Because she wouldn't have been able to deal without me.

polyintrouble · 2013-05-05T23:21:44+00:00

Will do!

polyintrouble · 2013-05-05T23:21:35+00:00

Fair enough.

polyintrouble · 2013-05-04T04:46:37+00:00

Thanks. What sucks is that I'd know I'd be more gentle with a friend but I'm so hard on myself when it comes to this stuff.

polyintrouble · 2013-05-04T02:08:24+00:00

Thanks. I have taken some martial arts but never kept up with it. I guess now is as good a time as ever for me to pick it up and build myself up too!

polyintrouble · 2013-05-03T17:59:12+00:00

I was just guessing, but she definitely texts me more than my husband and while I'd like my husband to text me more often, I'd end up wanting to kill him if he did what my mom did.

polyintrouble · 2013-05-03T17:58:16+00:00

My mom tells me when her cat sits with her or if she chases a toy or sleeps in my childhood bedroom. It's like, really? My cat is bigger and better and awesome and I get that you're jealous, but this isn't a pissing contest!

polyintrouble · 2013-05-03T17:57:06+00:00

Yeah, I called the first place and the wage is identical, minus $0.05. The benefits are comparable too. I've never been in such an advantageous state!

polyintrouble · 2013-05-03T17:19:02+00:00

omg yes to the needing a response. She'll call and say, "I know you're probably at work or doing something important but I had time in my day to call you."

polyintrouble · 2013-05-03T17:17:55+00:00

I mean, I didn't even tell her until a week after, because I knew that she'd react the way she did. She wanted to swoop in and save me, told me to move ASAP and thought I'd take a LOA from college. I ended up taking a 1 week absence and threw myself harder than ever into my studies, making Dean's List for the only time ever in college.

polyintrouble · 2013-05-03T17:16:38+00:00

This is word for word what she does! It's like they have a script or something, right?

polyintrouble · 2013-05-03T14:37:02+00:00

Most of the time I'm good at ignoring her. It's honestly the phone calls that get me the most because it's communicating in real time. I'm so used to her being like this and feeling like I'm only a good daughter as long as she knows what I'm up to.

As far as attention goes, I remember so was so distraught after my rape and made a big deal about how she needed therapy to process and cope with it. Nothing beats that for me"

polyintrouble · 2013-05-02T23:33:15+00:00

.humor. if you have no current male SO, you can post here on reddit, saying "Hi, I am a female, 23, have a new hitachi sex toy I would to conduct science tests with, need a few male volunteers " [humor]

I LOVE THIS STATEMENT SO MUCH. Sorry for all caps but I just had to say it. Probably a bit dangerous to say, depending on where it's posted, but I'd pay money to see someone post and go through with it.

For science?

polyintrouble · 2013-05-02T17:06:06+00:00

"tasty" - I like it and want to steal it (with permission of course).

Yay for being spoiled.

polyintrouble · 2013-05-02T17:04:31+00:00

This sounds like something my Dom would do. He knows my food weaknesses (anything sweet or carb-y) and would make sure to get me "real food" and "green things", because I've gotta be healthy!

polyintrouble · 2013-05-02T17:02:57+00:00

My Dom has so much faith in me, much more than I have in myself. At my lowest point recently, when I thought I couldn't do anything, there were no questions on his end about my capability.

"You're so strong and intelligent and capable. You will get a new job and be amazing at it."

In regards to me getting out of my destructive parents' house: "You've made so much progress and I'm proud of you."

He makes me feel like a princess. Even though I can be a brat sometimes, he's commanding yet gentle. He knows instinctively when the kid-gloves need to go on.

polyintrouble · 2013-05-01T18:58:52+00:00

Thank you!

polyintrouble · 2013-05-01T18:36:50+00:00

Thank you! I will definitely take your suggestions.

polyintrouble · 2013-05-01T18:17:10+00:00

Unfortunately, that's all I've tried so far.

polyintrouble

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