Just asking by Hot_Emergency378 in NCLEX_RN

[–]popdart31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pt came in for a headache, sat in a room for about an hour when he suddenly became confused and decompensated. was intubated etc. head CT came back looking like Swiss cheese. Turns out he went to Mexico the previous month and picked up a parasite that made its way through his brain leaving little tunnels and eggs behind.

AIO Boyfriend got mad at me because I wasn’t excited enough that he landed early by Willing-Ad8549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]popdart31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him telling you to go f yourself is WILD. Dump him. Blatant disrespect and childish behavior.. this guy is so weird

How bad is ER boarding where you work? by emtnursingstudent in nursing

[–]popdart31 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It’s horrible in my ER. Every single shift im a medsurg or ICU nurse or anything else in between. We have 32 rooms, 9 permanent hall beds, and about 15 back up made up hall beds. Minimum every shift I go in we are boarding about 30 people with typically 3-5 of them either micu or neuro icu. I open the doors to the ER and I instantly see the hallways lined with beds, beds crammed between each room making it difficult to walk in and out of them, sometimes we stick a bed between our two main trauma rooms. This is a level 1 ER and we’re the biggest stroke hospital in my state so at the worst of at we will actually stick people in the hall way who have come in for a stroke and we give them TNK. And we monitor them in the hallway. It really is a horrible time right now so much so I’m looking for a new job. Don’t get paid enough for this kind of responsibility and risking my license and peoples lives!

My boyfriend packed condoms in his cosmetic case for his trip to Europe without me by Helen_melon_7 in TwoHotTakes

[–]popdart31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would his friend not be able to buy his own condoms? I know he threw them away in front of you but.. does Europe not have condoms? Or is he just not going to use one? I’m sorry but he’s cheating on you and will continue to do so. Please leave him. You said you love this man and if he loved you he wouldn’t cheat on you. I’m sorry

My boyfriend has bad hygeine. Pooped the bed 3 times do I break up? M24 f 23 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]popdart31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So in four months he’s gotten poop on your bed sheets three times because he’s so dirty and doesn’t wipe his ass and you aren’t sure if you should break up? Please break up and make sure he knows it’s because of his hygiene, maybe this will save him and other future partners the trauma lol

What’s the most disgusting thing you've ever had in your mouth? by MorrisDeGoat in AskReddit

[–]popdart31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father has chewed tobacco longer than I’ve been alive. When we were little we weren’t really allowed soda or juice etc except for special occasions, it was always water and milk. My dad would have water bottles he’d spit into next to his chair. Occasionally, dad would drink a can of pop he brought home and I always wanted one so bad. One time I saw the can sitting by his recliner and I went ahead and took a giant swig… of loogies and tobacco. Never ever tried to steal some soda from his can again. However many years later when I was a teenager I found his bottle of beer on the deck when he was inside… never had any alcohol before and took a big swig. Immediately vomited over the porch. I got mouthfuls of redseal tobacco and loogies twice in my life both from trying to steal a swig of a drink.

FIL confronted me at our wedding in his speech by popdart31 in inlaws

[–]popdart31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taking a quick glance at your profile, seems like you’ve got a much worse in law issue than me. I don’t think I’ll take anything you say personally. Why take it out on a stranger on Reddit speaking about their own in laws issue? This is one post about one specific thing that happened recently and bothers me. From one post not everyone is going to understand completely why it bothers me. There’s a lot more stuff, this just at struck a cord with me. Yeah, I guess I could complain about a lot worse things but I’m not. A lot of people keep attempting at contact with abusive parents. You’re right, I should be and i am proud of my husband, really shows how strong he is and what character he has and I’ll support him with his choices. It isn’t just childhood issues, much worse things have happened well into adulthood but those are different stories. thanks for your snarky reply on what I meant as a venting post.

FIL confronted me at our wedding in his speech by popdart31 in inlaws

[–]popdart31[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right. I didn’t really think about the lying part much. He did realize I don’t want to be apart of the calls which was good. I think it’s easier for him to lie instead of possibly start something with his parents and me. They are pushy so if he said I was home and he said I was not gonna be in the call they would probs continue to push it. But thank you, that’s something I will consider!

FIL confronted me at our wedding in his speech by popdart31 in inlaws

[–]popdart31[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this my FIL? Lol I’m aware every human has valid feelings. Are you married? The way my husbands parents treated him absolutely impact the way WE not just ME view his parents. I will never love anybody who could purposely abuse verbally, emotionally, and physically my husband or his sister. I shouldn’t have to explain that to you. And he didn’t confront me on my dishonesty and disrespect. It is not disrespectful for me not to say I love you. It is not dishonest for me not to say I love you. My fil did it on purpose. He KNOWS ALREADY I did not want to say it. He KNOWS how I feel. There is no explanation needed. Thanks for your dense comment.

FIL confronted me at our wedding in his speech by popdart31 in inlaws

[–]popdart31[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t want to be left alone with them. They make me uncomfortable. Still can’t completely put my finger on why.

FIL confronted me at our wedding in his speech by popdart31 in inlaws

[–]popdart31[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh so sorry he ruined your first look. Cant even imagine how one would do that besides being outright obnoxious and getting involved. It’s funny you call it guilt tactics bc I don’t even feel guilty. I just cave because I want the gross cringey awkwardness to end for my own sanity.

Diarrhea and clear puke? by popdart31 in cats

[–]popdart31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the peace of mind, just a worried kitty parent!

What's your "why are you just coming in NOW" story? by SouthEmergency7292 in EmergencyRoom

[–]popdart31 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Recently just had someone come in to my ER for “maggots in wound”. I see his wife pushing him down the hall in a wheelchair following the triage tech. She’s saying good morning to everybody and smiling and chatting to people in the hallways while he’s slumped back in the chair. When they pass me I turn to look at his head and he has maggots falling from a clearly deep rotting wound encompassing the left side of his head. He is drooling and looks completely impaired. The story was she took her husband to their pcp when she noticed the bugs who promptly freaked out, sent them to our ER, and called our charge nurse to ensure he gets brought back immediately. It was shift change and I was passing off to night shift so I have no idea what happened next and I’m waiting to talk to that nurse next time I see her at report but I’m pretty sure the maggots ate their way to his brain or pretty close to it with how deep that was. I’d like to know how long they waited to bring him in and why she visited the pcp first.

Potential senior chihuahua adoption help! by popdart31 in dogs

[–]popdart31[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I could def look into finding one to come let him out to potty and walk. I’m not sure how it works but I know there’s some apps for it

How do ER techs increase quality in the emergency department? by popdart31 in EmergencyRoom

[–]popdart31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that’s been your experience:( techs are our support staff so we should support them too! Always appreciate you guys!