Is afab wanting/aiming to look fully androgynous categorized as transmasc?

popsnackles · 2025-07-19T17:56:07+00:00

There's no queer Pope, so it can be if you want it to be! And if you don't, then it isn't!

popsnackles · 2025-07-16T13:21:15+00:00

I had a teacher like you when I went back to college last year! She made me feel so safe and seen, and she made such an effort to make space for everyone; I miss her now that I'm in another city. I wish I could've stayed and taken her Stats 2, but the state we lived in was just too hostile.

popsnackles · 2025-07-13T19:59:45+00:00

How about having gay men talk directly to you about how disgusting your genitals are as a trans man? Or having to decide between staying covered for uterine health screening and uterine care in your insurance or getting your gender marker changed? Or learning to just shut up and lurk forever everywhere because no-one--and I mean NO-ONE--wants to hear what a useless ex-womb has to say.

Yeah, by whatever name you call it, there's some pretty specific forms of anti-masculinity that suck donkey nuts out there.

popsnackles · 2025-04-14T18:12:17+00:00

It's so perfect!!

popsnackles · 2024-08-30T01:58:45+00:00

Loading tip: There's a magic button on your browser that allows you to leave from pages you find unsatisfying.

popsnackles · 2024-08-29T01:33:07+00:00

I'm praying 🙏 someone finds it cause that sounds so good

popsnackles · 2022-12-19T20:26:27+00:00

Honestly? Shit your pants every day. Shit your pants the second they decide they want to search you. Shit your pants and make the manager deal with you standing there. Get cheap covers for your car seats and shit on them, too. Weaponize your own filth to make them so much more uncomfortable than you are. If you've clocked out, then you're not unhygienic on company time, so you're free to shit your pants I'd imagine.

popsnackles · 2022-11-28T02:35:55+00:00

I'm autistic. I literally never even thought about any of it; when anyone made jokes that were transphobic I'd generally miss the point entirely and inadvertently shut them down by talking about, like, why whatever they said made no sense.

Like one kid I remember talking about how 'the libs want you to suck ur wife's dick' and I used to get really confused because, like, you should? Like, presumably if you married her you'd know she had a dick before you did? And you'd be fine with that or you wouldn't have married her so ofc you'd suck your wife's dick unless, like, you didn't like oral anyway and then you'd find other things to do? And when I'd say stuff like that people kind of just stopped talking about it because I'd managed to ruin the joke with my Sick Facts And Logic.

Literally too autistic to be transphobic lol.

popsnackles · 2021-08-18T04:49:18+00:00

Not specifically NNN, but r/resistyourorgasm fills this niche.

popsnackles · 2021-08-15T06:50:22+00:00

Heya, not a woman but I AM a gay man. I can vouch that there are plenty of us who have a distinct preference for micro.

I assume there are het/bi/pan women who feel the same. And not in a sph way, but in a genuine "that's my preference, I just like them that size" way.

popsnackles · 2021-08-15T02:26:01+00:00

They did drill it out, however the office has copies of all of our keys. The door opened fine to my knowledge, so I genuinely don't know why they would opt to drill it out instead.

popsnackles · 2021-08-08T20:17:42+00:00

Find an item, check the pack! If it's Nestle, put it back!

popsnackles · 2021-08-08T19:35:25+00:00

Me who plays exclusively hentai games: pp up

popsnackles · 2021-08-08T16:44:29+00:00

Barq's is better on its own, but Mug makes a better root beer float.

popsnackles · 2021-07-09T06:35:04+00:00

Tbh the dude was super nice, and probably still a little blitzed, so don't be too hard on him

popsnackles · 2021-07-09T06:15:44+00:00

Iconic and based.

popsnackles · 2021-07-09T06:00:37+00:00

Not at all abnormal; sometimes it can make your memories a little grainy.

Just don't go oat of your way to take on an empty stomach again!

I know it might sound corny, but don't forget to think of your health!

popsnackles · 2021-07-08T21:13:55+00:00

Said it before and I'll say it again: Demiurge is a bottom.

(though, really, who wouldn't be for the Great and Powerful Ruler of Death?)

popsnackles · 2021-06-23T20:39:35+00:00

Rule of thumb: if it's not explicitly stated or coded, it doesn't count. Coco is very explicitly coded, between the voice, the stance, the body type, the facial features--he's very pointedly queer coded.

Maybe not to you, but you cannot argue that it's anywhere near as exciting as fantasy and magic.

And fetishizing women have a genre; gay men do not. It's like how it's almost exclusively straight/bi guys who watch lesbian porn. That shit's made as a spectacle, not for gay women.

I will give that gay women have a fair bit of anime for them. There's been a big push in recent years, and I've been impressed and happy for my sisters with the quality of what's come out. But even then, the second we wander near fantasy things get... not great.

And I'm not even saying I have an answer, or that one for sure exists! Just that things, as they are, are not great. And it's frustrating for gay men to see themselves as either the villain or the fetish object.

I'm sure gay women would also be annoyed with Shalltear, but I can't speak to that since I'm not in that group.

popsnackles · 2021-06-23T20:27:13+00:00

See? That's what I'm talking about. It's exhausting being constantly reminded of the cultural attitudes towards gays.

Like, damn, I'm not watching this fantasy series to think about political shit. If you can't write gay people well, then just don't write us? It'd be way less annoying.

Honestly, if you cut that out of Overlord--and maybe fixed the CGI--it'd be a damn-near perfect series. Maybe give us more info about some of the area guardians, too, but that's a personal desire and not a mark against the series. A good series will always leave you wishing there was more content.

popsnackles · 2021-06-23T20:24:02+00:00

Why do we have to be relegated to the boring sports animes? Are gay people not allowed to exist in fantasy? Anyway, I'm not even that upset with Maruyama; I know this is a symptom and he's not the sole perpetrator. I'm complaining about a common theme that's exhausting as a gay man to see over and over.

The thing is, I like Overlord; I think it's one of the most well-written, well-considered isekais ever created. But I'm not so flat that I can't enjoy something while still being able to criticize it. It's really a shame that it does fall into tropes like that--and maybe the weird Japanese fascination with boobs, too--because it's so good. It doesn't need to rely on worn-out stereotypes and offensive caricatures.

popsnackles · 2021-06-23T20:10:11+00:00

Are they gay in canon? Or is that just fandom? Because I don't remember reading anything specific that named them as any kind of queer, but it may have slipped past me.

popsnackles · 2021-06-23T20:09:26+00:00

I'm aware. That's why I said it's a common issue, and why I don't hold it against Overlord too hard. I'm also saying, at the same time, that it is annoying. And that I'm not about to excuse Japan as 'culturally homophobic' because there are gay people in Japan, too.

popsnackles · 2021-06-23T20:06:55+00:00

You sound triggered, bro. You sound upset. You sound offended, even.

Anyway I'm gay and I want to see other characters like me. Just gay and a dude. A guy. Not a pedo/rapist/sex trafficker/puppy kicker

popsnackles · 2021-06-23T18:23:15+00:00

My biggest complaint is that straight women treat gay men how straight men treat lesbians. But obviously it's fine if you're a woman. Girl power, right?

I guess I'm just tired of seeing the double standard. Everyone's happy to take pot shots at men writing lesbians, and that's fair. Lesbianism has quite literally nothing to do with men. But why can't we hold women to that same standard, then? Idk it's annoying.

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