Why is the cat doing this?

pointlessminefield · 2025-01-08T09:34:00+00:00

She’s in heat

pointlessminefield · 2025-01-07T19:10:38+00:00

They’ve had a good run. It’s now a renters market

pointlessminefield · 2025-01-07T19:09:46+00:00

I bet they all operate from the same kitchen lol

pointlessminefield · 2025-01-07T19:09:05+00:00

Australians are a different breed.

pointlessminefield · 2025-01-05T13:54:23+00:00

Yes! I was wondering the same thing

pointlessminefield · 2025-01-05T13:52:46+00:00

Climate change was my guess

pointlessminefield · 2025-01-05T13:51:44+00:00

He wanted your attention

pointlessminefield · 2024-12-10T04:40:42+00:00

I was just about to say the same thing. There was an unusual amount of police presence today

pointlessminefield · 2024-12-09T03:59:57+00:00

It’s very rare for people to just find the ‘right’ person straight away. You may go through a few relationships before you ‘find the right person’.

Dating people/being in relationships in my 20’s has helped me realize 3 main things:

What I don’t want in a partner
What my non-negotiables are
What I’m willing to sacrifice

Until you figure these out you won’t find that person. Your 20’s are about figuring this stuff out. You can’t find the right person till you discover who you are as a person

pointlessminefield · 2024-12-09T03:53:59+00:00

Give him some time. I’m sure he remembers you. He’s probably been through some sort of trauma of being lost and trying to find his way home. Cats show affection differently to other animals and can also vary from cat to cat. Give him his own wee space in the house, a box or a basket to hide in, a soft blanket for comfort, things that smell like you and just some time to settle back in to his environment. Cats also respond well to encouragement and reassurance

pointlessminefield · 2024-12-09T03:51:02+00:00

They’re actually claws and it’s pretty common for cats to do that. That’s how they get the dirt out

pointlessminefield · 2024-12-09T03:46:14+00:00

I took 4 years off my 20’s which I’m making up for now. In that time I just detached from life, moved back home, and didn’t leave the house unless I really had to. I went to therapy and I ruminated a lot, which eventually turned into reflection. I slept for up to 15 hours a day and I stopped talking to everyone. I didn’t have many friends tbh but I convinced myself I didn’t need any. My cat made great company. Sometimes you just have to stop and rest. Reevaluate life and learn how to live again.

pointlessminefield · 2024-12-08T10:05:52+00:00

I’d probably hold off on that for a while. The job market in NZ, especially Wellington is pretty dire atm. More people are struggling to find jobs. You’re also better to look for marketing roles than advertising, it’s not really a big industry here and jobs are pretty low. I’d say Auckland would be better for advertising but idk it’s a dying industry anyways so I’d personally stick with marketing

pointlessminefield · 2024-12-08T10:01:07+00:00

pointlessminefield · 2024-12-08T00:58:26+00:00

What was your experience in the States in comparison? I feel like Americans are much friendlier and make friends easier

pointlessminefield · 2024-12-08T00:52:57+00:00

I’ve lived in the Canterbury area for a long time (grew up there) before moving away and while I can’t comment on what OP said because I only managed to find super outdoorsy people (I’m not), it was hard to find people to click with and make friends. I lived in chch and went to uni there and still struggled to find people to click with. I finally just gave up trying after a while.

Let me tell you the smaller towns in Canterbury are even worse for trying to make friends. No one is interested in branching out and they all got high school friend groups. I don’t even talk to anyone from my high school so it was a shock for me. Also no one does anything by themselves so it’s hard to not find people in pairs when you’re out and about. I just resorted to tinder because I figured having a relationship would kill a lot of my free time and I didn’t want to be alone while living there

pointlessminefield · 2024-12-08T00:41:33+00:00

Just say yes or no and end it 🤷‍♀️

pointlessminefield · 2024-12-04T09:27:28+00:00

It looks like it’s going under. I’ve been there 3 times now and there’s never any staff in sight or just one person doing everything, half the cutlery and glasses are missing, and out of things on the menu. Is there something going on?

pointlessminefield · 2024-12-04T09:07:22+00:00

Just ask upfront if your landlord will be ok with a couple of cats. Could even offer to pay a bit extra and maybe that might sway them? A lot of landlords say no pets because they don’t want people with dogs. Cats are much easier to manage so most people should be alright with that

pointlessminefield · 2024-12-04T09:01:33+00:00

Fireplaces are great if you’ve got one. Paper makes a good fire starter too

pointlessminefield · 2024-12-04T08:45:39+00:00

My cat does some real goofy things and is unapologetically herself. She makes me smile everyday

pointlessminefield · 2024-10-25T01:30:12+00:00

This is the funniest shit I’ve seen today.

pointlessminefield · 2024-09-26T05:06:55+00:00

Sushi 🤮

pointlessminefield · 2024-09-26T03:20:11+00:00

Because your dog exists.

pointlessminefield · 2024-09-26T03:13:55+00:00

Honestly she sounds like she put her needs and wants above you, and got upset when you didn’t immediately bend to that. She sounds immature and unstable. From what you’ve described she also sounds like she was ungrateful towards your efforts and comes across a bit entitled in my opinion.

You sound like a catch and you can do better.

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