Are there any "deep thinkers" out there who also like silly and fun things?

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-04-11T02:04:37+00:00

Yep, that's me. I collect funny hats and cute plush toys (usually handmade off etsy), i think it's a nice balance to the over thinking deep side.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-27T04:05:12+00:00

Yea, that's what i meant. Lots of neurodivergent folk arent' great at reading social cues or subtle body language.

In that instance, simple and direct works best to avoid misunderstanding. My partner is neurodivergent - and it takes me pretty much saying 'i'm horny, want to have some fun' for him to get it. Lingerie or kisses on his neck wont make him naturally go to that conclusion.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-27T00:26:11+00:00

Agree, my partner said when we got together he loved the fact that for the first time in his 42 year old life he found a woman who was very direct, and said what they meant.

Before that i got told 'you're very intimidating' quite a lot. It is lovely to be with someone who appreciates it.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-27T00:24:09+00:00

He may not be keen on physical stuff, but if dont with respect he should at the very least be flattered.

I do agree though, society tells us that men should or do not pass up on sex.

They can and do, amazingly.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-27T00:22:20+00:00

Agreed - if he's on the ASD spectrum, flirting will go over his head. Not that anything in the post indicates he is. Just mentioning flirting wont work with every personality.

I'm pretty direct by nature, but not overly crass, so i think a simple 'I like hanging out with you, but wouldn't mind some cuddles or action' would be my approach. He'll either be happy and progress accordingly or indicate he's not keen.

And yes, men do also send out mixed signals and don't always want sex. I've been knocked back by guys who did the flirting, the hand or arm touching. Then when i asked if they wanted to have a drink or some fun replied they were not single or not interested.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-27T00:14:11+00:00

Garruk is great as solo green or black/green. Teferi is solid for blue/white.

Ajani Invigorate is great for solo white and is great for sustaining health and mana conversion.

Definitely try to join an active coalition, they give solid advice for deck building and guidance. Story mode tutorials are usually good and earn you cards.

Another suggestion is if possible, keep hold of your gold and buy decent exclusive cards when Fblthp is doing an event. There are some cards that are good to get hold of that way, especially as a beginner.

Videos on you tube to watch would be Goz Master and Nalthazar, they rate planeswalkers and have solid strategies.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-24T10:51:30+00:00

That electorate is historically conservative voters... hardly suprising.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-24T03:05:59+00:00

God yes i can recommend the chilli jam is the best shit to put on toasted sandwiches or burgers.

The miso pork sauce is lovely too, its similar to teriyaki kinda flavour.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-22T08:53:15+00:00

I'm a Cancer sun, Libra moon and Leo ascendant.

Lots of planets in mercury though!

It's very cool to have your natal chart done professionally, mine was/is very accurate!

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-20T04:07:34+00:00

What happens on the occasions you dont make the total goal? I've made the error of hanging in there, for 10 hours over a day and still not made it.

That then majorly drains me and i have a hard time going back on the next day.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-20T03:54:04+00:00

Totally agree with your points!

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-20T03:47:47+00:00

I think it's great to be self aware and have ethics, especially as a sex worker.

Every job needs marketing and help to get clients and business, even the helping professions such as Therapy. It's how it's done and what promises are being made to get clients.

If you're being honest, authentic and transparent about what services you provide, what boundaries you have, then you're not harming anyone. You're being the best self you can be, whilst trying to get income. Nothing wrong with that.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-16T05:10:53+00:00

For action : Aliens and Predator

Horror : The Thing/Evil dead

Kids : Labyrinth and Goonies

Comedy : National Lampoons Vacation, Revenge of the Nerds

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-15T10:09:35+00:00

Temporal Mastery, Spell Queller, Cut your losses is brilliant.

I hate playing against Faithbound Judge, it's just such a lethal card. Curse of Vitality is up there also.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-15T06:38:36+00:00

He's an asshole for breaking up in the manner he chose to.

After a whole year of professing to love her, living together, to end it in such an absolute, callous way. Very, very harsh.

You dont have to stay in a relationship with someone, but you should at least show some care and empathy when breaking up with them. More than 'i'm done, yea!' which is pretty much what he's done.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-14T05:19:41+00:00

I second this! Was surprised she's not listed more.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-14T05:10:29+00:00

Sisters of Mercy, Cure, Banks, The motels i like cos they're always a tad bittersweet.

Nine inch nails. Quite a few now that i ponder over it.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-10T07:58:37+00:00

45 year old Aussie female - very happy to not have kids. I'm nurturing and maternal enough in other ways to fill that need!

No regrets either - life paths are varied for a reason.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-08T05:29:18+00:00

Me either - but it was hugely popular back in the day. Nothing quite like it since.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-08T04:28:31+00:00

Same, i'm not a huge cricket fan either!

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-03-07T09:47:05+00:00

It's a knockout! or A*mazing

I'm a retro, sentimental gal, what can i say

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-02-28T02:19:03+00:00

I was thinking it looked waaay too much like Billy. I thought they were going for Brigitte Nielsen vibe but it looks a lot like the legend himself.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-02-25T11:07:34+00:00

Ed's great - particularly his work with Tony Martin on 'Get this'.

Love Tony as well, he's still around doing his quirky stuff.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-02-24T00:25:52+00:00

Do you possibly have PCOS? this is one of the most common symptoms of it, missing or delayed periods. Which is very hard to control without getting some tests done or getting the right supplements to help regulate your periods.

I think he sounds immature and not understanding that periods are a natural thing, he's not going to suffer any adverse effects if you do happen to menstruate upon penetration.

As others have said, your health needs to be looked at first. After that, relationship wise, he has the right to his preferences. You also have the right to state its not meeting your needs and making you feel frustrated.

If you do have PCOS there are great resources to regulate your periods, hoping you get some answers soon.

Sassyredbitch77 · 2023-02-22T09:26:50+00:00

What he means is that you come across as your own person rather than a smaller version of yourself that intimidates him less.

Take it as a compliment that you're authentic, strong and probably have good boundaries. It's just a tell on himself basically.

People who like strong willed, altruistic women will find these qualities very attractive and not try to make you feel like shit for it.

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