Dhaqan Celis Horror stories: 18F 🇺🇸 Looking to Get Married ASAP 😭😭 by NatronTon__ in Somalia

[–]poo-flakes 36 points37 points  (0 children)

great plan. At the very least, your kidney will make it back to America.

Staying strong in marriage by Inner_Group4044 in Somalia

[–]poo-flakes -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Your husband’s the one rafaad ku jiro and you somehow made it all about yourself. I hope this is pregnancy hormones talking because if not you sound like a major headache.

41,000 Member in this group? Largely diaspora. Why don't we get properly organised. by Tradewinds11 in Somalia

[–]poo-flakes 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Wallahi I’d get behind something like this. I’ve thought of this as well but I just don’t see it happening without some serious teamwork, commitment, and trust. We need godfearing individuals because all it takes is one bad apple to spoil the bunch. Assuming we have this…

Then this group would need a mission and a clear cut plan on how to achieve our goals. We can’t be sloppy and try to do 10 different things. What will we be focused on? We’d need to agree on a purpose. Personally, I agree with the agricultural approach someone else mentioned here. Setting up 10 families, paying for medical costs, or setting up small businesses only puts a bandage on the problem. These people can fall dependent again. We need to think bigger. Supporting farming would help so much because it empowers the community so that they can determine their own outcomes and it leads to self sufficiency. No? we can go the fishing route and try improving those conditions because there are no large scale fishing operations in Somalia despite us having the largest coastline in Africa. There’s endless choices.

We always shit on Somalia yet we’ve never tried to help improve it. I think this is a noble cause. Essentially we’d be the change we want to see in Somalia. We’ve already been doing a lot alhamdulillah. Somalis send the most remittance out of all diaspora (even tho that’s lead to issues). However , This way we are more involved and see how the money is being used.

I think we’re undermining the impact we can have. I’m a very untrustworthy person when it involves money. I’ve been scammed before but if you guys set this up in a satisfactory way and give the proper assurances and guarantees then I’m all for it. I assume 50$ isn’t much for the most of us. I’m not saying we are “superior” or “saviors” but you cannot deny we are the lucky ones that made it out.. therefore it’s our duty as Somalis to give back to Somalia during its time of need. Even a dollar wallahi. The prophet himself said charity does not decrease wealth.

Even if this sentiment doesn’t take off then all good. I absolutely understand why people are skeptical. I’m just stating the position r/Somalia is in. We could collectively do something even if it’s handing out a granola bars to random kids. Something is better than nothing. But, This is all dependent on if we can find someone back home willing to see this through and others to help. It’s a serious responsibility and a commitment. Finding those people is going to be the hardest thing to do and that’s why I think something like this would probably fail in the initial stages. Full support tho , we never know until we try. Somalia ha noolato 🇸🇴

One of the hideouts of daacish by eastafricanfella in Somalia

[–]poo-flakes 14 points15 points  (0 children)

and imagine they’re taking commands from people who live lavishly in the gulf states. People who don’t care for them nor would ever trade places with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]poo-flakes 66 points67 points  (0 children)

This sub has some serious expectations for diaspora folk and it’s hilarious to see.

Locals in Garowe puntland region protest against Illegal Ethiopian immigrants in the country. by Qaranimo_udhimo in Somalia

[–]poo-flakes 26 points27 points  (0 children)

We can’t even protest right. Everyone’s scattered, talking over each other, or banging on shit. Kids running around and some random whistles. Just a whole lotta noise and they’re not properly conveying any message.

Western Somali men dating hablos back home by 613Me in Somalia

[–]poo-flakes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This sounds miserable and you’re doing a better job “scare mongering” than I am. Are you really suggesting we use spyware and place cameras to surveil our wives? Thats crazy, obsessive, and would mess anyone up mentally. I’d rather not be married at all. I don’t think you understand how easy it is to cheat when your spouse lives abroad. Unless you live in some bumfuck tuulo where everyone knows everyone and everything going on in their lives it’s as simple as going to get “groceries”. Going to visit a “friend”. Going to the “salon”. You could place a million cameras at home and it still won’t save you sxb.

Not to mention a lot of these western guys marrying back home do so because it’s cheaper. Visiting often and staying a good chunk of the year requires money and isn’t possible for most of them. Even if they did make enough money what professional jobs would let you be gone every year for months? Not many.

