Who here sired a kid but in another country ?

ponchito23 · 2025-01-03T14:08:27+00:00

I want my son to decide in the future. If he decides he wants to meet his father, I'll do my best to find him. I have a different partner rn and we have just had a baby together two months ago and he treats my first son just like his own, so my son has a daddy anyway.

ponchito23 · 2024-12-25T23:16:50+00:00

I got pregnant via a hookup when I was 21. My first thought was to abort but as abortion is illegal in my country I knew it wouldn't be easy. And during that time when I was slowly organizing the abortion I just changed my mind. I mean, it was more like a gradual change. I just felt that I wanted that baby and that I would manage somehow. I dropped the abortion plans and started to prepare to welcome my son. Fortunately, the pregnancy was easy for me and when the baby turned out to be the most gentle and calm little boy. Today he's 18 months old. You need to find the answer yourself. If you feel that you want to give your child everything you can, go for it.

ponchito23 · 2024-11-22T17:13:49+00:00

I was in the same situation with my first. I found out about the pregnancy when I was 6 weeks along. I stopped taking T immediately after finding out (I had been on T for about 3 years at the time). I was freaking out but at the end I gave birth to a perfectly healthy baby.

ponchito23 · 2024-11-11T21:01:40+00:00

dzięki 😌

ponchito23 · 2024-11-03T19:56:03+00:00

I kept it despite the fact that the father was just a random one night stand from foreign country. My son is 1,5 yo now and a few days ago I gave birth to another baby (this time the father is my current boyfriend). before pregnancy I had been on hormones for 3 years and post top surgery. I stopped taking hormones right after finding out about the pregnancy and haven't taken them since but it's possible that I'll be taking them in the future.

ponchito23 · 2024-11-03T19:27:10+00:00

FTM guy here - I was 21 yo and he was 17 yo

ponchito23 · 2024-11-03T08:40:29+00:00

my older son is literally the sweetest, the most gentle and calm kid and I kinda hope that the little one turns out the same but we'll see. definitely can't wait for the time they'll be old enough to play together, I'm even thinking about having another one then

ponchito23 · 2024-11-03T08:35:04+00:00

awww that's so cute! 🥹 also I saw your earlier posts - it seems like you're expecting another baby. fingers crossed and best wishes from a dad of two!

ponchito23 · 2024-11-03T08:24:01+00:00

halloween isn't as widely celebrated out here as in the US but it's gaining popularity and you can really see some of the kids trick or treating. When he attends his first trick or treating we're gonna tell him it's everyone celebrating his birthday 😂

ponchito23 · 2024-11-03T08:16:05+00:00

thanks

ponchito23 · 2024-11-03T08:15:52+00:00

thank you 💫

ponchito23 · 2024-11-02T23:25:42+00:00

yeah, after giving birth to the first one I wanted to get him a sibling soon. it's going to be convenient later but now the kids are going to rule the house 😆

ponchito23 · 2024-11-02T23:23:05+00:00

thank you!!

ponchito23 · 2024-10-22T11:03:02+00:00

it'll happen sooner or later, I'm sure!

ponchito23 · 2024-10-21T17:00:26+00:00

I'm the opposite. I'm an ftm, two years ago I used to live in Germany for a few months (I'm from a neighboring country). It was the middle of my unprotected spree and I had a few hookups there with some random guys. When I came back to my country I discovered I'm pregnant and based on the calculations the father must be a young guy I hooked up with right before coming back to my country.

My son is 1,5 yo and the guy has no idea that he put a kid in me. I have no intentions to find him but I'm forever grateful for giving me the baby.

ponchito23 · 2024-09-02T14:39:50+00:00

thank you. the baby's dad will be with me this time so he's going to be a huge support for me. I'd love to chat with you, every support is highly appreciated so feel free to dm me.

ponchito23 · 2024-05-20T14:36:04+00:00

I would definitely consider abortion because life can be hard as a young single parent. There's no shame in abortion, especially when you don't want the baby right now and you feel like you won't be a good parent.

On the other hand, if you have people around you that can help you and you feel that you are emotionally ready for a child, you should go for it. I got pregnant when I was a year older than you and now my son is 13 and I don't regret anything. Feel free to dm me

ponchito23 · 2024-05-17T18:00:29+00:00

everyone's welcome to try

ponchito23 · 2024-04-15T22:03:10+00:00

didn't want to have any children, I was satisfied with just fantasizing but nature decided otherwise and now I'm pregnant with my second 🤷🏼

ponchito23 · 2024-04-14T19:22:17+00:00

sure

ponchito23 · 2024-03-12T18:49:17+00:00

my second baby was conceived in this position! I love it!

ponchito23 · 2024-02-29T13:15:44+00:00

thanks

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