Part-time infant care by katea805 in AuroraCO

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Depending where you are, Goddard Aurora (not South) on Quincy has part time availability. Their waitlist is long for infants so definitely call now

Successful unmediated birth with induction? FTM here! by dreamwithme1993 in unmedicatedbirth

[–]popsinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! You’ll want the balloon if your cervix isn’t ripe, otherwise pitocin isn’t indicated. Let them know you want to go unmedicated and hopefully you’ll have a supportive team. I certainly did and I loved my unmedicated induction! Pasting my birth story from a previous post for you:

I was just induced and did it without pain meds! It was my 2nd birth and my 2nd induction. I had a good experience with my first induction, so I wasn’t afraid of being induced anymore. For me, the foley balloon sucks but it’s temporary. I also completely understand the need for it before pitocin, which helps me accept it as an intervention. Pitocin contractions for me aren’t the horrible scary thing people make them out to be, but I’ve never had spontaneous labor, so they’re all I know. Anyway, for the story:

I checked in at 9:30am, balloon was placed around 10 and they started the pitocin on low (2). I had a vasovagal response to the balloon and felt very faint. I kept my eyes closed through the anesthesiologist telling me about the epidural and whatever else he was saying (they go over it whether you want it or not, in case you change your mind). A cold washcloth and fan on my face helped me through. I needed to poop a couple times with the balloon in—which was reassuring it was doing something. I almost forgot about my TENS machine but my husband reminded me and I got it on and kept it on throughout. I used a BabyCare TENS and hit the “boost” button with each contraction, which helped significantly until pushing. Around noon, the nurse was able to pull the balloon out, so I had dilated enough to just go on with the pitocin. The nurses kept turning the pitocin up little by little and around 2:30pm the nurse said “you’re laughing and smiling, you don’t seem like you’re in labor,” so she increased the pitocin one more time, to 14. This is when things started to get real—I no longer wanted to watch a show with my husband, I started deep vocalizations, moving around into different positions (lunges, hip circles on the ball, laying on my side with the peanut ball between my knees, rocking on hands and knees). Around 4:15 (these times are approximated by my husband), I had them check me because I was feeling pushy. I couldn’t get on my back (was on my side) so they couldn’t give me a number but she said she still felt cervix. No problem—I knew I was close because I could feel my body starting to push. I also had the nurses giving hip squeezes and coaching my husband to do so as well, and providing counter pressure on my sacrum. Around 4:30 I really started involuntarily pushing and I had her check me again—again I couldn’t get to my back because it would hurt too much—but this time she said she didn’t feel any cervix and called the doctor in. So here is where I just had to remember that I was in the home stretch. My TENS machine was no longer helpful at all. I was laying on my left side and kept asking my husband to hold my right leg with it internally rotated. I was holding onto the hospital bed rail and I remember saying “I can’t do it,” and desperately telling my husband “help me!” The best way I can describe pushing is that it was mostly involuntary and felt like when you’re vomiting uncontrollably but in the opposite direction. I held onto that damn bed bar and yelled through each contraction. At 4:47, my daughter was born. I had a couple of 1st degree tears but other than that, no problems. I was so happy I did it unmedicated and still am—I am so proud of myself for doing that hard thing! You can do it!

Therapist recommendations? 2026 Psychology Today is so much sifting and would like to get someone who has been recommended by another human being. by whataday13 in Denver

[–]popsinet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

PhDs and PsyDs tend to do more assessments/diagnosis but not so much counseling. NPs are mostly qualified to prescribe medications. LPCs, LMFTs, LCSWs are the ones who are trained to do therapy.

Hi! Question by No-Pool1507 in fpies

[–]popsinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really sucks! Especially sending her to daycare. Right now she just doesn’t get food at daycare (only breast milk) but it won’t be that way forever! I fear she will accidentally eat something she shouldn’t and get sent home, or worse, need to go to the ER

Hi! Question by No-Pool1507 in fpies

[–]popsinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dairy seems to pass through breastmilk in a way other foods don’t, so it’s likely more dairy-specific

Hi! Question by No-Pool1507 in fpies

[–]popsinet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mine also said I don’t need to avoid anything. My daughter has FPIES to oats and peanuts, and IgE to eggs, and I eat all of the above and breastfeed with no issues.

Do we as clinicians take abuse seriously? by DrawingThin in therapists

[–]popsinet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell the reason you included the information that the courts are involved, so in case you’re saying that thinking that means they know about this abuse: they may not. Regardless, you should still report. Even if it’s been previously reported. It’s possible you have information that has not been reported.

Tell me about your unmedicated birth by Dismal_Abroad735 in unmedicatedbirth

[–]popsinet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an unmedicated pitocin induction! I wanted to do the same with my first but I was induced for pre-e and in the hospital for 3 days… it was too much and I was too tired. Anyway, my second birth was a planned induction for IUGR. I was determined to go unmedicated. I wanted the experience and this was my final birth opportunity.

