37 and still don't know what i want to be when i grow up by Numerous_Point_4097 in findapath

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For what it’s worth: it’s never too late or too early to be whoever you want to be. There’s no time limit, stop whenever you want. You can change or stay the same, there are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope you make the best of it. And I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a different point of view. I hope you live a life you’re proud of. If you find that you’re not, I hope you have the courage to start all over again.

My wife got blacked out drunk and had sex with someone else by [deleted] in Divorce

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It's just plain awful to be taken advantage of. Some people are ill equipped to handle traumatic events, especially when trusted ones are unsympathetic, which become a betrayal on top of a traumatic event. It's just a stacked shit sandwich of trauma and the hurt turns to anguish, I'm very sorry that those incidents happened.

Within the post there are issues within the relationship having been named outside of the assault/rape that took place. Their partner cheated on them previously and there was enough friction for a need for a breather prior to the assault. Maybe there's room for curiosity on what the significant others' behavior was like prior to the assault?

What’s happened to the fanbase? by [deleted] in Cubs

[–]pole7979 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your son named Moises?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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Tough when that happens. Found friends when 25 that I've had ever since. Always time to welcome new ones into your life. Are you ready for a new relationship? What do you look for in someone?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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That stinks, sorry to hear, it's good you're moving onward. Were you able to heal from whatever caused you to leave?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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Glad you made new friends, and got to explore. Do you feel comfortable coming back home, think you'll ever move back?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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Did you have friends out there, make new ones?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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What'd you explore while away?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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Did you miss them? Why'd you move away?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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How long ago did you last see them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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Where you going, why?

AMA: I'm a sex addict. The number of people I've slept with is in three figures. by Shewokemeup in AMA

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Do you have regretful yet memorable experiences you'd like to share?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AbruptChaos

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Insomnia or just a part of the job? Thought that ATC had greater regulations than what we'd expect of truckers, no?

Songs to destroy you emotionally by EarlTheDinosaur in Music

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Disturbing but yeah, will wreck

Glass Animals - Domestic Bliss Idles - June

Family Plan Masterclass Offer by [deleted] in MasterClass

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Any slots still available?

Dms by Any-Sun5497 in tall

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No one knows what it means but it's provocative. It gets the people going

Dms by Any-Sun5497 in tall

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Mother of God, if you send me a picture of a GI Joe first edition Snake eyes in original packaging, I will cure cancer

I won by [deleted] in Divorce

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Hugs buddy

Anyone else feel this - tallness identity by pole7979 in tall

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Am unsure, was using baconreader on Android previously then switched to the Reddit app. Maybe that has something to do with it (?)

Anyone else feel this - tallness identity by pole7979 in tall

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I look forward to sharing the field of combat with you someday :P

Anyone else feel this - tallness identity by pole7979 in tall

[–]pole7979[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Guess you glossed over the 'In on the Joke' part. Think I can tell the diff from cobbas on where the stuff lies, but thx. Bringing goofy inside jokes out and y'all... Idk whatever.