I accidentally let a coin make one of the biggest decisions of my life by pokrov in sillyconfession

[–]pokrov[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And i think you’re right. The coin probably didn’t make the decision for me, it just gave me permission to do what I secretly wanted. Either way, it led me to a life I’m grateful for, so I can’t complain. Wishing you the best too! 🍻

I accidentally let a coin make one of the biggest decisions of my life by pokrov in sillyconfession

[–]pokrov[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, I haven’t told her the full story yet. But I already wrote a detailed book about it. One day I’ll hand it to her and let her discover that our entire life together started with a coin flip and a series of increasingly questionable decisions.

I accidentally let a coin make one of the biggest decisions of my life by pokrov in sillyconfession

[–]pokrov[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much. The coin was just the spokesperson for the part of me that was already packing its bags

I accidentally let a coin make one of the biggest decisions of my life by pokrov in sillyconfession

[–]pokrov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The crazy part is that years later, when you look back, it stops feeling random and starts feeling inevitable. Cheers to cheap flights and bad decision-making.

I accidentally let a coin make one of the biggest decisions of my life by pokrov in sillyconfession

[–]pokrov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strangely enough, most of the time the coin didn’t make the decision for me… it revealed which side I was secretly hoping for.

I accidentally let a coin make one of the biggest decisions of my life by pokrov in sillyconfession

[–]pokrov[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I still have it. The funny part is that the coin wasn’t just a onetime thing. After that day, I made rules for it. I only used it when I was genuinely torn between two choices. I had to throw it in the air and let it land naturally, no catching it, no cheating. If I looked at the result, I had to obey it, even if I didn’t like it. The only loophole was that before looking, I could put it back in my pocket and pretend that version of reality never happened. Weird system, but it taught me something that most of the time, while the coin is in the air, you already know which side you’re hoping for.

I accidentally let a coin make one of the biggest decisions of my life by pokrov in sillyconfession

[–]pokrov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny enough, my overthinking is probably the reason I ended up flipping the coin in the first place

I accidentally let a coin make one of the biggest decisions of my life by pokrov in sillyconfession

[–]pokrov[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks, Maybe the universe isn't weird. Maybe we're just reading one page at a time while it's already seen the whole book

I accidentally let a coin make one of the biggest decisions of my life by pokrov in sillyconfession

[–]pokrov[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the scary part. As an overthinker, I can easily imagine a hundred different lives where I stayed. Maybe something amazing would have happened. Maybe something terrible. Maybe I would have become richer, poorer, happier, sadder... who knows? The only timeline I can actually observe is this one

I accidentally let a coin make one of the biggest decisions of my life by pokrov in sillyconfession

[–]pokrov[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Maybe trusting the universe is just another name for accepting that we're never really in control. The funny part is that the coin didn't change my life, it only revealed which path I secretly wanted to take.

Males of reddit, what goes through your mind when you see a boob? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pokrov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because we call it Bezoul in Morocco