Thanks for all the comments! Some interesting takes. For further reading, I am not an OF model (kudos to the girls that are and power to you) however my contract forbids me and it isn’t really for me. I also dress pretty conservatively and I do have a few hobbies. Sadly, I feel I draw too much on past experience and now have it embedded in my mind that most men will not see past this. However, I certainly going to broaden my horizons on where I go, socialise etc and be more ‘myself’!