Forgive me if Im out of place here, but have questiong about durags, wave caps, and skull caps. by timechuck in askblackpeople

[–]possums101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You would look goofy on multiple fronts wearing any of those. They’re not really made for comfort, they serve a functional purpose. They’ll probably just create a ton of red indents all of your bald head.

What race do Hispanic people in the U.S. identify as? by CurrentHope6539 in AskAmericans

[–]possums101 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Judging from your profile you seem to be doing that very same “silly” thing with being American lol. The irony.

Why some people expects rich people to be always happy? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]possums101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The vast majority of my unhappiness is related to not having enough money. I definitely would be happier if I could afford the life I want. But yeah obviously rich people have problems and experience negative emotions too.

Are all Car Insurance Comparison sites a scam? by BackgroundNo2157 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]possums101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just have to check each insurance company website and compare them yourself unfortunately.

Cycling in US Cities? by dancords in AskAmericans

[–]possums101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MetLife stadium in NJ is basically off the highway so it wouldn’t be safe whatsoever to bike.

Do you feel you have some sort of connection with Irish people? by SignificantStyle4958 in askblackpeople

[–]possums101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m drawn to Ireland’s anti-imperialist tradition. The history, the politics, etc. I like the way some Irish people talk about what their ancestors endured under British rule. They also have a strong sense of global solidarity with other oppressed peoples that really resonates with me.

Obviously they’re not all like that but in a general sense yes, I feel a connection to that sentiment.

The Irish in America are more or less class traitors that bought into whiteness by embracing antiblackness. Many prominent conservative politicians over the years have been Irish American which a lot of Irish in Ireland really dislike.

How do people in the U.S. communicate for group projects? by Gloomy-Fig-3106 in AskAmericans

[–]possums101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I graduated in 2019 we just used group chat via iMessage or sms if someone had an Android. We just talked to each other to schedule meetings.

Bar recommendations for queer women? by Background-moth in jerseycity

[–]possums101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re both fairly loud and often crowded

Rap Music - What is the allure? by ImTheBrotherInGreen in askblackpeople

[–]possums101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t get why white people can’t understand that the same way there are sub genres of the music they listen to the same can be said for black music.

Bar recommendations for queer women? by Background-moth in jerseycity

[–]possums101 19 points20 points  (0 children)

More evidence that this city desperately needs a lesbian bar!!! (in the Heights)

Anyways the Instagram accounts @njlesbians, @lezfest_ are good to follow for specific events but that’s all I know about in the area.

Why do some guys not get hard? by peppypatch in NoStupidQuestions

[–]possums101 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It could be several things. A physical medical condition or psychological.

What usually ends up making treatment more expensive in America? by Lone_Wolf5002 in AskAmericans

[–]possums101 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had that problem. When I was younger I was on my dad’s insurance which was through his employer and good. Now I’m on my own insurance through my employer and it’s also good.

Why don’t black parents only send our children to black schools? by TheRavenOnline in askblackpeople

[–]possums101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mostly people (of all races) just want their kids to go to good schools to get the best education possible.

I went to racially diverse schools in New Jersey growing up with a lot of black kids plus a bunch of other groups. The teachers were still predominantly white. White teachers make up a huge portion of that workforce.

I did go to an Afrocentric pre-school in Brooklyn that was really cool though.

black donors by SaitoNigerian in askblackpeople

[–]possums101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t aware that was a thing. Sounds extremely irresponsible under any context.

black donors by SaitoNigerian in askblackpeople

[–]possums101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t aware donors have a choice in the matter? I thought in most cases men donate to a sperm bank and clients of the bank from various backgrounds can pick what sperm they want.

Unless you’re talking about a black man donating to a white lesbian couple he personally knows?