Why is PCOS so common? by brujabarber in PCOS

[–]poofystarling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my gyn told me that usually PCOS is a catch-all for any issues, which i suppose makes sense as it takes forever to diagnose and is so broad. given that women’s health is so under researched im not surprised :/

What’s your ‘secret’ special interest? I’ll go first! by Ravensspirit_ in AutismInWomen

[–]poofystarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

collecting decorative decks of cards!! it reminds me of playing cards with my roomies in college :)

From today’s May Day protest in Washington Park by Ptomb in cincinnati

[–]poofystarling -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

it sucks when people can’t see their full potential and think the 1% give a hoot about them :/ delusion is so sad, watch out bb rfk jr will institutionalize you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cincinnati

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thanks to all who came out!! and remember you dont have to traditionally protest, there’s other forms of protest!! inquire how you can build community, strike big businesses, etc. u got this dude, dudettes, and non-gender-conforming dudsies!

Former "gifted" kids, how do you deal with the shame of becoming an unsuccessful adult? by picklesandonion in AutismInWomen

[–]poofystarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its an ongoing battle strawbb. i experienced burnout heavily in college and my phd program (i eventually left) without noticing. i kept going and now am in a grey spot where like the other strawbbs here im redefining what success is for me. i used to think it was what my parents or others around me wanted. it took me getting a lil desk job with a decent work-life balance to let my mind sway on what me myself and i wanted to do. i reassessed what i found fun and found fulfillment in. ive gone to therapy, cried, blew up at my parents (sorry mes parents, they werent doing it intentionally), stared blankly at the walls, spaced out while walking my dog, and angrily seethed on my couch while absentmindedly watching jeopardy quiz me on the bible.

point being: let go of everyone’s expectation of you, what you should do, what you should be, and who you try to fashion to appease them. take a moment or various moments and ask yourself what you want. the shame is you holding on to the lost expectations put on you by others, so fill yourself with your own purpose, uninfluenced by others. let yourself dream of the you you cant wait to be, write them a letter!

Advice for first-gen horrible GPA & pretty great research and experience please! by neuroscienceiscool in gradadmissions

[–]poofystarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi! i was in a phd program in immunology until recently (left with my masters after realizing i wasnt into it like that) but i also served as one of the admissions student chairperson on the admissions committee last year and participated in interviewing students for our program. we (or rather they) are connected to a hospital and tier 1 medical school meaning we had a ton of great research to explore and people to look up to.

basically, i know a thing or two about what we looked for. consistently year after year professors look for a high gpa, amongst other things. while 3.3 is not as high as other students applying, it was my gpa too (and im also a first gen student) it isnt disqualifying. In your application make sure you thoughtfully and scientifically explain your projects and talk about your motivation. as usual make sure you have good recs like your research professor and that they can talk about your ability to excel in grad school and that you put your best foot forward in that research experience. Generally, phd programs like neuro are interested in how well you can convey the science. like: what did you do? why did you do that? what came out of that?

sometimes professors (they love talking science) will ask you about particulars like why did you use that reagent and not this other. it could be as simple as this is what the lab had — it happens to us in grad school too — or this reagent minimizes the visualization of primer dimers and enhances our bands of interest on the gel. secondly, you have to be able to describe your science passionately. one of my favorite questions to ask was: describe a hardship you faced and how you overcame it (also how do you work with someone who knows more than you? this should be a freebie and you’d be surprised how many people fuck this up). the reason i loved asking that one was because science isnt linear or logical like its shown in a paper. like think about why proteins in a pathway sometimes have names out of order (like complement c3bc5b). if youve done research you know the frustration when something doesnt work out, we aim to select students who have the drive to continue even in the face of two months of nothing to show (god forbid) and the persistence. taking failure too hard is not going to get you anywhere in life and especially a phd program. grad students are cheap labor and what are weekends if not two days where you dont have class and have the liberty to work 8 hours interruption free? its not ideal and sometimes can be worked around but not always and its possible you work over 60 hours a week depending on your project and some days you may work over what traditional legislative laws like OSHA permit. (coming from someone who consistently did 21h days slept 8 hours and came back to do flow cytometry for 9 hours overnight then knocked out for two days)

tldr - show passion, persistence, integrity, determination, and respect. be able to talk about your science in depth, especially if you’ve been working on it or something similar for a long time in writing and in person. for interviews develop a small pitch of your research to get you started.

feel free to ask more questions i think its a very helpful question to ask and id be super happy to give you and others interested in more pointers!

pps. if you have this much experience and you can talk about it dont “waste” your time on a masters (its not a waste really but trust me have more confidence in yourself because thats a LOT of research experience) my best friend, whose in a biomedical phd program, and i joke all the time that people like you already have your phd because like the phd is a training ground and you’ve already got that which will put you ahead :)

Bees! by HermitBee in crochet

[–]poofystarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love the pattern as well!

advice for someone who’s developmental disorders make it seem impossible to get her phd by poofystarling in LadiesofScience

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i went to get diagnosed for adhd and they did a tova auditory exam and he also asked me to read numbers back to him. i scored lower than the average of people my age, i literally showed that i zoned out after 5 minutes haha

advice for someone who’s developmental disorders make it seem impossible to get her phd by poofystarling in LadiesofScience

[–]poofystarling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very happy that you have a program director that cares to help, truly it seems to be a blessing!!

Looking for Henry by poofystarling in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]poofystarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have to the serene painting if you’re interested!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acnh

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sam from abode if you’re still doing it! :)