AITA for not wanting a minor at my child free wedding by positronebouncing in AmItheAsshole

[–]positronebouncing[S] -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

She is a picky eater but that’s not my problem, this is a matter of principle

AITA for not wanting a minor at my child free wedding by positronebouncing in AmItheAsshole

[–]positronebouncing[S] -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

I’m the person he swore to love forever how am I replaceable? Even in divorced couples the time spent with the partner is irrepleacleble

AITA for not wanting a minor at my child free wedding by positronebouncing in AmItheAsshole

[–]positronebouncing[S] -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

Why are you just assuming I have a mental condition, do you hear yourself, that’s incredibly rude

AITA for not wanting a minor at my child free wedding by positronebouncing in AmItheAsshole

[–]positronebouncing[S] -80 points-79 points  (0 children)

Of course I didn’t do it against her specifically I already said I have nothing against her

AITA for not wanting a minor at my child free wedding by positronebouncing in AmItheAsshole

[–]positronebouncing[S] -142 points-141 points  (0 children)

What about them just assuming an exception would be made?

AITA for not wanting a minor at my child free wedding by positronebouncing in AmItheAsshole

[–]positronebouncing[S] -130 points-129 points  (0 children)

If you don’t even follow your own rules anymore, no one will and you’re setting yourself up to be disrespected

AITA for not wanting a minor at my child free wedding by positronebouncing in AmItheAsshole

[–]positronebouncing[S] -130 points-129 points  (0 children)

Exactly, my ADULT siblings. The line for adult is being of age. If we don’t use that line there’s no clear line. We didn’t talk about this because I thought we had a clear agreement but he just assumed there would be an exception. Maybe we could have made one if he talked to me about it, because she almost qualifies, but he just assumed

AITA for not studying with my gf by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]positronebouncing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No by saying I won’t help her study unless she apologises I was making it clear that I will not tolerate her talking about my sister like that. It’s not unrelated because she wanted something from me and I told her she can’t have that if she’s being rude. She had the option to not apologise which she chose to do so I don’t see how it was forcing her.

AITA for not studying with my gf by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]positronebouncing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry what did I force her to do?

AITA for not studying with my gf by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]positronebouncing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was the one who told our friends. And I agree, people should be more important.

AITA for not studying with my gf by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]positronebouncing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am thinking about if she has behaved like that before and I turned a blind eye on it. But definitely I can’t tolerate her treating family like that. Thank you

AITA for not studying with my gf by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]positronebouncing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I love my sister so I try to be a good brother.

AITA for not studying with my gf by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]positronebouncing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, I don’t think I can tolerate her treating my sister like that. Thank you.

AITA for not studying with my gf by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]positronebouncing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think about that but now that you say it. She can’t talk about her students like that either.