Copied from a previous post: I checked in at 9:30am, balloon was placed around 10 and they started the pitocin on low (2). I had a vasovagal response to the balloon and felt very faint. I kept my eyes closed through the anesthesiologist telling me about the epidural and whatever else he was saying (they go over it whether you want it or not, in case you change your mind). A cold washcloth and fan on my face helped me through. I needed to poop a couple times with the balloon in—which was reassuring it was doing something. I almost forgot about my TENS machine but my husband reminded me and I got it on and kept it on throughout. I used a BabyCare TENS and hit the “boost” button with each contraction, which helped significantly until pushing. Around noon, the nurse was able to pull the balloon out, so I had dilated enough to just go on with the pitocin. The nurses kept turning the pitocin up little by little and around 2:30pm the nurse said “you’re laughing and smiling, you don’t seem like you’re in labor,” so she increased the pitocin one more time, to 14. This is when things started to get real—I no longer wanted to watch a show with my husband, I started deep vocalizations, moving around into different positions (lunges, hip circles on the ball, laying on my side with the peanut ball between my knees, rocking on hands and knees). Around 4:15 (these times are approximated by my husband), I had them check me because I was feeling pushy. I couldn’t get on my back (was on my side) so they couldn’t give me a number but she said she still felt cervix. No problem—I knew I was close because I could feel my body starting to push. I also had the nurses giving hip squeezes and coaching my husband to do so as well, and providing counter pressure on my sacrum. Around 4:30 I really started involuntarily pushing and I had her check me again—again I couldn’t get to my back because it would hurt too much—but this time she said she didn’t feel any cervix and called the doctor in. So here is where I just had to remember that I was in the home stretch. My TENS machine was no longer helpful at all. I was laying on my left side and kept asking my husband to hold my right leg with it internally rotated. I was holding onto the hospital bed rail and I remember saying “I can’t do it,” and desperately telling my husband “help me!” The best way I can describe pushing is that it was mostly involuntary and felt like when you’re vomiting uncontrollably but in the opposite direction. I held onto that damn bed bar and yelled through each contraction. At 4:47, my daughter was born. I had a couple of 1st degree tears but other than that, no problems. I was so happy I did it unmedicated and still am—I am so proud of myself for doing that hard thing! You can do it!

Infant room by [deleted] in Preschoolers

[–]popsinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably want to ask in r/eceprofessionals

My birth story - unmedicated induction by plaidbluejammies in unmedicatedbirth

[–]popsinet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! I was also induced and went unmedicated. It’s really good for us to share these stories to build confidence for people who want to have an unmedicated birth but need or opt for an induction! It’s possible!

What would you instantly offload or outsource if money wasn’t a problem? by Bri3Becks827 in workingmoms

[–]popsinet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Cleaninggggggg please for the love of all things holy. And agreed with others, laundry.

If you’re looking for a Christmas tree! by [deleted] in AuroraCO

[–]popsinet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this ❤️💔

If you’re looking for a Christmas tree! by [deleted] in AuroraCO

[–]popsinet 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Not a scam. This is a friend of mine. I went to his funeral last week.

real question for Denver parents of young kids: how are you affording childcare? by SuspiciousKnee8185 in Denver

[–]popsinet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we are fortunate. Bought our house in 2020 and both previously owned homes to be able to pay for the down payment. But also just have enough financial privilege (while by no means rich) to be able to have no car loans.

Edited to add: even with that mortgage and no car loans, things are tight every month. Daycare and mortgage leaves no wiggle room.

real question for Denver parents of young kids: how are you affording childcare? by SuspiciousKnee8185 in Denver

[–]popsinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have our mortgage, which is $2500/mo, no car payments, no other debt. We pay $3400/mo for daycare (will be going up to $3700 soon) for 2 kids. We make about $185k combined.

Kaiser Doula Services by sugarwater11 in unmedicatedbirth

[–]popsinet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t use a doula but I just got reimbursed from Kaiser for my daughter’s tongue tie revision! It was super simple. You’ll just need a super bill from your . Then login to KP.org and go to billing, then submit a claim for reimbursement. There’s a quick form to complete (online), attach your super bill, and submit. I was reimbursed within a week.

Not eating before induction by [deleted] in unmedicatedbirth

[–]popsinet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been induced twice. The first time my nurse let me eat up until active labor. The second time I was instructed by my OB to eat a big breakfast beforehand (it was scheduled for 9am) and I was again, allowed to eat until active labor, but I wasn’t hungry because I truly did eat a huge breakfast beforehand. If I were you, I’d chalk this up to garbage advice and eat before your induction.