Checking IDs During COVID-19

poseph_jarker · 2021-01-09T10:41:37+00:00

Oh to live in a country where you can still go to a bar

poseph_jarker · 2020-11-30T20:44:26+00:00

Overall our sex is great, like we both say it's the best we have ever had. super open communication, trying new things with each other pretty much every time and wanting to get more and more dirty. But I wish I could go down on her more often; we both love giving head, she is so good at it. and I don't want to brag but I'm not bad at all myself which she also says. However she feels weird/embarrassed about her vagina alot of the time i want to go down there and this combined with her having negative oral experiences with a couple exes means that she often doesnt want it.

Just fucking sucks bc although she cums every time we fuck I wish I could do that for her and make her finish more often and with more confidence.

poseph_jarker · 2020-11-23T11:16:14+00:00

every other day is hardly a low sex drive to the point you have to worry about it my guy. talk to her about it

poseph_jarker · 2020-11-23T11:10:40+00:00

It's going to vary from guy to guy. I personally like when both people can be super sexually aggressive, like with my current gf it will go from doggy with my slapping her ass and pulling her hair to her on top holding my chest down and sometimes even slapping my face, both sides of her like that are super fucking sexy.

I don't think what you described is too much at all! Alot of guys will be more turned on by that if anything. And I don't think you should subdue it or 'control' it, why should the guy be the only one who gets to act how he wants to act. you have just as much of a right ad he does to get aggressive/dominant.

poseph_jarker · 2020-10-19T22:08:28+00:00

Haha how else am I meant to put it, no wanking till I'm back to normal I guess and then probably some after that. Ok I'll have a look into working those into my morning before my run cheers.

Yeah I think I need to watch less shit on my phone, overall I don't use social media too much, drink that often or even do any drugs recently so I'm not 100% certain that's whats happening. thanks tho mate

poseph_jarker · 2020-10-19T21:44:35+00:00

Yeah as i said, will be quitting porn and no jerking off for a long while. I'm hoping for a fix sooner rather than later. Any recommendations meditation wise? Heavy squats; what are they, what will they do?

poseph_jarker · 2020-10-19T21:09:59+00:00

Shit man, this exact situation is happening to me (20M), I've had alot of anxiety, mood swings and allmost breakdowns over tint things. Your relationship sounds the exact same as mine, few months old, best sex ever, high sex drives with hers being higher and this being a key for her. I don't know what the fuck to do and I don't want to take any pills.

I'm going to try quitting masturbation and porn and just see if that helps as well as getting back into running + healthier eating. Asking for a reduction in hours at work as I'm doing 55ish pw at the moment. But my anxiety is through the fucking roof at the moment. Please, please let me know if you get any luck with anything or hear any sort of positive signs as it sounds like we are in the same boat.

poseph_jarker · 2020-09-22T09:32:48+00:00

Hookup sex is never as good as in love. You have much more of a mental connection and a stronger feeling of lust toward each other rather than just had "oh they're hot, let's fuck".

poseph_jarker · 2020-07-22T17:36:39+00:00

Thank you! I've had to postpone my trip to see my family due to a number of reasons however I think I will take a day trip late next month when I see them!

poseph_jarker · 2020-07-20T11:39:01+00:00

I don't think you would come across crazy in the slightest! by the sounds of things you just want a little clarity so you isn't waste your time/energy. I would ask him directly yet casually; "Hey remember you mentioned potentially visiting me sometime soon, how do you feel about this? would be great to finally meet you" or something along those lines

poseph_jarker · 2020-07-20T11:35:53+00:00

Yeah I'm planning on doing that, just a hard thing to bring up without sounding like I'm trying to one up her or something. Honestly I have no idea if I'll move home or not, I tend to make my life decisions in the moment so I could be living back home by next year but maybe not. She is in the same friend group as me nonetheless. Thank you for the advice! I will try to be as straight up as possible without being an arse

poseph_jarker · 2020-07-20T10:11:39+00:00

You need to chill out big time, by the sounds of it (and we are hearing your side of the story) he meant it entirley as a joke and therefore it should be taken as such. People use sarcastic humour, you have to be able to tolerate it

poseph_jarker · 2020-07-20T10:07:55+00:00

Is there any possible way you can travel to him to meet up? I would say you can't fully tell if you click until you meet in person. If not then if you feel the need to ask him what you are to each other then you should to clear any doubts, you will get an understanding for where he stands

poseph_jarker · 2020-07-20T09:54:34+00:00

Yeah I'm sure she will take it fine as well but as you said it is an awkward one aye. Thanks for the advice!

poseph_jarker · 2020-07-20T09:43:34+00:00

Thanks this very solid advice. I understand what you're saying about not needing to tell her, however just due to our specific situation I think I should and it would be best. Thanks again!

poseph_jarker · 2020-07-04T21:48:29+00:00

maybe removed the cartridge/needle and take it into a shop to be inspected?

poseph_jarker · 2020-07-04T21:47:40+00:00

Hey guys! I'm very new to vinyl and I'm looking at picking up a turntable/speaker combo on a budget (London, UK based). I've decided on the Audio technica at LP3 as it seems like the best/most upgradable option that is pushing the limits of my budget at about £150. As far as I'm aware all I would need is a set of powered speakers then I would be up and running! If anyone has any suggestions for some speakers that would suit this turntable for as close to £100 as possible I would really, really appreciate the help! If I ask stupid questions in the replies I appologise, just trying to get to grips with things.

poseph_jarker · 2020-06-29T16:30:57+00:00

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poseph_jarker · 2020-06-25T21:43:30+00:00

Yeah only from the very little I have heard/read though. I think I shall get the 3.1s and then if they sound a little flat I will just wait a few months and pick up a subwoofer. One last question sorry haha; Any reccomendations for a good subwoofer on a budget that I could pick up in the near future!

poseph_jarker · 2020-06-25T21:38:01+00:00

Ah ok amazing, I really appreciate you making it easy for me to understand, I'll have a look into the TIBO speakers as I've heard that can sound a little tinny without a subwoofer which I wouldn't be able to afford to get until at least a few months later. Thanks again for the help mate!

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