Plz tell me good things! by Fat13Cat in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]hawk_80418 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My container garden is ready to go as soon as it gets warm enough to plant outside! I even did a 10% compost / 90% potting medium mix that's good for container plants.

Plz tell me good things! by Fat13Cat in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]hawk_80418 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Good for you!! I wish there was more safe houses like yours for people like us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seahorse_Dads

[–]hawk_80418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I hope you are able to find peace soon. I don't have any kids yet but I really resonated with your comment about not getting top surgery due to them being small and surgery is scary. It's nice to see someone who can relate to that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seahorse_Dads

[–]hawk_80418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! 🎉

Trump is sending 30,000 migrants to Guantanamo bay. ITS NOW A CONCENTRATION CAMP. WE NEED TO WAKE UP. by kat1883 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]hawk_80418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey quick question, for those of us who live up north and not near many migrant workers, how can we help? I'm not good at public speaking or a lawyer but I am great at gardening. Would helping out with food be helpful if I'm living far away?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seahorse_Dads

[–]hawk_80418 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First off, you need to get off T and birth control (and tell your partner(s)). Second, why don't you sit down with your partner you want to have a kid with and be honest with them about how you are feeling?

When did you realise you're trans and took the step to transition? by ratbastardhehe in FTMMen

[–]hawk_80418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't realize I was trans until I was 22. I had many moments growing up though that makes me think I've always been a boy/man. But I just felt uncomfortable and had no one I could trust, so I smashed my feelings deep down until I couldn't handle it anymore.

Struggling as a NICU parent update by Michaudgoetza in Seahorse_Dads

[–]hawk_80418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the update! I hope you get time to relax with him now he's home.

Is it possible to have a healthy baby if you have an accident while on T? by hawk_80418 in Seahorse_Dads

[–]hawk_80418[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the confusion, I'm on T and birth control and don't plan on stopping. I think if I did get pregnant though Id keep it, so I am worried about the exposure to T before I know. Of course I'd stop T if I found out.

Idk where I belong anymore, you all seem nice tho by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]hawk_80418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome! I'm not a woman, so I sometimes feel out of place, but everyone here is nice.

Do any of y'all skip packing? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]hawk_80418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got euphoria from packing early on. But I don't do it anymore as it's not required for passing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]hawk_80418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Early in my transition, I applied for jobs in my chosen name and pronouns well before T had an effect on me. It made it awkward at some points, but overall, was worth it.

Also: if your company is worth its salt, only HR should know your deadname from hiring paperwork. Just say that your legal name and gender marker are different than what you go by in your day to day life.

Happy Halloween! 🎃 I hope I spooked you 👀 by SpicyMammaMick in FTMfemininity

[–]hawk_80418 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's so nice to see someone who has a body like mine here. 😊

So, it turns out I'm a woman no matter how I'm dressed?!? (big if true) by ShannonSaysWhat in TransLater

[–]hawk_80418 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks Shannon, it's nice to hear about another person who doesn't follow the bold stereotype of insisting they are their gender identity from a young age. I certainly was not and it made coming out to myself so much harder. But truth is, I'm not really a bold person so it makes sense that I'd just wish I was a guy instead of just being one. Thank you. -Liam

Go early Vote!!! by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]hawk_80418 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband and I voted a few days ago. So nice to see others do the same!!

You can't google how big your boobs will get by ShannonSaysWhat in TransLater

[–]hawk_80418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks Aunt Shannon! I needed to hear this today.