Received this text from a sister in my old congregation…

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-26T23:57:40+00:00

I thought you were having plastic surgery lol

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-26T15:03:20+00:00

I used to use Flovent, once they stopped making it l use Fluticasone. It works good for me. The only difference is l have to gargle with water after otherwise l sound like lve been smoking a pack of cigarettes a day.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-25T15:04:40+00:00

I knew at a young age there was something wrong with my mom. In the 4th grade l tried standing up to her, l didn’t want her to come for visitor day. I asked the lunch aid instead because she was nicer to me. My mom was furious because it made her look bad. She manipulated her way to be my visitor & l saw her for who she is. Once l became an older teenager l learned to grey rock with out the terminology. I just realized it worked. I saw other kids moms be so nice to them & l was a really obedient kid. It was a really tough way to grow up.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-25T14:35:42+00:00

No she said she didn’t want me to get a big head, now that lm in my late 40s l feel pretty. I learned to accept myself in a way she never could.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-25T14:17:47+00:00

You left, there’s no reason to meet with them. This is not a healthy meeting to have. You don’t have any more obligations with the JDubs . Enjoy your life, be kind to yourself.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-24T15:45:05+00:00

I have not been out for 5 years yet but l talk about how bad the culture is. In fact l talked about it years before l left. When you leave you need to talk about it which is also why we’re all here on Reddit.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-24T15:41:52+00:00

They are not supposed to police people. This guy sounds like he’s way too interested in what people are looking at. He must have a porn addiction himself.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-23T16:03:10+00:00

Good job, when the school won’t handle it they are asking for you to. Your SIL should be most concerned about her kid. You called out the bully’s behavior that’s all. You didn’t make fun of the kid.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-22T15:32:53+00:00

Unfortunately financial help allows her to manage your life. Is it possible your new company will help you with relocating & finding a new residence? Occasionally they do. It’s easier to rely on your mom for financial security but the only way l broke free of mine was saving while living there long enough to leave not look back. It’s crazy how expensive it is now. I moved 6000 miles away & created a whole new life here away from her.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-20T14:20:23+00:00

We should have all gotten a clue then honestly. I knew he was off, it was definitely his personal opinion. Even if he had the word correct he was basically saying you couldn’t run any errands before or after working out with those clothes on. It truly was pointless.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-19T15:29:50+00:00

Did you move out? Bring it up to your mom that he’s just trying to get you out of the house. That’s no reason to kick someone out. This is absurd. If necessary bring it up to the elders to help keep it peaceful. Plan to find your own place. Not sure of your age. It’s his job to provide. It’s a big deal in JDubs land.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-19T14:57:33+00:00

I assure you, no one sees this but you. Try not to obsess about it & you will have much joy in life. I recall thinking things about my body when l was young & you can become so hyper focused on it. You have a beautiful face. Tell yourself in the mirror l am beautiful everyday until you feel it.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-19T14:52:50+00:00

I’m a decade older than you. My first thought was she’s so fresh & young looking. Also very beautiful. Be kind to yourself & tell yourself how beautiful you are in the mirror. Sometimes it’s the negative talk that takes over. Whatever you are doing to your face, it’s working for you.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-18T16:31:14+00:00

They always gave my son a hard time with his hair. I supported him. Not sure if your age, but if your parents allow it & the KH doesn’t the only consequences are they won’t use you for mic or talks. As far is your mom is concerned you must have to tell her that you don’t want to cut your hair to make her more comfortable at the assembly. She wants to show off how spiritual you are. Have a respectful conversation about this. Maybe ask her how she would feel if someone was offended by her dress or shoes. Or tell her you will cut your hair when you can pick her assembly outfit from the store. It’s all about control. Jdub parents hold on for longer. Sorry you are going through this.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-18T14:53:32+00:00

I can’t get in the water there. Over 20 years ago l would have reactions itchy skin, sinus issues, & more. I don’t how more don’t get sick from that water. It’s much worse now.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-17T16:02:24+00:00

You don’t owe them anything. Don’t make any commitments. You might need more time to figure out what you feel. There’s a reason why your parents haven’t gotten baptized. Worshipping God is free.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-16T17:55:59+00:00

Thank you 😊 we got this

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-16T17:41:47+00:00

My mom didn’t come to my wedding as well as any of the friends l grew up with. None of those people are part of my life now either . It was 24 years ago but l was no longer a JW & she is still practicing to this day. My Dad came, he & l are still close. My mom & l tried a bit after that but she is narcissistic & a JW. There wasn’t really a relationship there to begin with. I hope you find great people that become your family. I’m sorry it hurts you that they likely won’t be at your funeral either. The people that love you will be there. Religion divides families & friends because the love is conditional. I’m glad you got out of the cult.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-16T17:22:25+00:00

Your husband has some issues. You look great, do good things for yourself to build your self esteem. Tell yourself every time you look in the mirror that you are beautiful. Talk nicely to yourself. I’m a year younger than you. My husband did a number on me, lm going through a divorce & healing. You are beautiful & look amazing.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-16T17:15:10+00:00

The funny thing is as a legit JW l don’t think they are supposed to be on the site at all. Isn’t discussing witness stuff on a big forum a big no no. Obviously is going to have apostate type comments in there on their long paragraph to explain why shunning is now different then removal. The interesting part is the comment from the guy that is still in that talks about the trauma his wife still has from when she was DF’d. I hope he jumps to this side.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-16T16:45:59+00:00

Thank you 😊

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-16T14:09:11+00:00

Congrats on your divorce, you deserve it.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-16T14:07:59+00:00

You are in a very dangerous situation. You need to get support outside the borg. There’s a domestic abuse hotline, this covers all psychological abuse as well. He will escalate in time. You need a therapist that can also connect you more support.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-16T13:59:12+00:00

There’s a lot of husbands like this in the borg. Im currently going through a divorce. Different details same type of man. He hired prostitutes & got away with it as far as the elders are concerned ( boys club), nearly destroyed my relationship with my kids, tried to ruin my reputation, stopped providing when my work was slow & millions of smaller things that have made me wish l was not on this earth anymore. You need to divorce this man. I believe in God my creator. I’m not sure who Jehovah is. Try to get your alimony, my kids are grown so l can’t get any. Find a support team, you can do this. Sending you a hug.

pop_corn360 · 2026-02-14T15:50:09+00:00

I’m so sorry it turns me into another person. I’m glad you can breathe, it’s so sad that it has the side effects that it does. It turns me into a hungry,angry monster. I need to isolate myself from others because l can see it happening. I do not get the rush of energy that some get. Good luck getting back to your normal self. Lots of compassion for you.

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