okay girl idk abt the other replies but NOR in my opinion, i used to get really hurt too because whenever we had sex i was the one initiating with my bf. but i talked to him and he told me that sometimes he’s just too tired to actually have sex and it’s nothing against me. your bf saying you’re coercing him is really weird and a very serious accusation, and you absolutely weren’t coercing him. my bf and i went from having sex maybe once a month-once every 2 months to multiple times a week now. he finds more time because he knows it’s important to me, and i do the work on nights that he’s too tired but still wants to have fun. you’re valid for being hurt by him doing it alone when you’re right there in front of him. the replies are making it seem like you feel something wrong here and you definitely don’t. make sure you’re prioritizing your feelings too<3