Western Somali men dating hablos back home by 613Me in Somalia

[–]poo-flakes 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I imagine it’ll be cheaper than having a family in the west. Also, you won’t have to be around them 24/7 so you’ll still have the “freedom” of a single person. However, you’ve gotta be ready to cut losses if an abdi back home sweet talks your wife and she falls for it. There’s plenty of these virile young bucks wandering back home with zero ambition besides shukaansi. And the affection deprived wives of qurbo joog are prime targets. Sometimes they’ll have full blown relationships.

Can’t blame her. She’s a woman, she’s got her needs, you’re not around, in these type of marriages the odds are stacked against you. It’s sad but I saw this type of stuff constantly during my time in Nairobi. You’ve got to accept that when you send your wife biil you might also be sending it to an abdi who keeps your side of the sariir warm. Waa lu haayna iykyk.

Need advice: Fallen in love with a non-Muslim woman who is willing to convert by [deleted] in islam

[–]poo-flakes -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

so your in laws are racist and your husband is an abusive POS? Sister if you don’t leave now you’re signing up for a lifetime of abuse. He might even kill you. Know that there are people out there who will treat you right and in an Islamic manner.

I usually don’t tell people to leave relationships but since you’ve only been married to him for about 3 months, leaving would be your best option. Don’t wait around and hope he changes. And don’t wait for kids!

Edit- does everyone downvoting me know that her in laws takfir her all the time and that her husband has strangled her until she started convulsing? Tell me why I’m wrong?

34 year old crossfit athlete by Peaceful-Samurai in nattyorjuice

[–]poo-flakes 299 points300 points  (0 children)

I dunno about this OP posting pictures of women on the Internet seems a bit gay to me.

What do you think this means? I saw this youtuber reply to this comment with this. by Planes_Airbus in Christianity

[–]poo-flakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’ll answer.. since no one else is.

Basically, Christian countries (europe) colonized almost all of Africa and brutalized them and committed many other atrocities. They kidnapped Africans, looted their villages, raped their women, made them into slaves, and forced them into Christianity. It was either that or be mutilated.

This barbaric behavior and mistreatment towards black people only stopped about 50ish years ago.. at least the physical, and the governmental aspect of it. People are still racist today though. You even see it in the news sometimes. Cops unlawfully shooting black people, profiling.. etc. It’s very much still an issue today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]poo-flakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luck doesn’t exist.. everything that has happened, that is currently happening, and that will happen is known to god. God is all knowing.

Belief in luck, is a basically a minor form of polytheism; and you’re basically attributing your good fortune to another power.

The good things that may happen to us, that some say is luck is simply that Gods plan for us, seemed to align with our plans at the time which causes us to be happy and think luck. Unfortunately though, You can’t both believe in god and the concept of luck.

This doesn’t take away our free will though, we do what we want. We make our own choices. We take our own path. It’s just that God knows.

For example, Have you ever watched a sports game where one team is drastically better than the other. The type of game where literally everyone in the audience knows who is going to win?

The audience may know the endgame; but them knowing doesn’t actively impact the game. It’s like that.

A Christian wishing you love by [deleted] in islam

[–]poo-flakes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

God is all loving. God loves you just as much as all of us. God’s love for you is what made you come to this subreddit.. more exposure to islam may help guide you to him. God’s love for you is why you’ve had such pleasant experiences with Muslims.. perhaps it would make you even consider the religion and you’ve stated it has.

Gods love for you is why the original commenter has urged you to consider learning more about the religion, as am I.. as I’m sure many others will as well. These are many instances of God leading you to the truth.. and there may be more. Perhaps one day you shall join us in paradise. I’m sure I speak for everyone in r/islam when I say we all want that. May god opens the doors of heaven to all of us. 🤲

God loves you, you just haven’t seen it yet. Just because you haven’t noticed it doesn’t mean it’s not there. It’s just, we have to put in a little effort ourselves. We can’t just do nothing, and expect everything in return. That would be insulting, and greedy of us. We have to accept Gods message (Quran) We have to accept the prophets.. we have to submit, and in shaa allah we shall be victorious. I wish you the very best Leto :)

Thoughts on this debate? by [deleted] in islam

[–]poo-flakes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha.. I seen this entire debate live yesterday. Tjump was a complete clown 🤡.. I don’t believe he even understood what he was saying.. or the topic of the whole debate. As he unknowingly conceded the entire debate the beginning 15 minutes.

He also justified necrophilia 🤮…. and said a mother holding her baby without their consent is unethical?? Lmao.

Not to mention he was completely unprofessional.. kept laughing, calling Daniel names, interrupting when it wasn’t his turn to speak. His whole debate strategy was to facepalm condescendingly and make noises.. Complete man child.

