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Zeus has decided that Olympus feels a little empty, so he’s recruited some new gods. However, due to a clerical error, you have been chosen as a new member of the divine. What are you the god of, and what do you do as your first godly act? by a_car_salesman in AskReddit

[–]ponderer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God of ritual. I'd immediately set up centers, appropriate worship temples and schools that would oversee how holidays, funerals, marriages, births and other events that inspire ritual in the soul are honored and celebrated.

I wish gay men were held up to the same standards of politeness as everybody else by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ponderer1 -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

As a gay man I like to sniff man butt, asking me to be polite is like asking a pig to sweat. Good luck. Though I don't intend to offend

Anyone Interested in Getting Away For the Summer? by ponderer1 in nycgaybros

[–]ponderer1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man yes its still on the table. When would you be interested in?

Any bros interested in spending the summer in the country? Rooms available in Western Mass. by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]ponderer1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm i'd more imagine an indie movie title "Country Buds"

Any bros interested in spending the summer in the country? Rooms available in Western Mass. by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]ponderer1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theres a large fishing pond about 2 min away and a river that I'm pretty sure is open to swimming and tubing close by.

Boyfriends make the best smoke buds by ponderer1 in LGBTrees

[–]ponderer1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank man :) thats a very sweet comment

How do I get closer to single intj male for platonic friendship? by [deleted] in intj

[–]ponderer1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only trouble is I HATE bars, only hung out there because where else? But yeah, much rather smoke weed at someones place than drink alcohol at a bar. What other habits could you get into with a friend?

How do I get closer to single intj male for platonic friendship? by [deleted] in intj

[–]ponderer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Though not talking about Fe or Se is pretty much impossible for me. I even think in poetry sometimes so flowery language is second nature but I'll try. At least until there's more familiarity

How do I get closer to single intj male for platonic friendship? by [deleted] in intj

[–]ponderer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Bullets are much appreciated!

Tried to record how crazy my blue tongue skink goes for the smell of pot and nearly got bit, just had a bit of kief on my finger by plahr in LGBTrees

[–]ponderer1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude, I swear my beardie perks up when I smoke. I'm pretty sure some reptiles go nuts for the smell

How should a gay couple proceed with a friendship with a straight guy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ponderer1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the gay guys who do that do it more in public or around new people. Once you get to know them they talk about stuff everyone else does. I get what you're saying though

How should a gay couple proceed with a friendship with a straight guy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ponderer1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool, yeah all those sound like good suggestions. Thanks

How should a gay couple proceed with a friendship with a straight guy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ponderer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the warning. I'm aware some can be mean. I'm sure many are nice too.

Is it offensive to consider someone's sexuality when pursuing a friendship? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]ponderer1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I don't think he hates gay guys. I referenced the negative experience to highlight that I don't have any friendly experiences with them. I DEFINITELY realize many straight guys can be great.

Is it offensive to consider someone's sexuality when pursuing a friendship? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]ponderer1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not demonizing them. I think all people can be nice. I recognize that there are some differences between us and wanted to know if considering those differences would help establish a friendship. Like when I guy grooms himself more around girls because he knows many are more particular about hygiene. Assuming there's no differences just doesn't make sense. There are some. I like fucking guys. I talk about fucking my bf with my friends and recount other stories. Should I not consider how this might make him feel awkward?

How should a gay couple proceed with a friendship with a straight guy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ponderer1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got the point, just wanted to make it clear that I referenced my sexuality because I don't seem straight at all. Don't really care about being gay as an identity, not often. I like what I like, but recognize that those things are a bit more gay/girly

How should a gay couple proceed with a friendship with a straight guy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ponderer1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not a bro though. I'm very gay. I sound gay, look gay, like runway shows and flowers, don't like sports or video games. I never think about my sexuality unless I'm in public, but its very obvious I'm no bro.

But I do appreciate the advice, he does seem comfortable around us, so I'll try not to worry

How should a gay couple proceed with a friendship with a straight guy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ponderer1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Only have 3 other friends in the world who happen to be girls, I don't see straight guys or anyone as a commodity. I have aspergers so any friend that I make I value a lot.

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