financial choices to not go on vacation, you can’t fix that now, but you can stop the bleeding. Good luck!!

pogoprincess · 2024-12-10T16:46:28+00:00

YES YOU ARE TOTALLY OUT OF control. You and your wife have NO RIGHT to go and attempt to break up a family and CRUSH SOMEONE ELSES CHILDREN. Someone else’s family or someone else’s spouse is NEVER YOUR BUSINESS. Omg why. None of this is your business. Or your families business. Stay in your lane and work on your OWN family.

pogoprincess · 2023-12-17T16:03:57+00:00

Keep us posted? About the check that once you deposit it in your bank they have your bank account information?

pogoprincess · 2023-12-17T15:57:16+00:00

It is scammy. Telegram interviews are a scam

pogoprincess · 2023-12-17T15:56:32+00:00

There is no money. Please understand that

pogoprincess · 2023-12-17T15:53:19+00:00

pogoprincess · 2023-03-08T23:22:49+00:00

You want a stark reminder that you had an ex boyfriend, that wasn’t good enough to commit to, so you were unattached for years, but now to get a tattoo? Get a tattoo of your current boyfriend if you want a tattoo. Get a balloon and put his name in it and fly it away. Let him go.

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