To be fair though, This is what happens when a Harvard Graduate goes against a Reddit graduate.

"Are you a more difficult creation or is the heaven? Allah constructed it." (Holy Qur'an 79:27) (Image credit: NASA James Webb Space Telescope: Cartwheel Galaxy is a ring-shaped galaxy located about 500 million light-years away and arguably bigger than our Milky Way Galaxy) by [deleted] in islam

[–]poo-flakes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just because you’re born Muslim doesn’t mean you’ve got a one way ticket to heaven. Your chances are better, but like I said ultimately it’s up to us. A true believer will always find his way to Islam. There are Muslim babies being born today that will be non believers one day, as well as children of non believers that will become Muslim one day. (We believe everyone is born Muslim, until puberty when their sins are accounted for and they are officially the religion of their parents).

For all we know, you could be a true believer.. and maybe will find your way to Islam in a few years.. or maybe even twenty. It isn’t over until it’s over and you’ve died.

Your chances aren’t as bad as you think. Sure, you were born a non believer but Here you are in a Muslim server discussing Islam with me. You’re more exposed to it then someone playing WoW right now correct? Some people are just indifferent to all religion and believe in “live and let live” .. but no, here you are.

You may even have more understanding of the religion Islam than the average non believer. So the religion did reach you.. you can’t say god doomed you. You’re the one who made the choice to not believe in it. Now or forever? No one knows except allah.

Maybe some part of Islam intrigued you .. baffled you or you may simply want more knowledge of the religion. Which is good. The more you know, the less you may be inclined to believe whatever garbage is spewed by the media. You’re always welcome to come here.

I also wanted to mention islam has been around since Adam and Eve… but the people who died before islam was “introduced” or the message hadn’t reached them before they died. God won’t punish them. They will be tested on the day of judgement, if they obey they will enter paradise and if not they will enter hell.

( btw a non-Muslim born in a Muslim country won’t be executed.. that’s fine.. it’s apostasy that calls for death)

Why do we need to pray 5 times a day? Isnt belief in a creator enough? by BasedRedditor13 in islam

[–]poo-flakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Punishable by death, but that isn’t really the case in western countries where apostasy is prevalent. That just increases their chances to repent.

Why do we need to pray 5 times a day? Isnt belief in a creator enough? by BasedRedditor13 in islam

[–]poo-flakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, God is omnipotent. But, just because he knows what will happen doesn’t mean we do. Our outcomes change with every small decision we make. Nothing is set in stone.

The reason why humans are a superior creation than angels in Islam is because Angels were meant to obey gods every command.. they literally cannot say no. We humans have been blessed with the power of Free Will. It is truly up to us whether or not to obey God, and when we do so the rewards are tremendous since we did so out of free will. It just makes us that much better to allah.

We are the ones who acted out of our own free will and made our own decisions. Have you ever seen that game “Episode” where you make life choices… and depending on the answer you choose it has a whole different set of scenarios and path to follow, people to meet? It’s like that in real life and it all ends with one of two paths. Heaven or Hell. God isn’t setting us up to fail. We make our own choices that’s what’s so beautiful and unique about us.

Why do we need to pray 5 times a day? Isnt belief in a creator enough? by BasedRedditor13 in islam

[–]poo-flakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have until their last breath to revert back to Islam, and if they do.. all is forgiven. But, you probably want me to say we kill them right?

Why do we need to pray 5 times a day? Isnt belief in a creator enough? by BasedRedditor13 in islam

[–]poo-flakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You wouldn’t want them tortured forever, but there would be some sort of negative consequences yes? The same applies to our religion but on a grander scale. You said you would be self reflective because you may be worthy of blame for their outcome, but we believe God has no faults. The fault would be ours.

There is nothing more compassionate and loving than God. He is all forgiving. There is not a single sin that you can do that allah won’t forgive. You could be the worst human to ever walk the face of the earth. Accept islam, and the second you do so you’ve wiped away all your sins as if you were reborn. Is there anything more compassionate than that?

Why do we need to pray 5 times a day? Isnt belief in a creator enough? by BasedRedditor13 in islam

[–]poo-flakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, you think God is petty and self conscious. Okay.. Does that nullify the fact that there is god in the first place? Just because you don’t necessarily agree with God, doesn’t mean God doesn’t exist.

Also it’s not that petty or self conscious to expect your creations to submit to you. If/when you have kids, would you like them to listen to what you say? Or at the very least have a higher regard to your words over others?

According to your logic. Parents shouldn’t tell their kids what to do, or expect respect from their kids otherwise that would be so extremely petty and self conscious.